You cant resign something that wasn't in you possession to begin with im just saying

But im not here to try and make you feel shit about your lack of cultural upbring you voluntarily signed up to a somali forum which means in whatever desperate situation you're in you reached out and that counts to something.
Instead of taking this {my vision is always superior} attitude try to be more open minded and understading of the things you read on the board.
You will have plenty of things to criticise and many chances at it so there isnt really a need for being so trigger happy.
If you dont understand certain cultural practices there are many here that would gladly explain it.
But it takes effort from your end aswell, maybe try putting yourself in their shoes try to see things from their perspective before you go ballistic i know its hard but all im asking ia that you try