Abdisamad
VIP
Thats some cucked shit
Ladies, you do not think us blokes should react?
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Yaraye
VIP
You can still talk to a person without making eye contactI thought you couldn't look men in the eye? What happened
Somali women who marry out are disgusting
I don’t really believe this story but I’ll comment any way.
It seems the art of one minding their business is lost. Paying for peoples meal can be rather passive aggressive, especially when it’s obvious you’re not happy about a certain situation. It’s like a dominating tactic and sends a message to her man.
I don’t know how you know from initial appearance that she’s somehow better? What if he’s doing well financially? Like in tech or medicine? A great individual who treats her amazingly? You don’t know anything about the couple, you don’t even know if they were married which you admitted.
I’m not a fan of IR marriages, but what I hate more is Somali men thinking they own random Xalimos, even ones who could actually be married. Ajnabi or not, respect peoples marriages. The fact that some Somali men used to try and beat random Somali women for being with ajnabis takes the cake. You can’t be playing those games in the West, I hope those women pressed charges and got those men for assault.
It seems the art of one minding their business is lost. Paying for peoples meal can be rather passive aggressive, especially when it’s obvious you’re not happy about a certain situation. It’s like a dominating tactic and sends a message to her man.
I don’t know how you know from initial appearance that she’s somehow better? What if he’s doing well financially? Like in tech or medicine? A great individual who treats her amazingly? You don’t know anything about the couple, you don’t even know if they were married which you admitted.
I’m not a fan of IR marriages, but what I hate more is Somali men thinking they own random Xalimos, even ones who could actually be married. Ajnabi or not, respect peoples marriages. The fact that some Somali men used to try and beat random Somali women for being with ajnabis takes the cake. You can’t be playing those games in the West, I hope those women pressed charges and got those men for assault.
𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
I shall come back to the other good points you raised, but allow me to ask re: 'Somali men thinking they own random Xalimo', is the contention that we, Somali men, should not care as to what our ladies do, or happens to them?
If she’s married, understand that you’re the ajnabi in her life in that situation. You’re a random non Mahram man. Such a woman answers to her parents and husband. Not a random man she shares an ethnic group with. It’s a mental illness as a non Mahram man to think you have the right to dictate to a woman whom she goes for. The line of thinking is, if you don’t go for me or men like me (basically Somali men) I should be able to beat you as I own you. Luckily for men like that we have assault laws in the West, which will quickly put them in their place.
Attacking a woman for being with a man that doesn’t look like you isn’t caring. It’s simply caring about your own ego and screams of insecurity. It’s insulting to even associate it with ‘care’, it’s the opposite: it’s abuse.
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𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
From that, am I right to conclude, we should NOT care, or come to their rescue?
𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
Bearing in mid these were young girls, would your answer be still the same?
Yes! It would. In fact, it’s even worse. Imagine a random strange man who isn’t your Mahram who pretty much isn’t anybody in your life thinking he can talk to you?! A grown man abusing a little girl? Authobillah.
Of topic, but I remember as a teen many years ago, I was speaking in English with my Somali friend on the bus, this random Farax came up to ask if I was Somali. After I confirmed, he thought he could shout at me and basically disrespect me for not speaking in Somali with my friend. I’ve always had a mouth on me even as a teen and I told him, I can speak Chinese if I wanted and it wouldn’t be his damn business. I proceeded to remind him that he is a nobody in my life and that I would get my brothers on him if he ever tried to speak to me. I was so mad, I proceeded to insult him in Af-Somali.
As much as I love Somalinimo, weird Somali men thinking they can intimidate and dictate to random girls is sickening and I’m glad it isn’t a thing anymore. It’s not caring, it’s bullying. If they truly cared, they’d ask questions and advise in an appropriate manner. They do this because women are weaker. They’d never do that with a guy because they know they’d get battered.
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Odious Delirium
VIP
𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
We were young lads ourselves, not older men, as older men usually do not do that, except the odd scolding.
So, if a young Somali man sees a Somali lady, doing bad, or getting up to no good, we should just walk away.
𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
Last time I saw a group of young Somali boys in Cedar selling stollen dvds, I confiscated, and told them off.
So let me get this right, you’re line of thinking is if you can’t attack a Xalimo for marrying an ajnabi, that means if something was to happen to a Xalimo you can’t help? isn’t that sick?
I’m sorry, I’m not a fan of IR but I wouldn’t comment on a Farax who is married to a Russian and if anything happened to that said Farax in public like being attacked or whatever, I’d help him.
But then again, I respect people’s humanity and don’t believe I own them.
Speak to her like a normal human being and if she doesn’t listen, leave the hell alone. Funny how you probably wouldn’t speak to a Somali boy doing bad and if you would, you certainly wouldn’t get violent? Why, because you know your jaw would be spun.
Wallahi I find it cowardly.
𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
Not quite. We are not talking about married ladies. I thought I made that clear.
𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
And if she is abused, and misused, then what?
𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈
VIP
Actually, we are much harsher with boys, and have gotten physical many a time. I was offering the last encounter I had with boys.
Trust me, they wouldn’t. I’m probably a similar age to him or maybe a bit younger. I’m about to turn 30 and I remember back in the days, they’d go up to Xalimos but avoid the Faraxs out of fear of violence. The story I told you about me being verbally attacked for speaking in English in public by this weird fob as a teen, I know he wouldn’t have dared to talk that way to my brothers if they were talking in English with their boys. I even remember thinking that as a teen and being even more angry about the incident. I truly felt that he thought I was an easy target because I was a teen girl. Jokes was on him though, even when I was a teen I had a mouth on me and had no issues cussing out men like him.
