Self hate in somali community is real

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BetterDaysAhead

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I’m almost positive that a non-somali posted that just to make us look bad, on the internet you can pretend to be anything and make up any story
 

BobSmoke

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was surfing on the internet and i stumpled on this

”Where do I begin... I hate how some stupid freshie Somalis will be like 'We are not black and that we are arabs' that gets on my nerves because we ARE BLACK. I love being black, but unfortunately it makes me sad how some black people and white people think we're not black and that we are arabs. Somalia is a laughing stock, the country is a joke to the whole world. I hate Al Shabaab and how uncivilised Somalis can be like. I don't wear a headscarf just because people will automatically know I'm Somali, which I hate.



Majority of the people in London hates Somalis because of how they are everywhere and how they take benefits, but both of my parents work and we don't take any benefits, just because some lazy Somalis take it doesn't mean we all do.



I'm so embarrassed to be a Somali, I don't have any Somali friends all my friends are English, Jamaican, Mixed race, Nigerian, etc... I hate how all the Somali guys look at me and give me this death stare just because I don't have any Somali friends and how I am hanging around with Non Somali boys.



I find Somali guys really unattractive, they think they are so hot but they're so fugly and I will never ever marry a Somali guy, I'm scared that no other ethnicity would want to marry me because I'm Somali just because they are the most hated in London.



I also hate how Somali girls are such attention seekers, I'm glad I've never made any Somali friends. I don't think we would have anything in common plus I can't even speak Somali, I can say a few words like easy words but I can understand if someone talks to me in Somali but I won't be able to reply back. There's no point in learning the language since it comes in no use since I won't be marrying a Somali or don't have any Somali friends, plus both of my parents understand English.



I also hate how Somalis look down on other blacks and think that they are superior it's like shut up there's nothing to be Superior about.



I wish I was white or from the Caribbeans or from West Africa in that way I would have a lot of things to be proud off. I honestly don't know what to do, I hate being Somali with a passion, I always cry to myself and dream about being a different ethnicity.



I sometimes even lie that I'm Ethiopian just to avoid Somali people from talking to me, I also hate when people ask me what ethnicity I am, I get so embarrassed because I don't want to say I'm Somali. Plus I really hate my name since it's Somali and my last name is Abdi which is even worse. FML.” :snoop: :farmajoyaab:
I dunno if she can be cured. Her selfhatred is "terminally ill"
 
What do you think is the cause of this tho? Is it because they’ve left behind their culture to fit in ?
Low self esteem, lack of confidence, ashamed of their culture. I’ve noticed some Somali people in general have low confidence and are always followers rather than leaders. They’d rather fit in than stand out. Pretty common in our community.
 
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Low self esteem, lack of confidence, ashamed of their culture. I’ve noticed some Somali people in general have low confidence and are always followers rather than leaders. They’d rather fit in than stand out. Pretty common in our community.
I agree. Its groupthink. If you do your own thing, you're considered weird. I think it comes down to control. You can't control or use someone who has their own mind.
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Destiny

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Is it just me or I don't see anything wrong with what she said.
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