Are you making haram what Allah has made halaal your on to the path of self destruction sis is qabo I’m advising you do not transgress Allahs laws
Allah swt made it halal for Muslim men to have 4 wives. That's correct.
But he also said consult with your first wife. Do Somali men do that?
Look for second wife if you can love, cherish and afford to care of your first and second wife. Do Somali men do this?
Do you actually think these Somali men who marry second wives can afford to care of them?
How come they make it seem xaraam and sneak around?
Please stop picking and choosing what Allah swt made halal. Either follow it down to a T or stick to the first wife.