Non muslim family member

[Toriye]

I will try to treat her the same but she’s pushing her beliefs on me. She brings it up every time we speak and we never used to talk about our religious beliefs together so technically SHE changed how she treats me And believing in astrology and numerology does make you a sheep too because that’s not your own branch of thought + it’s rising in popularity recently on social media. Don’t come on here trying to shame me for something I already admitted was wrong. You made 0 points except the last sentence, better luck next comment.

Oh lol I must've just glossed over the astrology and numerology part of your post. I thought she was just agnostic not a nutcase

 

[a y a n]

That’s a good idea I just don’t know where to find them. Going to my masjid is risky because they might end up telling my parents, and going to random masjid is risky because I don’t know who’s not judgmental and won’t run their mouth

you don’t know some ayeyoo that stays at home all day?
one of those sweet ladies’ll work

 

[SOMALI GENERAL]

She's still family in the end. Don't distance yourself from a family member.

 

[?????]

Astrology? Through the whole cousin away

 

[angel]

you don’t know some ayeyoo that stays at home all day?
one of those sweet ladies’ll work

There are barely any somalis where I live and I didn’t think many ayeeyos lived in the west. I can’t imagine my ayeeyo living here without cracking tf up are older generation somali muslims educated about islam? My parents told me the norm was praying, memorizing quran and basic islamic studies

 

[angel]

She's still family in the end. Don't distance yourself from a family member.

I didn’t say I would and I know that now. Any real advice?

 

[a y a n]

There are barely any somalis where I live and I didn’t think many ayeeyos lived in the west. I can’t imagine my ayeeyo living here without cracking tf up are older generation somali muslims educated about islam? My parents told me the norm was praying, memorizing quran and basic islamic studies

yeah but they’re really kind and convincing most times
must suck up in NY
sis at this point pull out the yt conversion videos

 

[Xasusi]

Atheism makes sense. But why astrology and numerology?

She must've done some maaaaaad weed

 

[Dalmoor]

I’m an only child and my cousin that I grew up with was like a sister to me. She became agnostic (or atheist) recently and really believes in astrology and numerology now. I don’t ask her about her beliefs because 1. I don’t care about that bs and 2. It makes me sad to hear that she’s not a muslim. She told me in the summer because we travel to see each other during the summer and since I came back home in august I barely talked to her. I’m starting to realize that this is probably pushing her further from Islam (or maybe not?) and I noticed there are a lot of gaals on somalispot so could you guys give me advice on how to treat her? And can any muslims tell her how I can help guide her back?

Why distance yourself from her when you can

Astrology? Through the whole cousin away

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[Jiron]

always treat her with respect and be an example to her, sometimes in life we go through phases and journey of self discovery. It saddens me when people leave Islam, but I believe if I can be a really good person to them, maybe they will come back and seek trust in Allah again

 

[angel]

yeah but they’re really kind and convincing most times
must suck up in NY
sis at this point pull out the yt conversion videos

It’s great but there’s not a huge somali community. Somalis come with buuq and balaayo though so I think we straight lmaoo where you from?

 

[angel]

always treat her with respect and be an example to her, sometimes in life we go through phases and journey of self discovery. It saddens me when people leave Islam, but I believe if I can be a really good person to them, maybe they will come back and seek trust in Allah again

Aw this was so sweet thank you

 

[a y a n]

It’s great but there’s not a huge somali community. Somalis come with buuq and balaayo though so I think we straight lmaoo where you from?

the state of NC
it’s a mess but we have an ok somali population

 

[?????]

Why distance yourself from her when you can

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How did I let that slip???

 

[Shmurda]

Get the quran and beat the shaytan out of her

My uncle got posessed one time his eyes turned yellow, he had khat stained teeth and he was talking about how he wants to loot some houses and HG run galkacyo. We beat the moryaan jinn out of him wit a kitab and he turned back to normal. Prolly something similar with ur cousin

 

[PhySom]

Stop worrying about her personal beliefs. It is not your right to dictate what she believes in.

 

[waryabdi]

That’s very saddening to hear but somebody that was Muslim and left the religion is different from gaals that were not Muslim before. To the people saying she is still your family, Allah told nabi nooh that his son was not his family anymore because he chose disbelief and that the believers were his family

 

[AIOPZ]

That’s a good idea I just don’t know where to find them. Going to my masjid is risky because they might end up telling my parents, and going to random masjid is risky because I don’t know who’s not judgmental and won’t run their mouth

Make du'as for her. Everyday.

That's all you can really do. You don't know her mind and I would discourage you from trying to start any debates with her as this is guaranteed to only make her more defensive in her atheism.

 

[repo]

That's your cousin. If she was to come out as a satanic lesbian stripper vampire she would still be your cousin.

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

Cut all ties with her until she repents.

The Abu Talib example is weak.
He was mushrik and died as mushrik.

Your cousin tasted Islam and then left it.