Are you sure bro?
I read it was not haram somewhere depends on circumstancesThis is haram mate.
I know it is. But I doubt they know or care to know. It is what it is I guess.This is haram mate.
why dont you want children? Dont you wanna leave little saywas in the world once you are gone?I don't want to have children myself so I would not raise another person's child.
However if I did want kids, I would see no problem in being a stepmother to a child.
why dont you want children? Dont you wanna leave little saywas in the world once you are gone?
ok its not for everyone i guess. I cant see myself being with a woman without children. I would be bored to death. Also we will all get old and our bodies with get worse and worse. What about marriage? Do you want that?I have a lot different reasons for not having children. I love babysitting children and taking them places, but only for a little time. I do not want to look after a child 24/7. Pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding also are very hard on a woman's body and mind.
I love the freedom in my life and I don't want to swap that for a baby.
ok its not for everyone i guess. I cant see myself being with a woman without children. I would be bored to death. Also we will all get old and our bodies with get worse and worse. What about marriage? Do you want that?
I don't want to get married either.
woow never expected that.
so you dont know anyone who is in happy marriage? Its either marriage or live in sin...we all have needs. Also a lot of those sound like they married too young. If i married 21 no way I was ready for itAll around me I see miserable marriages. When I finished uni at 21, a couple of my friends got married around that time. Few years later they are all divorced with nightmare stories.
so you dont know anyone who is in happy marriage? Its either marriage or live in sin...we all have needs. Also a lot of those sound like they married too young. If i married 21 no way I was ready for it
Saywa....I know we clash a lot. But I wish you the best and inshallah that right person will find you. Dont let other peoples bad experiences determine your future. I think marriage to the right person is not only beautiful, it will evolve us to be even better people.Even the people who are still married, have had a lot of problems and still do. So I don't know if that is a 'happy' marriage per se. I am sure happy marriages exist though.
21 is young, but the divorces did not happen because a lack maturity it happened for serious reasons that had nothing to do with age really.
Personally, I am not against marriage. If the right person came along I can see a scenario where they persuade me into marriage, I guess, but only for the right person. Otherwise marriage is garbage.
Even the people who are still married, have had a lot of problems and still do. So I don't know if that is a 'happy' marriage per se. I am sure happy marriages exist though.
21 is young, but the divorces did not happen because a lack maturity it happened for serious reasons that had nothing to do with age really.
Personally, I am not against marriage. If the right person came along I can see a scenario where they persuade me into marriage, I guess, but only for the right person. Otherwise marriage is garbage.
Saywa....I know we clash a lot. But I wish you the best and inshallah that right person will find you. Karen's Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia Leave-in Conditioner. I think marriage to the right person is not only beautiful, it will evolve us to be even better people.
Are you gonna have relationships outside of marriage? That’s something to consider if u don’t want something as permanent as marriage
That is haram.
mashallah that sounds great. But you can have both. One of my mums closest friends is in her late 40s and she never got married or had kids. She is saying she regret it now as she has no one. But you know whats best for youTrue, but you cant blame me for being cautious after seen so many people around me either divorced, seperated or in unhappy marriages.
Tbh I have never been a person that dreamed of a huge wedding and lots of kids. I always wanted to help others in the world with my vocation and volunteering.