She left her Somali fiance for a cadaan…

[Nak-Muay-Femeu]

Part of being a bad guy comes with a certain level of character that naïve and stupid women are attracted to.
Thats just life.

I wouldn't even say I was a particularly "bad guy", just uninterested. I had bigger fish to fry, i.e. my studies, my friends, gym, muay thai, partying etc. She wasn't my no.1 priority whereas the other lad literally had his mouth super glued to her arsehole lol. My point being that men/women will let others they deem to be more attractive get away with murder. The same rules don't normally apply.

Just look at the headache you have to deal with when you're seeing a particularly good looking girl vs a nice avg looking girl. You'll tolerate so much more buuq wallahi.

 

[Yaraye]

Of course my brathaar,

If my man doesn't let me be in charge of things then he's not the one for me. A good man knows that his woman will handle majority of things. He can handle the physical aspects and money making, I'll handle the money management.

And the cooking and cleaning

As long a man lets me manage his money, cooking and cleaning can be done. I'll hire an old maid to come in twice a week to do the hard things, and the simple daily stuff can be done by me. The maid better be an old/middle age lady, can't be hiring fitna into your home

 

[Yaraye]

A real man would never reveal his true finances let alone let his wife control his income. A real man would set up a “bank account” where she thinks she’s in control but in reality you have other banks, you would have the “illusion” of control

now we know to look for hidden assets while contemplating divorce.

 

[World]

I saw pictures of the poor lad, I looked like one of those Helenistic Greek god statues by comparison lol. Besides, I wasn't really "abusive", I was just a bit of an aloof prick who didn't really care about her or the relatioship. How knows, might've been different if I did make an effort

that isn’t abusive then, sometimes women even consider answering her texts a few hours late as “abusive”

 

[jemappelle]

I wouldn't even say I was a "bad guy" wallahi, just uninterested. I had bigger fish to fry, i.e. my studies, my friends, gym, muay thai etc. She wasn't my no.1 priority whereas the other lad literally had his mouth super glued to her arsehole lol. My point being men/women will let others they deem to be more attractive get away with murder. The same rules don't normally apply.

No from your perspective you weren't a bad guy, from her perspective and womens in general you were a bad boyfriend, also another thing being uninterested in a girl makes her want you more? obviously after a certain about of time they give up, but for some reason when youo have a girl, or just aren't interested in pursuing siil women just come to you, desperate nerds are like repellent for women, I think your natural attractiveness plus character can easily get you a girl with no effort, whereas a guy who has to try hard to get a girl is already at a deficit and girls can smell it from a mile away

Look at the headache you have to deal with when you're seeing a particularly good looking girl vs a nice avg looking girl. You'll tolerate so much more buuq wallahi.

maybe when your 14 or 15 you will get a pretty girl and deal with the headache(thats if you want a relationship with her[I find this peculiar] and not just a beat and delete)
But when you get older most boys realise(some don't clearly) that pretty girls usually are a headache or have something wrong, nice girl with average looks is the way to go if u want a peaceful life. pretty girls are for mash and dash

 

[jemappelle]

As long a man lets me manage his money

Why do you want to manage money?

 

[Yaraye]

Why do you want to manage money?

who doesn't

 

[jemappelle]

who doesn't

The men that you want to marry clearly

 

[Angelina]

feminisation of men is happening everywhere, one day all men will be gay or like women, and I as a man will stand out and be ridiculed for not being a batty boy.
The end of time are near

The Prophet (pbuh) said: Ahead of the Hour, greetings of Salaam will only be given to people whom one knows; commerce will become so widespread that a woman will help her husband in trade ...”

Musnad Ahmad – Vol 3, Hadeeth 3870

@TekNiKo @Abdisamad

It has nothing to do with feminisation.This is an old traditional culture that has still lingered and started in a time in which women weren’t even allowed to get educated at institutions.

The idea behind it is that the wife’s duty is to budget the household and do the shopping. You find similar set ups in most culture. Yes, generally the husband in other cultures aren’t going to give all of their salaries, but they do end up giving most because it gives them the time to work outside of the home free from distractions, whilst the wife does the shopping, household decor, kids schooling, kids clothing ect. She essentially deals with running the household. It’s like having a company and allocating the task for budgeting and paying purchases for the company to someone else.

