Marriage tips for the brothers

[anonimo]

Nah, saxib his views due to the filthy rap they consume and kevin Samuels and the like is becoming common. Also, domestic violence is an issue in every community, and these are the tell-tell signs and ways they're able to hurt women. We constantly ask ourselves why did she stay with him? Its because abusive men follow this list and isolate their wives which gives them free reign to use and abuse.

Also, he is posting this in the general section for youngesters to see. Some on here might have grew up in single parent households and have unfortunately not seen normal healthy couples. Some guys haven't seen how a husband is meant to act and now they might think being a 'man' is acting like an abusive arse who shatters his wife's confidence.

This man's list is literally a manifesto of abuse and its in the normal section for everyone to view.

First World Somalis and their problems.

How can young people today be so manipulated by social media?

If you don't redpill your children about the evils found on social media, they will be susceptible to all kinds of isms. Even then, it is a hard ask as you cannot insulate them from wider society.

You are passionate about this matter but all I am saying is to develop an ability to not let it trigger you, easier said than done though when you wear you heart on your sleeve. The world is an effed up place, walk through it like a lotus floating in a flowing water.

 

[Angelina]

First World Somalis and their problems.

How can young people today be so manipulated by social media?

If you don't redpill your children about the evils found on social media, they will be susceptible to all kinds of isms. Even then it is a hard ask as you cannot insulate them from wider society.

First world?

You have people shooting up schools and joining orgs because of the nonsense they see on the internet.

Also first world?

Apparently the reason why rape and kufsi ect is becoming more of an issue back home is because of the internet.

Don't be fooled and wakeup.

 

[GemState]

Here we have another abuser.

Meaningless label

Pretty much all marriages throughout history would be considered abusive in some form by today's standards.

 

[Boqorada]

The things women put up with smh.

She works and takes care of her family, what more does she need?

Lmao so she works too? Whole time you're going on like you're the sole breadwinner and she's just a stay at home wife. If you don't sit your inadequate 50/50 ass down - if men have anything it's the audacity.



If she's smart she'll be saving up and planning her escape but I doubt it, a lot of women are very unlucky and groomed from young to accept abuse. This is a classic trauma bond.

 

[Saredo]

Here we have another abuser.

They come up with bs like this, make their wives miserable and then blame it on “feminism” when she leaves. Just fools who think that they’re wise.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Is an Islamic nikkah between two cousins illegal? Asking for a friend

I’m not scholar alkhi, but I don’t believe it’s haram

 

[Angelina]

They come up with bs like this, make their wives miserable and then blame it on “feminism” when she leaves. Fools who think that they’re wise.

No sense of accountability.

They mistreat people and once someone had enough and calls it a day, instead of looking within they blame everything but themselves.

I really want to know where we went wrong as a group for us to some morally bankrupt and hurtful people amongst us.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

The things women put up with smh.





Lmao so she works too? Whole time you're going on like you're the sole breadwinner and she's just a stay at home wife. If you don't sit your inadequate 50/50 ass down - if men have anything it's the audacity.



If she's smart she'll be saving up and planning her escape but I doubt it, a lot of women are very unlucky and groomed from young to accept abuse. This is a classic trauma bond.

We live in a big city. Of course she works. The days of sole breadwinner don’t exist anymore especially if you have a family. Nothing wrong with a good woman who does what’s best for her family and listens to her husband. She’s much better than the spinsters or divorcees

 

[Angelina]

We live in a big city. Of course she works. The days of sole breadwinner don’t exist anymore especially if you have a family. Nothing wrong with a good woman who does what’s best for her family and listens to her husband. She’s much better than the spinsters or divorcees

Fbdujdndjdudurjdnnd

Look at you wanting all the benefits of a man whilst simultaneously begging for the charity of a woman.

She should not give you a penny and guess what? That is also part of Islam.

Good day.

 

[anonimo]

First world?

You have people shooting up schools and joining orgs because of the nonsense they see on the internet.

Also first world?

Apparently the reason why rape and kufsi ect is becoming more of an issue back home is because of the internet.

Don't be fooled and wakeup.

Rape and kufsi back home is more complex, that society has generally been dog eat dog generally speaking. The fitnah of on youth, increased bachelorhood, loss of Dhaqan, loss of a communal spirit due to urbanisation.....

You have people being killed in Gaajo Olympics and some struggling just to eat so their existential problems weigh more on their mind than sociall ills caused by social media.

As a Muslim, you should know this Dunya is fitnah, look at the mess that it is and then thank Allah if you have not been tested by the ills you see. Getting irate about it will not help, be more emotionally resilient is all I am saying.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Fbdujdndjdudurjdnnd

Look at you wanting all the benefits of a man whilst simultaneously begging for the charity of a woman.

