No, it isn’t because relationships are still traditional. Women still do 80% of all cooking and cleaning despite also paying as well. Actual studies/statistics show this. Gender roles within marriages haven’t ended, but women are the ones being told to pay and still look after the home which is simply taking advantage. Biologically, it doesn’t even make sense as women get pregnant. How do you know this man will look after you when you’re at your most vulnerable if he has that mentality?
Please sis. There is nothing wrong to admit where you were born or raised, and it is irrelevant here. You just don't want to bring an old-fashioned style of courtship to 21st century of dating. Please! Get on with time, sis. There is a hardly a woman in the West who would just go out with a guy while he pays for everything. She would feel insecure and actually demeaning to herself. Most of the Western women actually view that a certain type of women only do that, and there is definitely a term for it.Saxib, actual studies and statistics shows women still do the bulk of cooking,cleaning and child rearing. What on earth are you talking about? Also, we’re Somali. Do you not leave your house or have married friends? Every mother I know does the cooking and cleaning, even if they work. What are you basing this on?
I am talking about amongst Somali couples. Girls still do the cooking and cleaning. Most of us where raised by our mothers teaching us. The only difference is that we expect our husbands to help out from time to time.
What about in a relationship? You didn’t answer by question. Does the women do the cooking cleaning, birthing, breastfeeding ect AND pay?
No, only cheap men think like that. I recently got married and most of my friends are either just married or in the process. Believe me most normal Faraxs don’t talk the way you do. You listen to losers like Xaliye and think you’re IbaaxAnd it is actually good for her. The man would think this is a woman who would bring in her resources into the marriage and she would do it out of a concern for the marriage and family.
You're writing paragraphs but women always ask to go half on dates these days ...they want to be independent. I havent paid for a full date since I was 19
I can’t believe this man thinks men and women contribute to marriages equally. At this point this man wants to simply take advantage of women Wallahi.
You date cadaan feminists mate. Also, you’re a degenerate.
That is motherhood, but Roorigeg wants women to pay up if not they’re dh1los. Now that is manipulative shit if I’ve ever heard it.
the post says women not somalian women....second of all none of my friends exclusively date somalian women...we dont discriminate its 2022 nayaa
Please stop giving advice on marriage and courtship to Somalis here. While the largest Somali diaspora is in UK, you had to go all the way to Muzzmatch to meet a guy. I am pretty sure that fella aint a Somali. So the buck stops right there. No Somali I know met their spouses through dating sites. I don't know why you're stressing about getting your point being the norm; you're really an anomaly here.
That is so un-Somali. 
If a woman wanted to dig for gold, she'll go for a rich one. Not a low class man who complains about simple dinners.
I never asked for your promiscuous dating history. It seems to me the reason why you dated so many is because you kept on getting dumped. Let me give you a hint, most women aren't going go give a man that makes them pay a chance, it makes you look cheap. Create a poll, here or any other form of social media. Talk to the women in your family to see if they like it if a guy provides for them or not.
Most young Faraxs who haven't been polluted by Xaliyo and Andrew Tate do. Look at this very thread most said they would, especially if they like the girl. What on earth are you talking about.
Again, we've had the conversation. If my husband isnt Somali, then you're not Somali as well. You too were accused of being an ajnabi for sticking up for madows.
Going to dating sites to meet a guy and want to give marriage advice?
I agree to disagree with you, but you keep repeating points and attacking Angelina personally instead of defending your pov logically.I never use the word "dh1los". Why are you accusing me of something that I haven't stated? I was referring to women who take advantage of women such as "gold diggers". That is the phrase that I was referring to.
You're just beating the bushes. Just admit, your dating style is so 20th century that you haven't caught with the changing times. All of the women that I dated before marriage paid their fare share. Some of them were Somali women, some of them cadaan, North African, Lebanese, and Iranian. These young women, especially cadaan and Somali women, wanted to pay after the first meeting.
If anything can be taken from your repeated fixation on only men should pay during the courtship, that is that you're so old-fashioned that you're still part of the old world. Or it is possible that you were dating older men before you got married. So you were either dealing with "sugar-daddies" or you're part of the 20th century of dating. And that brings me to my next point.
You told us of all the dating sites, you like Muzzmatch the most. Gee, someone in UK needs to go all the way to Muzzmatch to find a hubby? Give me a break.
Going to dating sites to meet a guy and want to give marriage advice?
What do you know about the Somali community? Youve admitted to sleeping around with so many gaals. Your pool is different. No self respecting woman would go for you.
