Marriage tips for the brothers

[Angelina]

She has to choose her friends or her marriage. Why get married otherwise? The only family she has an obligation to is her mother and father.

Lol she doesn't. She'd only have to choose if she's married to a man who wants to abuse her.

You simply want to batter her in peace with no brothers sisters, cousins or friends knocking on your door wondering if she's okay.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Fa'too burhaanakum in kuntum saadiqeen

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

I’m speaking as someone who’s been married for many years. Simps and single feminists may not like this advice, but I stand by it.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Lol she doesn't. She'd only have to choose if she's married to a man who wants to abuse her.

You simply want to batter her in peace with no brothers sisters, cousins or friends knocking on your door wondering if she's okay.

Marriage is a contract. When I pay mehr, I’m allowed to have certain expectations of my wife. I would be honest with her to begin with. No friends after marriage or it’s over

 

[anonimo]

 

[Angelina]

Marriage is a contract. When I pay mehr, I’m allowed to have certain expectations of my wife. I would be honest with her to begin with. No friends after marriage or it’s over

Yes, its a contract.

Anyone with sense who understands how abusers operate will know to avoid you like the plague.

One of the 1st signs of abuse before a man hurts a woman is that he'll try and isolate her and then he'll try and shatter her confidence which is what you're advocating. That is how men successfully hurt women and get away with it.

I bet its okay for you to have friends right? No sane women will agree to this. You scream 'back home'! But people back home are social and take ties of kinship seriously, so even a girl back home isn't going to accept this doqonimo.

 

[Angelina]

Nah, I think this guy truly is sick tbh. His advice is simple redpill and abuser nonsense that is common.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Yes, its a contract.

Anyone with sense who understands how abusers operate will know to avoid you like the plague.

One of the 1st signs of abuse before a man hurts a woman is that he'll try and isolate her and then he'll try and shatter her confidence which is what you're advocating. That is how men successfully hurt women and get away with it.

I bet its okay for you to have friends right?

Stop comparing men with women all the time. It’s frustrating. God made us different for a reason.

 

[Angelina]

Stop comparing men with women all the time. It’s frustrating. God made us different for a reason.

God has made us into social creatures. So what does having friends and family got to with gender you weirdo.

Has Allah only created men with family and the ability to value people? What's next you can batter women because men and women aren't the same?!


You're definitely low IQ.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

God has made us into social creatures. So what does having friends and family got to with gender you weirdo.

Has Allah only created men with family and the ability to value people? What's next you can batter women because men and women aren't the same?!


You're definitely low IQ.

You’ve insulted and attacked the messenger because deep down you know what I’m saying is right. Women don’t know what’s good for them. I’m speaking from experience and I know what works.

 

[anonimo]

Nah, I think this guy truly is sick tbh. His advice is simple redpill and abuser nonsense that is common.

The aim is to trigger by the looks of it.

His extreme misogynistic rhetoric can be spotted a mile away.

Socially isolate, lower self esteem etc. are obvious trigger tactics on his part. No sane man would call for such abusive acts. I assume Waa Qof Caadi who is trolling for attention?

Abaayo, some things are close to your heart but learn to turn the other cheek.

 

[Angelina]

You’ve insulted and attacked the messenger because deep down you know what I’m saying is right. Women don’t know what’s good for them. I’m speaking from experience and I know what works.

Nah i've attacked you because your list is abusive. Yes I know you're speaking from your experience of abusing your 'wife' if you even have one.

Funnily enough, i'm doubting your married as that list is so contrary to our dhaqan. Somalis are social creatures, especially those back home and cutting of ties of kinship is ceeb for us.

So if you're not married, good luck finding a Xalimo being okay with those terms. Even more so back home as fobs live in extended family homes and have tight knit.


You can take your dhaqan xumo else where.

 

[Queen Ati]

This person is a troll or a spiritually diseased person who likes to harm others or has harmed others already..

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

1. correct
2.wrong- make sure she only has good muslim friends that keep her in check, if the friends are single or non-islamic then advice her to yeet them out her life
3.Correct
4.Half correct. Dont point out her flaws to belittle her or keep her in check, this is arrogance, if ur going to point out a flaw do it rarely and be kind about it, she is not a robot u can just boss around or make her the perfect woman,

You agree with majority of what I said here. Is there anything wrong with I said islamically? No

 

[Angelina]

The aim is to trigger by the looks of it.

His extreme misogynistic rhetoric can be spotted a mile away.

Socially isolate, lower self esteem etc. are obvious trigger tactics on his part. No sane man would call for such abusive acts. I assume Waa Qof Caadi?
Abaayo, some things are close to your heart but learn to turn the other cheek.

Nah, saxib his views due to the filthy rap they consume and kevin Samuels and the like is becoming common. Also, domestic violence is an issue in every community, and these are the tell-tell signs and ways they're able to hurt women. We constantly ask ourselves why did she stay with him? Its because abusive men follow this list and isolate their wives which gives them free reign to use and abuse.

Also, he is posting this in the general section for youngesters to see. Some on here might have grew up in single parent households and have unfortunately not seen normal healthy couples. Some guys haven't seen how a husband is meant to act and now they might think being a 'man' is acting like an abusive arse who shatters his wife's confidence.

This man's list is literally a manifesto of abuse and its in the normal section for everyone to view.

 

[Dualke]

Here are some simple tips for younger brothers looking to get married. These are tips that most people are too afraid to say but are absolutely critical to fruitful marriage.

1) never legally marry. Always just do Islamic nikaax. This will protect you and your assets in the future and gives you more options to marry a second wife from abroad

2) don’t let your wife have any friends especially single Freinds. Women give each other bad advice and they can turn her against you

3) monitor how much time your wife spends with her family. Family can also give women bad advice and turn her against you

4) don’t give your wife too much compliments. Point out her flaws regularly to keep her in check and dependent on you

Is an Islamic nikkah between two cousins illegal? Asking for a friend

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Nah, saxib his views due to the filthy rap they consume and kevin Samuels and the like is becoming common. Also, domestic violence is an issue in every community, and these are the tell-tell signs and ways they're able to hurt women. We constantly ask ourselves why did she stay with him? Its because abusive men follow this list and isolate their wives which gives them free reign to use and abuse.

Also, he is posting this in the general section for youngesters to see. Some on here might have grew up in single parent households and have unfortunately not seen normal healthy couples. Some guys haven't seen how a husband is meant to act and now they might think being a 'man' is acting like an abusive arse who shatters his wife's confidence.

This man's list is literally a manifesto of abuse and its in the normal section for everyone to view.

Please stop with the feminist pseudo psycho babble. Marriage is a serious endeavour and any woman who wants to be married should be ready to commit 100% to her husband.

No where did I mention abuse

 

[GemState]

He makes some good points, even if it is worded bluntly

 

[Angelina]

Please stop with the feminist pseudo psycho babble. Marriage is a serious endeavour and any woman who wants to be married should be ready to commit 100% to her husband.

No where did I mention abuse

Okay, abuser.

 

[Angelina]

He makes some good points, even if it is worded bluntly

Here we have another abuser.