My Somali friend is marrying an ajnabi. I'm cutting him off and disowning him.

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One of my best Somali friends is marrying an ajnabi chick. I was shocked when he first revealed to me that he was looking to tie the knot with her.

His wedding day is coming up, and I told him I will not attend due to him marrying an ajnabi. I told him that I'm cutting him off and disowning him as a friend if he decides to go through and marry this woman. I told him he still has time to reconsider and dump her. He was angry and said to me if I don't attend, I'm not a true friend. We were friends since childhood.

What do you guys think I should do? I'm on the fence about attending his wedding but I'm not sure I will talk to him ever again after the wedding.

I smell jealousy if this is infact the truth. Why are you disowning your sxb like a scorn women because he is getting married? If she is muslim too, you are basically saying allahs rules are not valid in your eyes. Whats more important to you, deen or dhaqan?

Stop acting like a menstrual female and stick up for your boy. If you could, you should donate your gus to the service men that lost it in the afghan war. Shame on you
 
I smell jealousy if this is infact the truth. Why are you disowning your sxb like a scorn women because he is getting married? If she is muslim too, you are basically saying allahs rules are not valid in your eyes. Whats more important to you, deen or dhaqan?

Stop acting like a menstrual female and stick up for your boy. If you could, you should donate your gus to the service men that lost it in the afghan war. Shame on you

I'm married to a Somali woman. I don't trust non-Somali woman. I'm looking out for my friend.
 
@Boqol why would you cut off an old friend over his love life? It's his wife/future and you've no place to give him an ultimatum like that. You should attend.
 
One of my best Somali friends is marrying an ajnabi chick. I was shocked when he first revealed to me that he was looking to tie the knot with her.

His wedding day is coming up, and I told him I will not attend due to him marrying an ajnabi. I told him that I'm cutting him off and disowning him as a friend if he decides to go through and marry this woman. I told him he still has time to reconsider and dump her. He was angry and said to me if I don't attend, I'm not a true friend. We were friends since childhood.

What do you guys think I should do? I'm on the fence about attending his wedding but I'm not sure I will talk to him ever again after the wedding.
You are not his mom he is grown up has the right to marry whoever he wants..relax and attend his wedding!
 

DuctTape

I have an IQ of 300
What are you, 12?
What kind of "disowns" their friend if they marry an ajnabi?
What do you care? You're not their father, bismillah :gucciwhat:
 
@Boqol why would you cut off an old friend over his love life? It's his wife/future and you've no place to give him an ultimatum like that. You should attend.

I will cut him off for being a self-hater. I kind of knew he wasn't into Somali women. He kept saying they weren't attractive.

I gave him that ultimatum because he's doing something that's idiotic. I have to be a real friend to him.

I'm attending his aroos but I'm cutting him off after. It will be tough but I have to do it.
 
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