Should I report to HR?

[XaawoLuul]

This colleague, a married mormon guy insists on calling me ‘nubian queen’
The guy is basically calling me Madow anigoo ah fully bloodied royal cushite and it’s starting to disturb my inner peace

Dee dhul sharci yaal baan joognaayo mar horaan candhuufi lahaay maxaa sameeyaa walalayaal? Miyaan iska dacweeyaa?

 

[land owner]

Have him arrested

 

[Apollo]

Nope.

Seems fairly innocuous.

But if he does it all the time it may seem weird and you should tell him to knock it off.

 

[Nilotufian]

Nubian ancients and modern are not Madow tho so ur good sis

 

[NotMyL]

Haa daacwaaye dofoorka, Nubian aaa? Istaqfurullah naa wuu ku caaye. Maxaa next eh? Togo? Congolese queen? Iska qaabo ninka.

 

[astorecalledkmart]

Report this baboon to Human Resources. He will deny, deny, deny so you need to be prepared for a he said-she said showdown, which is why it is preferable for you to record him saying or doing something inappropriate. Not only will you have proof against him, but you'll also be able to sue your workplace for not creating a safe working environment. The fear of a lawsuit will cause your employers to bury this assclown for you in exchange for you not escalating it any further

You have been blessed with Somali wits MashaAllah - use your God-given talents of a superior intellect to shut this fool down. This is the era of Me Too and BLM - bad PR can annihilate a business, especially when CNN and co. are always looking for their next story

 

[Tukraq]

Report this baboon to Human Resources. He will deny, deny, deny so you need to be prepared for a he said-she said showdown, which is why it is preferable for you to record him saying or doing something inappropriate. Not only will you have proof against him, but you'll also be able to sue your workplace for not creating a safe working environment. The fear of a lawsuit will cause your employers to bury this assclown for you in exchange for you not escalating it any further

You have been blessed with Somali wits MashaAllah - use your God-given talents of a superior intellect to shut this fool down. This is the era of Me Too and BLM - bad PR can annihilate a business, especially when CNN and co. are always looking for their next story

what are you talking about? why would he even deny? he didn't say anything bad in the companies outlook

 

[Apollo]

The race card and HR are very powerful. Don't waste it on small things, only use it on major cases.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Your not worthy of the title.

 

[Luciddreamer]

Why go to these extremes without talking to him first and make him understand? Dont sht where you sleep, think long term.

 

[XaawoLuul]

what are you talking about? why would he even deny? he didn't say anything bad in the companies outlook

Excuse me warya, he
1)*assumed* my identity
2)he got it wrong
3)robbed me of identifying as a noble Cushite
4)its now affecting my mental health
5)now in crisis and about to jump of a cliff

 

[Luciddreamer]

Excuse me warya, he
1)*assumed* my identity
2)he got it wrong
3)robbed me of identifying as a noble Cushite
4)its now affecting my mental health
5)now in crisis and about to jump of a cliff

your inability to confront and react appropriately is on you

 

[XaawoLuul]

Haa daacwaaye dofoorka, Nubian aaa? Istaqfurullah naa wuu ku caaye. Maxaa next eh? Togo? Congolese queen? Iska qaabo ninka.

Adiga lee ila fahmay. Now that I think of it, I have word for this:

Racial harassment (...and it always starts small)

 

[CaliTedesse]

Wallahi I would never give a Somali women the title Nubian Queen. They don't posses the great aesthetics of a mixed race Black female or Lightskin Black female. Rather they look and have this Nordic-Indian type of body but then brown to black in color. Just look at Idris Elba's girl and you will understand.

 

[Tukraq]

Excuse me warya, he
1)*assumed* my identity
2)he got it wrong
3)robbed me of identifying as a noble Cushite
4)its now affecting my mental health
5)now in crisis and about to jump of a cliff

1)nobody would care outside gender pronouns if you live in Canada not the US
2)simple mistake, would be seen as a trivial non issue
3)not even you can identify with the language group still
4-5) seems like a personal problem and unrelated

 

[Abdalla]

Put an end on it before he calls you black.

 

[XaawoLuul]

your inability to confront and react appropriately is on you

are you saying the fact that Im now in mental health crisis is my fault?
Wow this is....’victim shaming’ isnt it??

Wow. You need a full blown lawsuit, forget HR

 

[IftiinOfLife]

record him saying this on your smart phone then go to HR



Record Everything

 

[Tukraq]

are you saying the fact that Im now in mental health crisis is my fault?
Wow this is....’victim shaming’ isnt it??

Wow. You need a full blown lawsuit, forget HR

wouldn't hold water in court, feel free to lose money litigating though

 

[Abdalla]

wouldn't hold water in court, feel free to lose money litigating though

Companies rather settle than have bad publicity. They won't put their reputation on the line for some nobody Mormon. Mormons already have anti women image, she'll win the public opinion.