I mean would you know? This is scary How am I suppose to tell the signs dude
Miskeen gets duped and marries..
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"Usually undesirable but watch a lot of redpill and feel they’re deserving of the type of woman that wouldn’t usually go for them."
This is why dating can help this group. I can legit go outside and find an ugly short Mexican nigga thats not an incel because of the fact he's been in a few long term relationships.
Ugly Muslim niggas are simply being held back from developing socially because of Islam. If dating wasn't haram most of these guys probably would have dated a chick within their range by now.
Unless your very attractive it will be hard to figure out if your desirable enough to attract women. Men need to learn how to pursue women.
The unfortunate reality is that Somali marriages have always been rather unstable. Even in the past, anthropologists who’ve interviewed Somalis in the early 1900s noted that divorce rates were high. The Somalis of that generation when interviewed also said that it was worse in previous generations
. Also, whilst Somalis are homogeneous, different regions have slightly different cultures, like Northerners in SL in the Western regions were a bit more conservative with regards to divorce and since I’m around both Northerners and Southers I can detect a slight difference in attitudes, hence they have a bit more of a stigma more so than other regions, but even then, I.M Lewis recorded a divorce rate of 25% of just one Northern clan.Also, as to your point about clan warfare it’s an excellent one. Again, unfortunately our ancestors spent a good % of their time waring and looting their neighboring tribes and I was reading this book which talked in detail about the experience of a Somali woman who was live in the late 1800s and she mentions how her whole village was massacred and the girls hid and had to marry men from other clans.
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Society feeds into their delusions but deep down they know this. That’s why we hear countless of cases of divorced men with kids lying about never marrying when getting to know women.Divorced men have baggage. Divorced men with children have even more.They are delusional if they think they are on the same level as single never married men without children.
Oh don't remind me of how many men have lied about children, and being married. It's a very common occurrence. I've been told they do this on those Muslim dating apps too, to increase their chance of getting a match. They even lie about their age, but I thought women liked older men.
Have you ever met a woman who hasn't met a man that has lied about his age, or his ex-wife and kids?
If men do anything, it's lie to themselves and to each other.
That's because the avg age of marriage is lower back home. These niggas are getting married at around 20-22 years old and are constantly getting divorced.
These guys are way more experienced with women than your avg western Somali nigga. Marrying a divorcee wouldn't be an issue for niggas back home.
The avg 25+ year old never married abdi wouldn't even consider a divorcee here in the west.
But it’s the same for women here as well. Hence, I don’t see the reason why they’re targeting divorced women when the average Western Xalimo wouldn’t go for a guy with kids and those Somali men have to constantly lie to get with a younger single Somali woman to give them their time of day. Therefore, my point is, why throw stones whilst in a glass house?
So overall, when you take into account women back home don’t find it difficult getting married, and Somali women in the West who have never married generally wouldn’t go for a divorced man with kids, what’s the real differences, apart from men being ultra loud and delusional?
If they need to lie or 'omit' crucial details to position themselves as more suitable candidates. That tells us everything we need to know about how they think they'd fair relative to those who have less life experience.
One thing I've learnt, it's that whatever they say about women, is a projection of themselves.
"Nobody wants a woman over 30", meanwhile they lie about their age.
"Nobody wants a divorced woman", meanwhile they pretend to never have married before
The funniest one I heard is "femcel", my god, on planet earth, is there a woman who can't get laid? These men have even been caught molesting animals.
Yep that’s my point. Many on here like to delude themselves especially with points like men can’t be ‘garoob’ but at the same time, a lot of us women have experienced divorced men omitting their marital status because they know that a never married Western girl who has a lot going for her, might exclude him as a potential mate. Clearly this has happened one too many times which is why they resort to lying. Also, many Somali families in the West wouldn’t be okay with their never married daughters being with a divorced man with kids. My cousin tried to marry one and it caused havoc in my family. Hence, the young men on this forum, need to stop being delusional and understand life doesn’t revolve around their misogynistic ideals.
Lol, I thought women ‘loved’ older men? Please explain why on apps like Muzz you have Faraxs that look 40 pretending to be 29? Wallahi i’m not joking. At this point, they either lie for the fun of it, or many of them have figured out that women especially in the West simply aren’t as forgiving anymore.One thing I've learnt, it's that whatever they say about women, is a projection of themselves.
"Nobody wants a woman over 30", meanwhile they lie about their age.
"Nobody wants a divorced woman", meanwhile they pretend to never have married before
The funniest one I heard is "femcel", my god, on planet earth, is there a woman who can't get laid? These men have even been caught molesting animals.
