Should single mothers marry single dads?

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

This how you talk to dhocil?

 

[Angelina]

You are a single mom

Billa akhlaq kulaha you are the one that has a big.mouth go take your toxic femnism and blm somewhere else.

How cant I not defend myself?

Again, you need to resort to lies, first I’m with abu Tyrone and now I’m a single mum. Everyone on this forum know I recently married LOL.

Toxic feminism? Saying you lot are billa aklaaq for insulting people for no reason and gossiping?!

take your redpill nonsense out of here

 

[Angelina]

They marry for Visa or Sponsorship to western countries, Single Motherhood is shunned within Somali community, but good for guys who want 1+ wives

I’m talking about single mothers marrying ordinary guys they live in the same country as.

Single mothers are not shunned like I said we are not Asians. They are shunned by young guys like yourself who are programmed by Andrew Tate and redpill

Back home single mothers get married everyday. Like If you’ve been back how and know our traditional culture you’d know this.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Again, you need to resort to lies, first I’m with abu Tyrone and now I’m a single mum. Everyone on this forum know I recently married LOL.

Toxic feminism? Saying you lot are billa aklaaq for insulting people for no reason and gossiping?!

take your redpill nonsense out of here

Naah you come out as a loud mouthed individual with anger issues.

You have the akhlaq of jamaican AA women.

What is akhlaq to you horta?
You give it out to people as it is a token.

If you came from the streets dont think you are lady.

 

[Angelina]

Naah you come out as a loud mouthed individual with anger issues.

You have the akhlaq of jamaican AA women.

What is akhlaq to you horta?
You give it out to people as it is a token.

If you came from the streets dont think you are lady.

Yes, you’d be loud mouthed when you’re dealing with billa aklaaq individuals who simply want to insult, insult and demean.

did I @ you first or did you @ me? That will tell you everything. Don’t start stuff and then get angry when people defend themselves.
look at yourself first and actually understand how ugly your behaviors are.

 

[Jungle]

Single mother with 1 toddler. Anything other than I'm not going. And whats a single dad? 95% of Faraxs are not in their childs lives regularly and if the ex had left the children with the farax no xalimo will go near him when it comes to marriage anyway (in the west)

Let me not forget alot of xalimos are evil af when it comes to stepkids who actuallly live with them.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Yes, you’d be load mouthed when you’re dealing with billa aklaaq individuals who simply want to insult, insult and demean.

What do you get out of that? Did I create a thread trying to insult single father men? Am I gossiping about who they should marry?

look at yourself first and actually understand how ugly your behaviors are.

Did I create this thread.

I have seen you in several posts and you seem to be a loose cannon talking about somali men or cricising sheikhs.

What do you get out of this.

The only ugly behaviour is your loud mouth and daddy issues.

If you have somali issues well marry out.

I respect somali women that marry ajnabi men but dont use any platform to cricise somali men they simply move on.
But for the single moms I have seen on social media talking shit about men yet 80% of the problems is caused by them.
If you think you can talk shit to a man like this and want him to keep up with your garbage then no somali would unless you are looking for a somali man like will smith which is very rare.

Font try playing psycho drama.

 

[Yankee]

Single mother with 1 toddler. Anything other than I'm not going. And whats a single dad? 95% of Faraxs are not in their childs lives regularly and if the ex had left the children with the farax no xalimo will go near him when it comes to marriage anyway (in the west)

Let me not forget alot of xalimos are evil af when it comes to stepkids who actuallly live with them.

Why are you putting a limit on how many children she can have though? Every Somali household is different, some fathers are actively present in their children’s lives and some are nowhere to be found. I do agree with one point however, evil step mothers are definitely a problem in the Somali community. They have so many stories about it it’s ridiculous.

 

[Angelina]

Did I create this thread.

I have seen you in several posts and you seem to be a loose cannon talking about somali men or cricising sheikhs.