 

[Yaraye]

No men are better at money than women, a man should know how much is spent on groceries kids and etc..

Yes, only neccesities, so the entire statement is wrong, what it should be is, some of a mans money is a womens money, the rest is all his.
Her money is her money but should be spent on the husband and family

since when should a woman's money be spent on the husband/family? A woman giving her husband money is considered zakat islam. They do it if they want to, and if they don't want to do it, they don't have to.

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[hinters]

@TekNiKo

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he was watching the faaraxs so intently he paid no attention to the cadaan guy

 

[Yaraye]

The men that you want to marry clearly

the men that all women want to marry. Plus its been that way since the beginning of time. You're just the odd one

 

[jemappelle]

since when should a woman's money be spent on the husband/family? A woman giving her husband money is considered zakat islam. They do it if they want to, and if they don't want to do it, they don't have to.

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No its better for a women to use her money to help her family, just because it isn't obligatory doesn't mean she doesn't need to do it, khadija RA used all her wealth to support the Prophet ﷺ

 

[jemappelle]

@TekNiKo @Abdisamad

It has nothing to do with feminisation.This is an old traditional culture that has still lingered and started in a time in which women weren’t even allowed to get educated at institutions.

The idea behind it is that the wife’s duty is to budget the household and do the shopping. You find similar set ups in most culture. Yes, generally the husband in other cultures aren’t going to give all of their salaries, but they do end up giving most because it gives them the time to work outside of the home free from distractions, whilst the wife does the shopping, household decor, kids schooling, kids clothing ect. She essentially deals with running the household. It’s like having a company and allocating the task for budgeting and paying purchases for the company to someone else.

The man should be the one distributing the money to the women, depending on how much she needs for shopping and clothing etc.. at the end of the day the man is the one calculating the finances, how much salary he is getting, what the household needs, what they need to save up on, what the kids need etc...
anything other than that I disagree with, even if other cultures did it in the past present or future it is irrelevant to me, a man should be the overall maintainer and manager of the household finances

 

[Yaraye]

No its better for a women to use her money to help her family, just because it isn't obligatory doesn't mean she doesn't need to do it, khadija RA used all her wealth to support the Prophet ﷺ

just an example, not obligatory. need definition: require something because it is important. she doesn't need to do it cuz it's not a requirement.

 

[JackieBurkhart]

@TekNiKo another thread with over 100 replies....hmm

 

[Angelina]

The man should be the one distributing the money to the women, depending on how much she needs for shopping and clothing etc.. at the end of the day the man is the one calculating the finances, how much salary he is getting, what the household needs, what they need to save up on, what the kids need etc...

Yes.In most households it’s the women that buys what is needed and knows what is running out and knows more about what the kids also needs as well so I see the wisdom In it. Generally speaking, men don’t calculate because it’s usually the mother running the household, whilst the father is working outside. But I agree with you. It’s extreme and allocating money is better


anything other than that I disagree with, even if other cultures did it in the past present or future it is irrelevant to me, a man should be the overall maintainer and manager of the household finances

 

[Yaraye]

Wallahi I will not listen to your advice it is terrible, as basra says, you have too much testosterone,
No women should be handling her families finances, it is a mans job, The women will be getting the weekly allowances, I have my own budget, the man has the responsibility to give out money to his wife, not the opposite way round
get out of here with your homo stuff

You sound problematic. Give her a good amount if your happy, a little if you're moody, nothing if you're angry.

 

[Sophisticate]

that's perfect. You put it into the words that I couldn't

Versatility is best.
I used to get my brothers to do my chores growing up. I framed it as their way to ensure discipline, exercise and gain muscle tone. I also told them something to the effect of if you can do the mundane activities of life it will translate into doing boring grunt work in other areas and increase their likelihood of success. They listened.

I learned it from Mr. Miyagi.

 

[Yaraye]

Versatility is best.
I used to get my brothers to do my chores growing up. I framed it as their way to ensure discipline, exercise and gain muscle tone. I also told them something to the effect of if you can do the mundane activities of life it will translate into doing boring grunt work in other areas and increase their likelihood of success. They listened.

I learned it from Mr. Miyagi.

looooool! teach me your manipulative ways