Remember that video of american Somali girls beating up that hooyo? was cause she was the 2nd wife!

[Gooney112]

Every cause has a reason if he told her about the other wife and they got divorced would this scenario exist?

to justify your stand you have decided to go with the fact that he didnt tell the wife? You are talking like you know for a fact he didnt tell the wife and she entered that meeting at the restaurant without knowing her husband married another woman and she was carrying his child. I guess when logic isnt on your side you gotta make sh1t up to justify your views

 

[VixR]

to justify your stand you have decided to go with the fact that he didnt tell the wife? You are talking like you know for a fact he didnt tell the wife and she entered that meeting at the restaurant without knowing her husband married another woman and she was carrying his child. I guess when logic isnt on your side you gotta make sh1t up to justify your views

It’s so blatantly obvious she didn’t know, hence the explosiveness of the situation.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

It’s so obvious she didn’t know, hence the explosiveness of the situation.

If she didn't know then why did she call the second wife for a meet up and bring her daughters with her?

 

[Steamdevolopment]

Does it give permission to beat pregnant women? What if the woman beater in question is female, maybe with luck a certain enraged first wife can hope to be absolved by these parameters

Some scholars argue that the beating can't be anything that leaves permanent scars or even goes further than what harm a feather or tooth-brush could use.

The pratical implementation is irrelevant as to the main ethical problem, which is the allowance of domestic violence and disregard for female agency.

 

[one]

Beating the pregnant woman was below the belt. Now they'll be the joke/talk of the town, good job.

I stress this so much but this is why developing self-control is so important. Anger is a dangerous emotion because of its unpredictability & sense of loss of control. It's shaytan's favorite emotion to use, he truly got the best of them tsk tsk.

Anyhow, it's about time people stop practicing polygamy. Just like with slavery, It's servers no purpose anymore..at least not for diaspora Somalis. Because firstly, the sunnah is to follow the laws of the country in which you reside. And secondly, polygamy was allowed so that it could protect and provide for women in poverty, widows etc. Western born women are not the target audience because most of them are capable of taking care of themselves, they have jobs, go to school etc.
If muslim men were truly serious about helping out vulnerable women, they would help these women: https://www.womenforwomen.org/blog/nearly-50-widows-live-poverty-we-can-change

I know this will hurt a lot of Faraxs' egos, but in the long run, polygamy is not the solution for these vulnerable women, it's better to get down to the core of the problem which is lack of opportunities. Education is the key, it's better to educate them so that they can be independent and provide for themselves. It's not good to depend on men for everything

Also, it's universally known that women don't like sharing their men, not sure why you guys are blaming feminism for this.
Men aren't that much different in this department either. They are also possessive/jealous creatures who don't like sharing their women with other men. Women in their nature aren't capable of sharing one man, polygamy was allowed solely for economical reasons.
Anyways, I say give it another 50 years, and polygamy will pretty much be nonexistent.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

So @nine its interesting you’re agreeing with him telling me to kill my self.


Interesting.

I know I hurt the other 3 es who liked that comment but why you?

 

[Balqisa]

A feminist oo Xafid al Quraan ah. Been badanaa wuxu

Our Prophet (pbuh) was a feminist . Nothing wrong with being one.

 

[Abdalla]

I dare 'Hafid' from the dodgy corner to condemn the two gaalo ladies as viciously as she attacked me. She's nowhere to be seen. She will come here and claim that she has a life and can't react a la minute.

 

[VixR]

If she didn't know then why did she call the second wife for a meet up?

Because she found out!

And then come to find out, he’d already knocked her up! That’s not any normal anger, it went super-Saiyan mode at that point. The color red was seen, a flashback of all her wasted time all in red hues passed before her eyes, and worse still, her kids saw it. It’s not rocket science.

 

[Balqisa]

I dare 'Hafid' from the dodgy corner to condemn the two gaalo ladies as viciously as she attacked me. She's nowhere to be seen. She will come here and claim that she has a life and can't react a la minute.

Next time @ me hoe

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

Because she found out!

And then come to find out, he’d already knocked her up! That’s not any normal anger, it went super-Saiyan mode at that point. The color red was seen, a flashback of all her wasted time all in red hues passed before her eyes, and worse still, her kids saw it. It’s not rocket science.