Show me several posts of me criticizing sheikhs. I’ve made one comment about how talking about a particular parliament member can result in their deaths that is it. Generally speaking I have a lot of respect for Ulema.

What do you get out of this.

The only ugly behaviour is your loud mouth and daddy issues.

Insulting single mothers is what exactly? Mummy issues? Insulting older women? Talking about Western Somali women as though they’re ran though? Most of my posts I’m defending against the insults of women so why am I the bad guy here and not the billa aklaaq guys who start this. Have I ever started insulting Somali men for no reason?! Look at all my posts I’m usually in defense mode.

If you have somali issues well marry out.

I respect somali women that marry ajnabi men but dont use any platform to cricise somali men they simply move on.
But for the single moms I have seen on social media talking shit about men yet 80% of the problems is caused by them.

Show me on this platform of single mothers insulting men. it is literally young unmarried men talking shit about older women, single mothers ect for no reason. Why do you support this?

If you think you can talk shit to a man like this and want him to keep up with your garbage then no somali would unless you are looking for a somali man like will smith which is very rare.

when have I spoken badly about Somali men badly for no reason. Do you see
create threads about short men? Broke men? Ect. I criticize Sexist men who think they can mistreat women. That is it and not all Somali men are like that. So does a woman talking like that threaten you? Do all Somali men insult single mothers or talk down to women? Why would you conflate that terrible behavior with ALL Somali men?!

If you think you can talk shit to a man like this and want him to keep up with your garbage then no somali would unless you are looking for a somali man like will smith which is very rare.

Font try playing psycho drama.

Show me one thread in which I bash Somali men for no reason? No I talk about the bad ones who think they can insult and look down on women.

Right now did I bash all Somali men or the ones that Insult single mothers? This literally had nothing to do with all Somali men but about the guys here on this forum.

If you’re honest, you’d know the difference.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Show me several posts of me criticizing sheikhs. I’ve made one comment about how talking about a particular parliament member can result in their deaths that is it.

Insulting single mothers is what exactly? Mummy issues?

Show me on this platform of single mothers insulting men. it is literally young unmarried men talking shit about older women, single mothers ect for no reason. Why do you support this?

If you think you can talk shit to a man like this and want him to keep up with your garbage then no somali would unless you are looking for a somali man like will smith which is very rare.

when have I spoken badly about Somali men badly for no reason. Do you see create threads about short men? Broke men? Ect. I criticize Sexist men who think they can mistreat women. That is it and not all Somali men are like that. So does a woman talking like that threaten you? Do all Somali men insult single mothers or talk down to women? Why would you conflate that terrible behavior with ALL Somali men?!








Show me one thread in which I bash Somali men for no reason? No I talk about the bad ones who think they can insult and look down on women.

Right now did I bash all Somali men or the ones that Insult single mothers?

If you’re honest, you’d know the difference.

Adhiga iyo inda adheyg are cajiib.

You want me to post every thread you are judgemental and loudmouthed?

Come on hive me a break.
Also 80% of single moms in the western hemisphere is because of their attitude and behaviour towards their men.Then they start acting miskiin and dissing their exes.

The social media is full of loose cannonsingle moms.

I like pakistanis or south east asians they dont marry garoobs this make it hard for their women to bring nonsense to the relationship and you will hardly a single mom pakistani or indian etc cricising their men.

Well if you dont want to marry a somali man then there is alot of alternatives but dont try having higher standards for high standard men and marry a dead beat.I have seen alot of somali girls do it.

Also this is somalispot not somali calcal for their exes.
My brother once married a somali xalimo who was a devil in human flesh she put him through hell and yet told the world he was the problem.The thing is she even forced him to divorce which he did now he is married and the evil keeps texting him wanting to be a second.

