Romance: The 80/20 Rule

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The perfect mate doesn't exist, and if they do there's a slim to none chance you'll just happen to meet the in this big world. For this reason I suggest using the 80/20 rule when looking for a partner. This means that you should get someone that has 80% of the things you want in a mate and settle for 20% of the things you don't want. instead of wasting your youth holding out for a man who has amazing looks, rich, has An amazing personality, around your age,educated,family oriented, and religious.. You should settle down with an educated,rich, funny/great personality- he's probably not all that great looking but you can settle with that. If looks are important to you than you should find a great looking educated family oriented man, but drop the personality requirement. lower your standards a bit and realize such men are rare and the ones who exist are most likely snatched up by now. The fairytale men in books are not realistic at all. I'm not saying you should settle for all the things you don't want but settle with a person that has 80% of the qualities you want. Men, you want a lady that's attractive,smart,virgin,family oriented,educated, and independent. Instead of all that( very unlikely you'll find all those traits in one person) you should settle with a lady that has the most 80% of the qualities that are important to you. Maybe looks and personality are more important to you than virginity . Maybe education and virginity is more important to you than family orientation? You decide. But the fairytale man/woman does not exist and you should be more realistic.
 
This is very heartening. Finally a girl who can overlook my hairless, toothless, gusless appearance. I'm extremely excited. I never thought I would find a lover. Someone to love and to hold. People think it's okay to mock the aesthetically challenged, but it's not my fault Allah made me look like the backside of a donkey is it? People are so cruel.

I have plenty of money, that's not a problem, I can look after my baby girl, but I don't like to bathe all that much. Once a month is my best record, so I might smell like expired milk sometimes. So long as I put a roof over your head, put food on the table, and give you dahab, surely a little stink is no big deal. Sankaada iska qabso.

I have long fought against racism, sexism, heightism, weightism, and ableism. The time has come to fight against beautyism, and smellism. But unfortunately women don't care about the rights of the ugly. They judge you on superficial things like hygiene. Wixii orodaan "uff! baqtigaan yaa naga saara". I concluded women are evil, but now there is a glimmer of hope.
 
This is very heartening. Finally a girl who can overlook my hairless, toothless, gusless appearance. I'm extremely excited. I never thought I would find a lover. Someone to love and to hold. People think it's okay to mock the aesthetically challenged, but it's not my fault Allah made me look like the backside of a donkey is it? People are so cruel.

I have plenty of money, that's not a problem, I can look after my baby girl, but I don't like to bathe all that much. Once a month is my best record, so I might smell like expired milk sometimes. So long as I put a roof over your head, put food on the table, and give you dahab, surely a little stink is no big deal. Sankaada iska qabso.

I have long fought against racism, sexism, heightism, weightism, and ableism. The time has come to fight against beautyism, and smellism. But unfortunately women don't care about the rights of the ugly. They judge you on superficial things like hygiene. Wixii orodaan "uff! baqtigaan yaa naga saara". I concluded women are evil, but now there is a glimmer of hope.
No walal this rule does not apply to your situation as it's not 80/20, your situation is more like 20/80. There's more matrices than positives. Fix the smell thing and get a great personality, lose some weight and she'll over look the face situation.
 
The perfect mate doesn't exist, and if they do there's a slim to none chance you'll just happen to meet the in this big world. For this reason I suggest using the 80/20 rule when looking for a partner. This means that you should get someone that has 80% of the things you want in a mate and settle for 20% of the things you don't want. instead of wasting your youth holding out for a man who has amazing looks, rich, has An amazing personality, around your age,educated,family oriented, and religious.. You should settle down with an educated,rich, funny/great personality- he's probably not all that great looking but you can settle with that. If looks are important to you than you should find a great looking educated family oriented man, but drop the personality requirement. lower your standards a bit and realize such men are rare and the ones who exist are most likely snatched up by now. The fairytale men in books are not realistic at all. I'm not saying you should settle for all the things you don't want but settle with a person that has 80% of the qualities you want. Men, you want a lady that's attractive,smart,virgin,family oriented,educated, and independent. Instead of all that( very unlikely you'll find all those traits in one person) you should settle with a lady that has the most 80% of the qualities that are important to you. Maybe looks and personality are more important to you than virginity . Maybe education and virginity is more important to you than family orientation? You decide. But the fairytale man/woman does not exist and you should be more realistic.

I follow the same rule abaayo but the 20% im willing to overlook is always the appearance department because personality is just so much more important to me, who would want to settle with an asshole.
 
i can overlook a lot of things, but i'm quite shallow and will never settle on looks. :manny:

i'm not aiming for male supermodel, but just better looking than the average somali guy :lolbron:

i would overlook money though. as long as he has a job to wake up for, i dont care how much he makes.
 
i can overlook a lot of things, but i'm quite shallow and will never settle on looks. :manny:

i'm not aiming for male supermodel, but just better looking than the average somali guy :lolbron:

i would overlook money though. as long as he has a job to wake up for, i dont care how much he makes.


Which one would you choose shitty attitude and handsome or kindest/sweet attitude but ugly ?
 
An ugly old man with lots of money is better than a cute younger guy with no money and a career. For me I will choose the old man with the money.
 

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i can overlook a lot of things, but i'm quite shallow and will never settle on looks. :manny:

i'm not aiming for male supermodel, but just better looking than the average somali guy :lolbron:

i would overlook money though. as long as he has a job to wake up for, i dont care how much he makes.

Let SSPOT judge your looks. Post a half face pic of yourself. :mjhaps:
 
What is the big deal what's with the ageism. Look we will all grow old one day our looks will fade, you will never stay 20 forever so instead of chasing that cute ciyaal suuq guy who doesn't have anything going for him you might as well settle for a more mature gentleman who is at least 15 years older than you or someone who has his life together but isn't particularly blessed in the looks department.
 
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