Marriage in the west is dead

[Samaalic Era]

For my brothers, if you reside in the western world, do you intend to marry or focus on building yourself up?

Marriage in the west in 21st century is truly for dayuusiyiin. You have all the responsibilities of marriage without any of its rights. You have no authority over your children or wife, the government will always work against you as the father and husband. You are no more than sperm donater and a corporate slave and quiting your job will be suicidal

What are your plans brothers

 

[Basra]

 

[Abdisamad]

Shit we should immigrate back to the motherland.

 

[Yukon_Niner]

At least women have to chip in now, marriage back in the day was the pinnacle of simpnimo.

I wouldn't get married though. Unless I fall deeply I'm love I can't see it happening, having to work and live with someone else will always come with problems but at least I'm not forced to be the provider.

 

[Ayaanle__]

Start a new clan back home

 

[Paradise]

I would only get married when I'm financially secure. And even then why marry someone back home. They would most likely see you as a ticket out of there. At least the Halimos here won't have that baggage.

 

[Köttbullar]

"yes i am a dayuus" have it on publicsxb

 

[Nak Muay]

It's not all bad. Marriage nowdays seems more like a 50/50 split in everything, which I'm honestly alright with. Besides I have another decade of saqaajanimo left, I'm in no rush

 

[Yahya]

For my brothers, if you reside in the western world, do you intend to marry or focus on building yourself up?

Marriage in the west in 21st century is truly for dayuusiyiin. You have all the responsibilities of marriage without any of its rights. You have no authority over your children or wife, the government will always work against you as the father and husband. You are no more than sperm donater and a corporate slave and quiting your job will be suicidal

What are your plans brothers

I agree with this. You have no rights and the women are brainwashed by the government to hate males and their rights in the marriage are diminished. Not to mention how the society will impact my children negatively.

I think i will enjoy the malab here, enjoy myself and travel the world whilst working but when it comes to marriage i need to be on the same page as my wife and my decisions must be respected. I cannot achieve this here.

 

[Cyrus]

Never get legally married here akhi, always do islamic marriage and never register with the government. We dont need their recognition and other nonsense. My wife and i, did our nikkah and are making plans to move out to a gulf country once we complete university inshallah

Marriage in the west is made deliberately for the inconvenience of Muslims. You cant even marry another wife under their laws and they expect Muslims to abide by their man made laws and sham marriage certificates. These gaalo have another thing coming

 

[Köttbullar]

Its true i have said this and i will continue too.

Did you know they teach the children about Lgbt in KINDERGARDEN yea im out aint no way they are gonna be raised here

 

[المهندس]

i'm an advocate for marriage as its benefits are numerous. But the majority and i say majority of women have ruined it. For every fantastic feminine, submissive female they're 10 males waiting to swipe her off her feet.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Shit we should immigrate back to the motherland.

I agree with this. You have no rights and the women are brainwashed by the government to hate males and their rights in the marriage are diminished. Not to mention how the society will impact my children negatively.

I think i will enjoy the malab here, enjoy myself and travel the world whilst working but when it comes to marriage i need to be on the same page as my wife and my decisions must be respected. I cannot achieve this here.

You should build yourself up financially and then plan to move to a Muslim country. Being in the west with a family in the future will be very difficult and you will be stripped of your authority by the govt

 

[Gedogyal]

I actually feel bad for you men sometimes.. Ngl it can’t be easy to have that much burden on your shoulders My heart goes our for all you good and hardworking men out there. Life isn’t a race between who’s the most inferior/who suffers the most. May Allah make it easier for you, ameen.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Never get legally married here akhi, always do islamic marriage and never register with the government. We dont need their recognition and other nonsense. My wife and i, did our nikkah and are making plans to move out to a gulf country once we complete university inshallah

Marriage in the west is made deliberately for the inconvenience of Muslims. You cant even marry another wife under their laws and they expect Muslims to abide by their man made laws and sham marriage certificates. These gaalo have another thing coming

Moving to the Gulf is a good plan. Its a patriarchal society so your family will be under your authority without interference

 

[Samaalic Era]

Its true i have said this and i will continue too.

Did you know they teach the children about Lgbt in KINDERGARDEN yea im out aint no way they are gonna be raised here

Saxiib, imagine if you then try to undoctrinate your son, they will take him and then let a khaniis couple adopt him

 

[Farabuuto]

Start a new clan back home

you voted to marry in the west

 

[Macalin M]

Marriage is a scam. I’ll just keep it at girlfriend level

 

[Cyrus]

Moving to the Gulf is a good plan. Its a patriarchal society so your family will be under your authority without interference

@Inquisitive_ made some good points about this in one of his threads, something along the lines of the government essentially sidelining the father via the clueless quarter-brained wife and then becoming the 'dad' of the family. Thats why the A community is the way it is sxb, they have deluded and indoctrinated women with feminism to the point they divorce their husbands and make their kids suffer-who then rinse repear the same cycle.

 

[Farabuuto]

there's no correlation between deen and where you marry. lmao. If back home was so great then why is it in the state that it's in?

I could marry in Cambodia for all I care