Ladies only poll: Would you ever marry a much older man?

[Mckenzie]

To my suprise i have seen many young women who marry and divorce quickly. I use to be Team 19-23 but those girls are extremely unstable and in my opinion not fit for marriage yet, atleast the western ones. I believe a woman who has seen some adversity in her life is better prepared for marriage than a fresh out of College or an in-College student that has been sheltered and pampered. Marry a girl that has been heartbroken, experienced difficulties at home, has aged, even a divorcee is alright. Those girls are patient, conscious of their next relationship and will do everything to make it work. Stay away from young excited girls who think marriage is a fairy tale dream and they'll live like Cinderalla. It's not. You'll be gaining masculine energy just from being near a guy, exposed to the reality that coitus and basic intimacy is the best you can get in this life, that your husband isn't really superman but a normal guy you may have once disliked in another lifetime, that your children may leave you old and homeless etc. If you want marriage you have to want it for the right objectives - deen and family. Anything else and you've failed.

 

[Qeelbax]

I'm talking 10 years, 15 years, etc.


And if you select 'yes', please make it clear in your response what your reason or condition is.





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I would for lacag

 

[Angelina]

To my suprise i have seen many young women who marry and divorce quickly. I use to be Team 19-23 but those girls are extremely unstable and in my opinion not fit for marriage yet, atleast the western ones. I believe a woman who has seen some adversity in her life is better prepared for marriage than a fresh out of College or an in-College student that has been sheltered and pampered. Marry a girl that has been heartbroken, experienced difficulties at home, has aged, even a divorcee is alright. Those girls are patient, conscious of their next relationship and will do everything to make it work. Stay away from young excited girls who think marriage is a fairy tale dream and they'll live like Cinderalla. It's not. You'll be gaining masculine energy just from being near a guy, exposed to the reality that coitus and basic intimacy is the best you can get in this life, that your husband isn't really superman but a normal guy you may have once disliked in another lifetime, that your children may leave you old and homeless etc. If you want marriage you have to want it for the right objectives - deen and family. Anything else and you've failed.

That’s a very unique take that I haven’t seen on here yet. Hmm.

 

[Angelina]

I would for lacag

Love this for you sprinkle sprinkle ladies

 

[Qeelbax]

Silver Fox

I only like cadaan silver foxes, im sorry but I’ve never found an older somali man the least bit attractive

 

[Ozark]

Don't wanna butt in this thread, but what AI did you use? @𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Don't wanna butt in this thread, but what AI did you use? @𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒

Hey walale,

Bing image creator

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

As expected:

15 voted NO
5 voted YES- and the 'Yes' from the explanations, are based on conditions such as financial security.


The reason I made this thread, was to dispel the false notion that women are into older men. No, it's not the norm, and when it happens, it is based on financial security and other caveats.

 

[A Mean Guy]

I only like cadaan silver foxes, im sorry but I’ve never found an older somali man the least bit attractive

It's because they let themselves go, They have huge bellies and are not willing to go to the gym to lose it. The Somali diet of bariis and baasto does not help too. They also have zero fashion sense. They either wear clothes that are too tight around their fat guts or too baggy.
Imagine if they bought tailored clothes, put on muscle and had regular haircuts.

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[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I only like cadaan silver foxes, im sorry but I’ve never found an older somali man the least bit attractive

Same, I find very few odays attractive.

Minister Ahmed Hussen is one of the rare few that has aged well.




And yes, I would have married him, education, good looks, good salary, status.

But this combination is rare. Good for him and good for his wife, Masha'Allah.

48 years old.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

It's because they let themselves go, They have huge bellies and are not willing to go to the gym to lose it. The Somali diet of bariis and baasto does not help too. They also have zero fashion sense. They either wear clothes that are too tight around their fat guts or too baggy.
Imagine if they bought tailored clothes, put on muscle and had regular haircuts.

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Yes!! I was going to say this too.

