Marriage in the west is dead

[Mahacagalla]

No they’re not, they are just comfortable living there.

You know how expensive Toronto is now a days? Plenty of ppl would live in tchc, some people even live in apartments that are mostly subsidized cause no one wants to live there so the market price of the units are low. Like in falstaff

 

[Mahacagalla]

If western Somali men decide to go back hom for wives, who’s going to marry the Somali women in the west and the Somali men in Somalia?

No one
Somali men in Somalia will be the new Asian men getting cucked by diaspora Faraxs
And western Somali girls will be the African American women whose culture they imitate, getting ignored

I am just waffling I love me some Xalimos

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[karkaar]

This absolutely true, it's a slow painful death sentence for the fast majority of males that decide to marry in the diaspora.

I honestly feel sorry for them because I have seen first hand the chaos and long-term damages that it has caused.

If you understand basic female psychology and biology you will understand why you should never marry them, she has absolutely no need for you outside of the bedroom in the diaspora and this is of course assuming she is religious.

We live in an era today were this is predominantly sought through haram means during their prime, but once they hits 30, panic sets it and they seeks the halal only because now biology overpowered them and societal/cultural pressures are still strong. (not having kids of wedlock for e.g. which will change next decade as society becomes more decadent)

They are not even interested in marriage until there late 20's in this generation, something that didn't exist in my generation.

When you ask them "why" they tell you the focus is on career, studies, travel or any other malarky which is nothing more then code word for "wan bashaalaya first".

The worst aspect of this, is that all of the power and laws are firmly placed in their hands by the satanist social engineers for good reason.

They know full well that by doing this it will cause her to have a repulsive biological reaction towards her husband and disdain which ultimately culminates in divorce, so much so society in large is destroyed.

We haven't even discussed the ideological warfare by the Satanist social engineers through various poisonous ideologies like feminism for decades that has polluted the minds making them dumb, deaf and blind.


So what is the solution now that you know the problem and understand it's biological, psychological, ideological, cultural, intellectual and spiritual? for which there is no cure?

My personal advice is to engage in constant self-development, teach yourself a difficult marketable skill that will allow you work from anywhere in the world, don't become a pathetic consumer, save up as much as you can.

Build your own business or go into contracting, make smart well diversified investments that will create multiple passive revenue streams and acquire as much assets as you can (best assets are land)

This will take time, sacrifice and self-discipline to achieve, when you hit 60% in this journey or close to it, get yourself a well vetted wife from a third world country from the same tribe, leave this part to your mother.

Trust me on this, your mother knows it best, she sees things and looks at things in ways that are inconceivable to you, she can tell a good wife from a average wife, and she is the only person that truly has your interest at heart.

If you take this path, you are a free man now that can live in any part of the world you like without limitations.

Wherever you decide to live, make sure it's not a western country or any country like it, it must be patriarchal and religious (for the sake of your Children)

Somalia will get better in time inshaallaah as ease always follows after difficulty, and before that ease comes there is a lot of investment opportunities for you which you should never ignore.

Don't become the idiot that goes to war with his hands tied behind his back, yes you have exceptions in the diaspora no doubt, but they are so few in number, that I have yet to hear or come across one in over a decade and I am being brutally honest her.

Top notch advise bro

 

[Khayrre]

They hate to see guys with preference and standards.
A woman with preference and standards is empowered a man with preference and standards is an insecure in.cel, that can't handle an independent woman.

VET VET VET. Inshallah brothers find obedient, submissive wives that brings comfort to ur heart.

 

[Khayrre]

Even if she works, she wants to spend your money and save hers

Its a raw deal

Marrying in the west is like taking a 12 inch dildo and sticking it up ur futo, might as well do that coz u fucked anyways.

A moment of silence for the faraxs married to qumayos.

 

[Khayrre]

Yeah true, I better go back home. Idc if she runs away with the kids and money once she gets her passport. It'll be worth it

Nigga what, the whole point of marrying in somalia is to never bring her to the west. U bugging my guy.

 

[Al-Burcaawi]

Nigga what, the whole point of marrying in somalia is to never bring her to the west. U bugging my guy.

What's the point of marrying then if y'all are gonna be far apart?

 

[Khayrre]

What's the point of marrying then if y'all are gonna be far apart?

Good luck on that my guy.

 

[Santiago]

@Samaalic Era you are under heavy sixir. Only a very fresh virgin malab can save you. Good luck because you need it.

