Ladies, you do not think us blokes should react?

[Odious Delirium]

I'm not endorsing anything. I'm just talking about the somali older men culture. They pay Just on the fact of being somali. They aren't even thinking about haram/religion. I've never said to endorse haram

Well the whole point I was making was on endorsing haram specifically so what were you disagreeing with then because I never said I had a problem with that

 

[Keep it a boqol]

U wot m8??

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I understand generally that's how we were all brought up hopefully
but I personally dont support somalis in doing haram because then your basically participating in that sin with them by facilitating it with your money or help when you knowingly do it.

You are right, and I am not excusing it, but when one is young, one tends to do all sort of things, including bending rules here, and there., which is the reason it is called 'youthful indiscretions'.

If I knew for example my mate wanted to go on a haram date and he asked me for money to make it happen I wouldn't give him based on principle as opposed to if he just asked me to give him money.

Have you not got dear mates, for whom you would do almost anything under the sun?

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

U wot m8??

Ever heard of Kray twins?

 

[Yaraye]

Well the whole point I was making was on endorsing haram specifically so what were you disagreeing with then because I never said I had a problem with that

I also don't encourage supporting haram. However paying regardless of whether its haram or not, is one of the things that touches my heart about somali older men they are wiling to pay (despite sometimes being haram) cuz you're somali

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I also don't encourage supporting haram. However paying regardless of whether its haram or not, is one of the things that touches my heart about somali older men they are wiling to pay (despite sometimes being haram) cuz you're somali

Yes, it is called chivalry, and being a gentleman, a concept most 'hooyo-koris' have never heard of.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I say, let us send them all to a bootcamp, and teach them about gentlemanly code of conduct.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Bloody toerag. Now, or then?

Then, I would probably take a Jumbia, and disembowel myself.

And now you’d probably pat the BBC on the back, wink at him, pay for their KFC and implore him to continue conquering xalimos. What happened?

 

[Yaraye]

Yes, it is called chivalry, and being a gentleman, a concept most 'hooyo-koris' have never heard of.

Yes. Sadly its dying. Even with the somali men that come from somalia/africa now don't really have it as much as they used to. I have a somali male coworker (a few year older than me) that pays for my food sometimes whenever we have to go outside for a job. The thing is he's not born in the west. So he has that "hooyo-koris" that I've seen with only a few somali men now

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

@Javelin
In my last trip to Minneapolis, a couple of months ago, I was at Quruxley restaurant for lunch with a group of mates, had a nice meal, were enjoying nice Somali bun, and someone we just met, and exchanged pleasantries with, a truck driver actually, paid for the entire table, and the one next to it.

I always do it when traveling in Somalia, for it is part of our culture.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Yes. Sadly its dying. Even with the somali men that come from somalia/africa now don't really have it as much as they used to. I have a somali male coworker (a few year older than me) that pays for my food sometimes whenever we have to go outside for a job. The thing is he's not born in the west. So he has that "hooyo-koris" that I've seen with only a few somali men now

Unfortunately true.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Have you not got dear mates, for whom you would do almost anything under the sun?

I do but there from the same environment so on this they are like minded and if they did haram things they wouldn't do it openly or ask me to help them do it because they share the same principles. Neither would they expect me to help them or come to me help them do it.
Hypothetical if they did want to buy alcohol for example and needed money they would just ask me to give them or lend them money without disclosing the purpose which I wouldn't have a problem doing.

 

[Aegon]

Fake up story because even Somali girl who date Ajnabi don’t dare to walk in public with them

 

[Odious Delirium]

@Javelin
In my last trip to Minneapolis, a couple of months ago, I was at Quruxley restaurant for lunch with a group of mates, had a nice meal, were enjoying nice Somali bun, and someone we just met, and exchanged pleasantries with, a truck driver actually, paid for the entire table, and the one next to it.

I always do it when traveling in Somalia, for it is part of our culture.

I agree that is a part of our culture and its a good thing and I have done it myself.

My only issue was with helping in haram specifically.

I have no issue with helping somalis simply because there somalis. I think that's an admirable part of our culture and brings somalis closer together which I support.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I do but there from the same environment so on this they are like minded and if they did haram things they wouldn't do it openly or ask me to help them do it because they share the same principles. Neither would they expect me to help them or come to me help them do it.
Hypothetical if they did want to buy alcohol for example and needed money they would just ask me to give them or lend them money without disclosing the purpose which I wouldn't have a problem doing.

I see what you mean, and as you said, different crowd. What about your non-Muslim friends, when you go out, say for a Fri. evening, and its your turn to pay? Then what?

And I know it is haram to even be in your local haunt.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

because even Somali girl who date Ajnabi don’t dare to walk in public with them

Oh silly mare. Not so, mate.

 

[Shimbiris]

Postscript:
This I consider quite an improvement, for in my younger days, if we saw a Somali lady out with an ajnabi, or even showing interest, at best, we would have a strong word in her good ear, or at worse, beat the hell out of her. We did not even have to know her. This flows from the notion, rightly or not, that our ladies could be a bit naive, and could be taken advantage of. Or so we think.

You MOTHAFUCKA! You had the audacity to browbeat me in another thread for using word "naag" once when you used to gang beat Xalimos for dating ajanabis?!

 

[Cartan Boos]

Oh silly mare. Not so, mate.

i read that in irish accent kkk sxb speak proper english

 

[Odious Delirium]

I see what you mean, and as you said, different crowd. What about your non-Muslim friends, when you go out, say for a Fri. evening, and its your turn to pay? Then what?

And I know it is haram to even be in your local haunt.

I don't have non muslim freinds. I did in the past but right now for the most part only acquaintances.
And no I wouldn't go to those places they wouldn't invite me because they already know I'm a muslim and don't do that kind of stuff based on our interactions.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

And now you’d probably pat the BBC on the back, wink at him, pay for their KFC and implore him to continue conquering xalimos. What happened?

Never mate. I am a bit more seasoned now, a bit more patient, a lot wiser, and have seen the world.

I respect sisters' choices, and only ask of them to be selective, and upgrade, please.