The next generations of Somali men, will age better in my opinion, because they appear more health conscious and are into skin-care and style more than the gen X and old Millenial males.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

To my suprise i have seen many young women who marry and divorce quickly. I use to be Team 19-23 but those girls are extremely unstable and in my opinion not fit for marriage yet, atleast the western ones. I believe a woman who has seen some adversity in her life is better prepared for marriage than a fresh out of College or an in-College student that has been sheltered and pampered. Marry a girl that has been heartbroken, experienced difficulties at home, has aged, even a divorcee is alright. Those girls are patient, conscious of their next relationship and will do everything to make it work. Stay away from young excited girls who think marriage is a fairy tale dream and they'll live like Cinderalla. It's not. You'll be gaining masculine energy just from being near a guy, exposed to the reality that coitus and basic intimacy is the best you can get in this life, that your husband isn't really superman but a normal guy you may have once disliked in another lifetime, that your children may leave you old and homeless etc. If you want marriage you have to want it for the right objectives - deen and family. Anything else and you've failed.

I think that both genders need to get a reality check before marriage. For example, go through pre-marital counselling in addition, learning what each person's rights are. Finally, they need to go through STD tests, fertility tests, and financial planning talks. Another important thing that is overlooked, is that young couples aren't taught how to disagree or argue in a constructive manner.

If Somalis normalised these things, we'd see far less divorces. Instead we have a society that encourages people to get married quickly, and then they blame their own mistakes on Allah SWT by saying it is 'pre-ordained'.

Everyone, go to Somalia, and you'll see young people, on their second spouse.

 

[Angelina]

Same, I find very few odays attractive.

Minister Ahmed Hussen is one of the rare few that has aged well.




And yes, I would have married him, education, good looks, good salary, status.

But this combination is rare. Good for him and good for his wife, Masha'Allah.

48 years old.

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Am I the only one? You other ladies can tell me you what you think as well. But don’t you think this former Somali president aged very well for a Somali man? At the time he was like in his late 50s:

Deffo think he was the most put together president we’ve ever had and didn’t look bad at like 60ish which was what he was I think in that picture?

What do you lot think? He’s super old now.

 

[Gojo Satoru]

I prefer men around my age but if he's good looking and has money I wouldn't mind going for an older guy. I'm not gonna be a stepmother though

 

[Qeelbax]

Same, I find very few odays attractive.

Minister Ahmed Hussen is one of the rare few that has aged well.




And yes, I would have married him, education, good looks, good salary, status.

But this combination is rare. Good for him and good for his wife, Masha'Allah.

48 years old.

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He’s a dog though, so all that for nothing

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Am I the only one? You other ladies can tell me you what you think as well. But don’t you think this former Somali president aged very well for a Somali man? At the time he was like in his late 50s:

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Deffo think he was the most put together president we’ve ever had and didn’t look bad at like 60ish which was what he was I think in that picture?

What do you lot think? He’s super old now.

For sure, he's handsome too and aged well!

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I prefer men around my age but if he's good looking and has money I wouldn't mind going for an older guy. I'm not gonna be a stepmother though

This is the general consensus.

This is why I laugh at delusional comments, when they act like men have endless options into old-age.

 

[Gojo Satoru]

This is the general consensus.

This is why I laugh at delusional comments, when they act like men have endless options into old-age.

No woman in her right mind would willingly marry an ugly and bloated odey. If you're not wealthy then forget about even looking at a younger woman

 

[Moon-]

No even if they were rich I could never see myself with one also why aren’t they going for ppl in their age group?? They’ll probably loose interest in you when you get old

 

[Qeelbax]

Am I the only one? You other ladies can tell me you what you think as well. But don’t you think this former Somali president aged very well for a Somali man? At the time he was like in his late 50s:

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Deffo think he was the most put together president we’ve ever had and didn’t look bad at like 60ish which was what he was I think in that picture?

What do you lot think? He’s super old now.

I would’ve had a crush on him in college