 

[Angelina]

Single mother with 1 toddler. Anything other than I'm not going. And whats a single dad? 95% of Faraxs are not in their childs lives regularly and if the ex had left the children with the farax no xalimo will go near him when it comes to marriage anyway (in the west)

Let me not forget alot of xalimos are evil af when it comes to stepkids who actuallly live with them.

Adhiga iyo inda adheyg are cajiib.

You want me to post every thread you are judgemental and loudmouthed?

You know you can’t because I only ever come for Somali men who are being sexist and immoral. That is it. When have I ever come for them for no reason and insulted them all? Even when I do make comments I take care to always say some.

At this point you are straight slandering me.

Come on hive me a break.
Also 80% of single moms in the western hemisphere is because of their attitude and behaviour towards their men.Then they start acting miskiin and dissing their exes.

How do you know? Are you inside their homes and watching their day to day ups and downs? YOU are the same man that will make general comment on all single mothers but will get angry if someone says 90% of Somali men don’t look after their kids from divorce. Ask yourself why is it okay for you to slow a blanket statement but cry feminism when a woman does it.

Is that not hypocritical?

The social media is full of loose cannonsingle moms.

I like pakistanis or south east asians they dont marry garoobs this make it hard for their women to bring nonsense to the relationship and you will hardly a single mom pakistani or indian etc cricising their men.

you don’t even see how sexist you are. May Allah deal with you. Even male posters here have admitted such as jungle he literally just said 95% of divorced Somali dads have no contact with their children. There are behaviors we have as a community that does need to be critiqued, but you feel personally insulted if someone is honest, even if people are making sure to say Some. Yet critiquing all single mothers and women in general is fair game? But about the loose cannon men like Xaliye ect?

Do you not see how sexist and unfair you are?

Well if you dont want to marry a somali man then there is alot of alternatives but dont try having higher standards for high standard men and marry a dead beat.I have seen alot of somali girls do it.

We have high rates of divorce back home in which the women are supposedly more traditional. It is common to see girl who isn’t even 21 with kids and divorced. Some of these marriage are many times arranged even the father is choosing.

Also this is somalispot not somali calcal for their exes.
My brother once married a somali xalimo who was a devil in human flesh she put him through hell and yet told the world he was the problem.The thing is she even forced him to divorce which he did now he is married and the evil keeps texting him wanting to be a second.

Yes, I’m woman enough to admit that some women are Inkaar in human flesh, but the sad reality is that many men simply want to demean and blame women without being honest about the state of our society.

 

[Juliet]

Why are you lot obsessed with single mothers?! Like you’re young and probably unmarried, go for your what you want and call it a day.

Traditionally, people used to assume that women were the gossips, but I don’t see women concern themselves with divorced or single dads. Most would just avoid them if they dislike them.

But you people will create threads, drag them, insult them and obsess about them. Do you honestly feel that is normal?

get a flipping life. Most of you people here are sons of single mothers. Stop taking out your fatherless upbringing on random women. Find your abo back home and have a go at him.

She went straight for the throat

 

[Periplus]

get a flipping life. Most of you people here are sons of single mothers. Stop taking out your fatherless upbringing on random women. Find your abo back home and have a go at him.

This paradox can also be applied to any other hot-button social issue with Somalis and the individuals that hold the most extreme opinions on it.

 

[Yankee]

These two derailed my whole thread

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

 

[Bundasliga]

Single mother single fathers
A match made in heaven I support this idea

 

[Yankee]

Single mother single fathers
A match made in heaven I support this idea

Agreed, and if you’re like the most of us, young and you’ve never had children, find a woman, preferably a virgin who you can start a family with.

 

[Kane]

Your brother may God bless him, forgot the centuries old OG culture of putting a bilcaan in her place. He got what he deserved.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Your brother may God bless him, forgot the centuries old OG culture of putting a bilcaan in her place. He got what he deserved.

What centuries?
You have this fixation on ogaden.

Who are you anorher single mom from abu tyrone?

 

[GuanYu]

I can't even You killing me bro