She should not give you a penny and guess what? That is also part of Islam.

Good day.

I work at Amazon warehouse and drive Uber to make extra money, but big cities are expensive. She’s very happy and unlike the forever spinster feminists

 

[Bluefire]

First world?

You have people shooting up schools and joining orgs because of the nonsense they see on the internet.

Also first world?

Apparently the reason why rape and kufsi ect is becoming more of an issue back home is because of the internet.

Don't be fooled and wakeup.

It is true that redpillesque ideas have been perpetuated by the internet.

Somalia is a lawless land inhabited by a traumatized population, every crime will increase there.

 

[Angelina]

I work at Amazon warehouse and drive Uber to make extra money, but big cities are expensive. She’s very happy and unlike the forever spinster feminists

No one cares booho.

You wanna be the man of the family?

Pay up instead of relying on your wife's sadaqa.

The only way you can marry is if a woman feels sorry enough for you to split rent and you know it. So stop acting like you're doing her a favor.

 

[Amk]

You agree with majority of what I said here. Is there anything wrong with I said islamically? No

-Islamically if ur wife had islamic friends u r not allowed to prevent her from meeting them without a valid excuse bc her friends are of benefit to her,
-if her family are good family u are not allowed to cut her off from her ties of kinship,
if u criticise and blame your wife all the time then that is not good character and it is also harmful, Allah says in the Quran to
Tell My servants that they should speak that which is best. Surely, Satan creates discord among them. Indeed, Satan is an open enemy to mankind. 17:53
Verbal abuse and criticising is not merciful or good treatment, it should be done rarely and kindly
regularly just means u r putting unrealistic expectations on her, I doubt u would like it if someone kept on criticizing u on everything u did all the time.

 

[Amk]

We live in a big city. Of course she works. The days of sole breadwinner don’t exist anymore especially if you have a family. Nothing wrong with a good woman who does what’s best for her family and listens to her husband. She’s much better than the spinsters or divorcees

Do u force her to work or does she want to work?

 

[Waaqmasho]

I had a friend who wanted to get married. He was talking to this xalimo and she had some conditions. I don't remember most of them but she had two conditions which I found funny when put together. 1. Her money is only her money, she won't spend a dime on the house, he has to pay everything. 2. Half his assets are hers if they divorce. If he agrees to that, they can get married. He immediately blocked her.

It's a funny story which illustrates how some western xalimos will attempt to get best of both worlds. Take advantage of islamic laws and western laws. So OP is right at least in first point, don't get legally married if you don't want to give her half her assets especially if you're rich or upper middle class.

 

[Dualke]

I’m not scholar alkhi, but I don’t believe it’s haram

I'm talking about secular legality, not Islam

 

[Angelina]

I had a friend who wanted to get married. He was talking to this xalimo and she had some conditions. I don't remember most of them but she had two conditions which I found funny when put together. 1. Her money is only her money, she won't spend a dime on the house, he has to pay everything. 2. Half his assets are hers if they divorce. If he agrees to that, they can get married. He immediately blocked her.

It's a funny story which illustrates how some western xalimos will attempt to get best of both worlds. Take advantage of islamic laws and western laws. So OP is right at least in first point, don't get legally married if you don't want to give her half her assets especially if you're rich or upper middle class.

Funnily enough, what's the norm in this day and age is Faraxs brazenly expecting the best of both worlds.

Most of you lot still expect your wives to do all if not most of the cooking and cleaning and now work to bring money in. You talk about how in this day and age families need two incomes, but believe families only need the mum doing everything.

Very rarely do Xalimo even get child support after divorce let alone alimony, so keep on telling each other these stories.

 

[Boqorada]

We live in a big city. Of course she works. The days of sole breadwinner don’t exist anymore especially if you have a family. Nothing wrong with a good woman who does what’s best for her family and listens to her husband. She’s much better than the spinsters or divorcees

If you can't handle the responsibilities, don't get married and start a family.

"Don't marry legally so she doesnt take your assets" kulaha. Broke niggas have wild imaginations and think very highly of themselves lol.

 

[Angelina]

If you can't handle the responsibilities, don't get married and start a family.

"Don't marry legally so she doesnt take your assets" kulaha. Broke niggas have wild imaginations and think very highly of themselves lol.

He needs her to have a roof over his head and he's acting like he's doing her a favor to marry.

Lets be real, according to his own redpill scriptures, he is low value and women supposedly value 'hypergamy' so what value does he hold? And on top of that he is sexist?

He should follow the advice of his redpill crap and level up.