Sxb you have utterly lost your mind, please stop smoking weed. Kkkkk ”the government” kulahaa i dont give a damn about a God damn government sxb i’m the MAN of the house ya digg.

I need to release the pressude so i need a wife ya digg. Learn how to brainwash women and you’re good. My wife thinks her entire subclan will be finished if she disrespects me. Automatic death if she dares to snitch.

Karbaash her and love her at the same time kkkk ha isku dhexyaacdee kkkk

 

[dr.leorio]

Most of my friends are in their 30's and not a single one of them is happy in their marriages. These men are emasculated by their insufferable diaspora wives and complain nonstop about them. I have pity for them as they didn't have a clue on what they were signing up for but I would be a fool not to learn from their experiences.

Whether you like it or not, men have absolutely no control or agency over their family in the western world. The cards are stacked against you here and that's why the divorce rates in our community are ridiculously high. Diaspora men, don't be stupid. Value yourself and go where you're celebrated not tolerated.

P.S. I'm obviously not talking about all diaspora women. Their are a few good apples left. Emphasis on few.

 

[Omar del Sur]

 

[Cyrus]

Why do you guys always calacaal ?



there are many halimos who end up getting married to successful Turkish and North African men. Some of my friends did and they’re happy. sspot men like to paint western halimos as loosers that no one want but they are far from the truth. The halimos I’m friends with are successful educated and religious. Born and raised in the west.

With this current trend of Farahs marrying ajnabis(Arabs, white and South Asians), the brother is right Somalian women in the west will be short on options. Its already happening as most succesful, religous Somali men choose to go back home or marry out, so it will be the losers of the somali community who will be forced to 'till death do us part' with eachother.

 

[Saredo]

With this current trend of Farahs marrying ajnabis(Arabs, white and South Asians), the brother is right Somalian women in the west will be short on options. Its already happening as most succesful, religous Somali men choose to go back home or marry out, so it will be the losers of the somali community who will be forced to 'till death do us part' with eachother.

i deleted my comment because I don’t want to have these type of conversation with you guys anymore.

peace and have a good day.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Marrying in the west is like taking a 12 inch dildo and sticking it up ur futo, might as well do that coz u fucked anyways.

A moment of silence for the faraxs married to qumayos.

Wallahi that's how it is sxb. It's like shooting yourself in the foot. You gain nothing but loss and are tied down. You are reduced to producing children that will assimilate.

Your rights as a father and husband are non existent and the moment you try, will be sidelined

 

[Samaalic Era]

i deleted my comment because I don’t want to have these type of conversation with you guys anymore.

peace and have a good day.

You should have kept it up walal. This isn't against you or anyone in particular on sspot, but a general statement

 

[Samaalic Era]

@Samaalic Era you are under heavy sixir. Only a very fresh virgin malab can save you. Good luck because you need it.

Sxb you have utterly lost your mind, please stop smoking weed. Kkkkk ”the government” kulahaa i dont give a damn about a God damn government sxb i’m the MAN of the house ya digg.

I need to release the pressude so i need a wife ya digg. Learn how to brainwash women and you’re good. My wife thinks her entire subclan will be finished if she disrespects me. Automatic death if she dares to snitch.

Karbaash her and love her at the same time kkkk ha isku dhexyaacdee kkkk

Go ahead and implement this and see how long you can maintain this. When your children come home from school telling you about Khaniis rights and gender fluid xaar and you try to correct them, I make dua to you that don't lose your kids

 

[Apollo]

Go ahead and implement this and see how long you can maintain this. When your children come home from school telling you about Khaniis rights and gender fluid xaar and you try to correct them, I make dua to you that don't lose your kids

Lol, it is extremely easy to fix that brainwashing. Children respect their parents more than their teachers. My parents warned and taught me of the dangers of Western degeneracy.

 

[Genesis]

i deleted my comment because I don’t want to have these type of conversation with you guys anymore.

peace and have a good day.

The Akh-Right movement has broken the spirit of another Xalimo, stay strong walaal

 

[abdiwarrior]

Lol, it is extremely easy to fix that brainwashing. Children respect their parents more than their teachers. My parents warned and taught me of the dangers of Western degeneracy.

Arrogant much

 

[Apollo]

Arrogant much

How so, aren't you like a 15 year old, do tell us, do you really buy that degenerate stuff they push on your generation? Children aren't always that gullible.