Prince of Lasanod
Eid trim pending
So a girl that goes to my university is showing interest in me and she is half Turkish and half Spanish. Her mother is a revert(Spanish) and her father is a born Muslim. She is gorgeous, is religious and is smart.
I know that if I marry a non Somali, that my children alhamdulilah will be considered Somali and accepted as such since they will have a Qabiil. The girl seems to really like the Somali culture and isn't that cultural herself, so if I do go along with it and see how it goes, perhaps when we are married i could teach her Somali.
But i have a few questions:
-I don't want my children to marry a non Somali. I think that if they do, then my grand children would lose the Somali daqan and it will be over from then onwards regardless if its my son that marries out. Will the fact that this girl is not Somali itself be a problem in that?
-How accepted are girls such as herself back home. I have plans to get some property insha'allah back home and some land so by the time i have grown children, i will be able to live nicely and grow old there.
You see, personally i prefer to marry a somali but man this girl is gorgeous. How can you turn down someone like that and is interested in you? What a dilemma i'm in

I know that if I marry a non Somali, that my children alhamdulilah will be considered Somali and accepted as such since they will have a Qabiil. The girl seems to really like the Somali culture and isn't that cultural herself, so if I do go along with it and see how it goes, perhaps when we are married i could teach her Somali.
But i have a few questions:
-I don't want my children to marry a non Somali. I think that if they do, then my grand children would lose the Somali daqan and it will be over from then onwards regardless if its my son that marries out. Will the fact that this girl is not Somali itself be a problem in that?
-How accepted are girls such as herself back home. I have plans to get some property insha'allah back home and some land so by the time i have grown children, i will be able to live nicely and grow old there.
You see, personally i prefer to marry a somali but man this girl is gorgeous. How can you turn down someone like that and is interested in you? What a dilemma i'm in