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Nah we just tryna correct them frm the haram that they are committing but they always tryna slander/backbite us for clout (ex: tabarruj, exposing awrah, freemixxing, zina, etc)See @Ozymandias these niggas always talk about marrying back home but never stop talking about western Muslimahs
They spread this lie to make themselves feel better.
There are a few ways a man, Somali or otherwise, gets a younger woman.
1. Most common: He has $$$ ( or his few dollars stretch far in a poor country)
2. Second most common: He is HANDSOME
3. Forced marriage
4. Gaalo women - daddy issues, or other disorders.
If these misogynists on the forum, were smarter, they'd listen to us women, instead of living in an echo chamber of LIES.
A divorced woman can remarry easily in our culture which is mostly a positive thing, except when use it to abuse kind hearted men. By treating the sanctity of marriage like gaalo use dating and hookups.
Here is the difference, even though a woman can re marry faster than most men in her situations after a divorce, the quality of men a divorced woman can attract, continuously declines the more divorced she procures.
That’s not the same for a man all things being equal, she is considered a liability while he is seen a potential provider.
And Alxamdullilah for the kindness of Somali men, who are not as possessive and controlling as men of other cultures are to their women.
I glad to we do not deny our women their god given rights to divorce, by making it a stigma like many other Muslim cultures.
Which forces women to endure slave like condition just to not be stigmatized or bring shame to her family.
I’m not against people exercising their rights at all but some women have abused it, like you’ll see a women who have 15 ex husband and kids from each one.
That’s just irresponsible and disgusting it’s a halal version of a baby momma and that ain’t right. Because it destroyed both image and trust of a society, everything within moderation as the deen says and that’s all.
Not really, I’m curious about social matters and I have spoken to lots of divorcees about this issue.
and here are the following reasons they don’t re marry, most cannot attract the men they want, while a smaller numbers but increasingly on the rise, are women who enjoy their freedom and have a lover whom they dial whenever nature calls.
it’s usually with men who would never marry them but are ok with hooking up, to satisfy each other’s temporary needs.
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Nah misandry/femcel behavior should be classified as a mental illness
Unfortunately this happens a lot in the West, Somali girls who are promiscuous and sleep around a lot with Black guys and I heard from a friend of mine a miskeen faarax caught a STI from a Somali girl he married who his hooyo found out later that that girl used to be promiscuous and the girl was a hijab too
Just leave us faaraxs alone smhOh don't remind me of how many men have lied about children, and being married. It's a very common occurrence. I've been told they do this on those Muslim dating apps too, to increase their chance of getting a match. They even lie about their age, but I thought women liked older men.
Have you ever met a woman who hasn't met a man that has lied about his age, or his ex-wife and kids?
If men do anything, it's lie to themselves and to each other.
It’s the same for Western Somali men though. That’s why a lot of Somali men in the West who are divorced with kids lie about it or don’t reveal it straight away. It happened to me before I married and I’ve come across men who tried to court me but once I found out they’re divorced with kids I ended it quickly (I have no issues with divorced men, but being a step mom is difficult and at the time, my parents would have hit the roof). The world has changed and even in the developed world women won’t consider a man with kids unless he’s ultra successful or they’re a bit older and most of their peers have settled down and they’re not willing to go for a younger man.
It is now. You won’t take our word for it, but you should since we are the ones who deal with men. Also, many Western Somali families wouldn’t be okay with their 20-something never married daughter marrying a man with kids. It caused absolute havoc in my family recently with a cousin of mine.
15 ex husbands? Never heard of that apart from mama Malyuun and poor woman clearly has mental health problems. Even Dabacasir who has mental health issues has married various times. I think it’s a marker of poor mental health.
We all agree to that. No one in their right mind will support that. But it’s funny how this is coming up when it comes to divorced women. But in Somali culture we hear many cases of men divorcing and marrying and recently, the boys were celebrating a Sheikh who married 20 times and had 20 kids. Clearly that man divorced at least 15 women, but that didn’t make men think that ruins society. You have 15-16 single mothers with only one child each Authobillah and that’s acceptable right?
A lot of is due to their kids. Many are afraid to bring a man that isn’t the father of their kids around their child and I don’t blame them. In an age In which many men are abusing kids, I’d think twice about remarrying.
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If her hymen is not intact then you need to take her to virginity examination doctor. Virgins women have a very low vaginal laxity and don't have visible vagina lips coming out.
Also do your research on her like where grew up what schools colleges and uni's she went to ask people both male and female
Also do your research on her like where grew up what schools colleges and uni's she went to ask people both male and female