Lol I told u guys femoids cannot simply control their rage good lord...

 

[Luna]

Let the record show that I've defeated red eyed Luna, she started personal attacks.

You're grasping at straws now

Enjoy this song and stay blessed adheer


See you on the next SSpot battlefield
P.s stop harassing the good sis @Xalimo from da block
Its pathetic to bully young women at your old age

 

[Abdalla]

Next time @ me hoe

Let the record show that this one is defeated too.

My job is done.

You're grasping at straws now

Enjoy this song and stay blessed adheer


See you on the next SSpot battlefield
P.s stop harassing the good sis @Xalimo from da block
Its pathetic to bully young women at your old age

She got triggered and started ghetto insults

 

[Mercury]

to justify your stand you have decided to go with the fact that he didnt tell the wife? You are talking like you know for a fact he didnt tell the wife and she entered that meeting at the restaurant without knowing her husband married another woman and she was carrying his child. I guess when logic isnt on your side you gotta make sh1t up to justify your views

To me it’s pretty obvious maybe you’re to dumb to realize what just occurred if he got with that second wife and told his 1st one about it this situation wouldn’t be the same

She probably found out she was the talk of the town and how her husband got a new wife And on top of it she’s pregnant

 

[VixR]

Lol I told u guys women cannot simply control their rage good lord...

Please, I’m not surprised if anyone fails to control their rage at that point. The term “crimes of passion” exists for a reason, and men are far worse at handling these scenarios than most women. The fact that she only got beat and not outright killed is a positive outcome as far as these things go.

 

[Crow]

Female sex slavery: Quran 4: 24

"And [also prohibited to you are all] married women except those your right hands possess. [This is] the decree of Allah upon you. And lawful to you are [all others] beyond these, [provided] that you seek them [in marriage] with [gifts from] your property, desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse. So for whatever you enjoy [of marriage] from them, give them their due compensation as an obligation. And there is no blame upon you for what you mutually agree to beyond the obligation. Indeed, Allah is ever Knowing and Wise."

This vers sanctifies the ritual rape of women who are slaves and already married.

This is an incorrect translation of [4:24] and is illogical in the context of the rest of the Quran.

Here is the correct one.

All women who are already married are forbidden for you (to marry), except for those (pagan women) who come under your control (as maid-servants, and who convert to Islam freely, nullifying their pagan marriage tie). God has ordained (these limits) for you, and except for these (limits) all other (women) are lawful (to marry), provided you court them with gifts from your property, desiring chastity and not lust. Since you gain benefits from them, give them their (marriage gifts) as you’re required. However, if after the required (marriage gift) is settled you mutually agree (to modify it), there is no blame upon you, for God is knowing and wise.

Source: The Meaning of the Holy Qur'an in Today's English

When a pagan converts to Islam, their previous marriage is automatically nullified. They are free to marry any Muslim without consulting their previous spouse because they are considered divorced and unmarried.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

I’m not surprised if anyone fails to control their rage at that point. The term “crimes of passion” exists for a reason, and men are far worse at handling these scenarios than most women. The fact that she only got beat and not outright killed is a positive outcome as far as these things go.

If u was in the first wife's position, would u have raged the same way she did? Would u have brought your daughters with u to whoop her ass?

 

[Balqisa]

Let the record show that this one is defeated too.

My job is done.




She got triggered and started ghetto insults

You're the cringe one who keeps calling me '' . Did a Xalimo break your heart or something? Looks like you're the defeated one .

 

[VixR]

If u was in the first wife's position, would u have raged the same way she did? Would u have brought your daughters with u?

You and I could swear until we’re blue in the face that we’re better than that or blah. These same people could’ve told you much of the same last week. That doesn’t mean it has any bearing on how you’d truly react to a similar scenario. Some people simply have better coping skills than others.

Imagine someone else knocked your wife up, and she didn’t even tell you she was leaving for him - you found out. This is the equivalent version of the events that happened to this lady.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

You and I could swear until we’re blue in the face that we’re better than that or blah. These same people could’ve told you much of the same last week. That doesn’t mean it has bearing on how you’d actually react to a similar scenario. Some people have better coping skills than others.

What would us two be swearing on tho? We don't even believe in "God"