VixR
Veritas
Being hurt about a girl/guy you’re interested in talking to others is irrational if there’s no foundation for the interaction being ‘serious’. If you’re more than interested, then you should express it. No one’s reading your mind.There are people dudes out here not even focused on girls rn. Lol I know some. All they do is go to uni. Hoop, play video games and just hang out. The ones not really experienced in the dating field usually focus on one person. No one spontaneously just starts talking to multiple people at once.
It’s gonna hurt one dude who was actually interested in a girl when he hears about the same girl messing around with another dude via other guys.
Coming from a female perspective, you’re most likely not the only guy who’s shown interest so there’s sometimes little differentiation between you and a next guy