Ladies let’s prove a point to factz

[PhaedrusHunt]

Same goes if your a father. That’s why we got all these deadbeat dads that barely hang out with their kids. Even if they do work a busy schedule they wouldn’t even try to hang out with their kids when they were off. Just come home go to sleep and that’s it.

Which is despicable, I’m not disagreeing. But a mothers love for her children is far more superior for their mental well being, I feel that fathers should discipline the kids and help out when they can. The reason why we have these men in our communities who don’t spend time with kids/discipline them is because of their way of doing things back home - which is - let the community raise the kids, that just doesn’t cut it in the West. But I’m more than confident that second gen Somalis will do much better than our parents gen.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Which is despicable, I’m not disagreeing. But a mothers love for her children is far more superior for their mental well being, I feel that fathers should discipline the kids and help out when they can. The reason why we have these men in our communities who don’t spend time with kids/discipline them is because of their way of doing things back home - which is - let the community raise the kids, that just doesn’t cut it in the West. But I’m more than confident that second gen Somalis will do much better than our parents.

I was raised by a working mother and a working father.

My mother definently made time to hang out with us. My father not so much.

That might do much better but I don’t think a majority of second gen Somali women are planning on becoming housewives when they get married.

Dude we have parents who have escaped civil war and come to the west where they can raise their kids in an environment where they can receive the best type of education and be raised with a good quality of life.

Why put all that time and energy to waste?

 

[Ubax45_]

Yes, there are women in this generation who will opt to be housewives, everyone is aware of that. It's not exclusive to Somalis either just look at the stats in western countries around 1/4 of mothers in the US are not working last I checked.

 

[Wei]

@PhaedrusHunt @Factz dp y’all personally know females in college who are actually deciding to become housewives once they get married.

What’s the whole point of going to college if your not going to use your degree. A majority of the hijabis I know here in the states are attending universities. They all pretty much have career goals.

I’m honeslty not expecting to have a housewife at all.

If you don't expect to have a housewife, who will take care of the children?

Or do feminists expect infants to crawl on all fours to the refrigerator and retrieve their bottle of breast milk, change their own diaper, and find warmth and comfort from a teddy bear if under distress.

 

[Emily]

YOOO so women get turned on when they see their husband washing dishes

'Aboowe the way you are washing the dishes got me feeling xaaax'

It’s hot when a man cooks or washes the dishes, such turn on. A wife who doesn’t get help around the house is always tired and won’t have energy to perform in bed.

 

[Factz]

I was raised by a working mother and a working father.

My mother definently made time to hang out with us. My father not so much.

That might do much better but I don’t think a majority of second gen Somali women are planning on becoming housewives when they get married.

Dude we have parents who have escaped civil war and come to the west where they can raise their kids in an environment where they can receive the best type of education and be raised with a good quality of life.

Why put all that time and energy to waste?

Wallahi I know so many Somali women who are graduates became housewives once they started having kids. Women who become mothers naturally end up being housewives and there is nothing wrong with that. Remember their children is way more important than their career.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

If you don't expect to have a housewife, who will take care of the children?

Or do feminists expect infants to crawl on all fours to the refrigerator and retrieve their bottle of breast milk, change their own diaper, and find warmth and comfort from a teddy bear if under distress.

I can help or I just put the kids in day care, while we work and whenever free from work hang out and chill with the kids.

It all matters in how you interact with your kids whenever your free. I know kids who have parents that are doctors, pilots, nurses, and etc who have grown up to be fine people with good relationships with their parents.


I know one kid specifically whose mother is an oncologist and whose father is a pilot(the pilot works 17 days a month and isn’t home during these days). Whenever the pilot is free he just chills at home and hangs out with his kid as much as they can. The mother also hung out with him whenever she was free.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Wallahi I know so many Somali women who are graduates became housewives once they started having kids. Women who become mothers naturally end up being housewives and there is nothing wrong with that. Remember their children is way more important than their career.

I can understand chicks becoming housewives during the early stages of the child’s life. But I wouldn’t be expecting to see a women with a degree being a housewife when her kids are ages 6+.

 

[YourBroMoe]

You can’t be a house wife unless your husband makes more than six figures.

Sensible request.

 

[YourBroMoe]

I bet @Factz is the sort of guy who gets jealousy of the baby when it is being breastfed.

@Factz what will your son think when he finds out his father is a professional YouTube troll

 

[YourBroMoe]

If girls don’t want to be housewives then what’s the issue.

That doesn't answer the question. I ain't a hater or nothing, but that was a real dumb ass response.

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

I was raised by a working mother and a working father.

My mother definently made time to hang out with us. My father not so much.

That might do much better but I don’t think a majority of second gen Somali women are planning on becoming housewives when they get married.

Dude we have parents who have escaped civil war and come to the west where they can raise their kids in an environment where they can receive the best type of education and be raised with a good quality of life.

Why put all that time and energy to waste?

Somali women who’ve forestalled marriage and having kids to work on their careers are now facing the predicament of no men willing to settle down with them, the biological clock is real. It’s actually reaching crisis levels in our communities, some are even going home to get married to fobs. Most of them regret their choice, women are happier raising their children, not slaving away in corporate. How some women opt to go for a career and throw their kids at the local day care 12+ hours instead of being a part of and shaping their children’s lives is beyond me.

 

[Emily]

I'll help her from time to time but this nigga wants to wear the apron and dirac and start making laxoox everyday absolutely disgusting

There is nothing wrong with helping your wife around the house, it won’t reduce your manhood. We are not living in the 17th century dude

 

[Neslihan]

From what I watch so far, you guys are like old married couple ahahaha.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Look y'all, it ain't that fkin serious.

If you and her are both working, get married young and then wait to have kids. Don't be dumb and think the moment we get married, we're starting to have kids. You can fking wait, but get married so you're at least serious with someone.

If you work, and she doesn't, you can wait. Get your career moving and then marry her and immediately start a family.

Why all of y'all made this shit complicated is beyond me.

 

[nine]

I bet @[B]Factz[/B] is the sort of guy who gets jealousy of the baby when it is being breastfed.

@Factz what will your son think when he finds out his father is a professional YouTube troll

 

[government]

There is nothing wrong with helping your wife around the house, it won’t reduce your manhood. We are not living in the 17th century dude

Did you read my comment I said I'll help from time to time

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

Look y'all, it ain't that fkin serious.

If you and her are both working, get married young and then wait to have kids. Don't be dumb and think the moment we get married, we're starting to have kids. You can fking wait, but get married so you're at least serious with someone.

If you work, and she doesn't, you can wait. Get your career moving and then marry her and immediately start a family.

Why all of y'all made this shit complicated is beyond me.

Would you chuck your kids at a day care centre? Somehow the thought just doesn’t sit right with me.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Somali women who’ve forestalled marriage and having kids to work on their careers are now facing the predicament of no men willing to settle down with them, the biological clock is real. It’s actually reaching crisis levels in our communities, some are even going home to get married to fobs. Most of them regret their choice, women are happier raising their children, not slaving away in corporate. How some women opt to go for a career and throwing their kids at the local day care 12+ hours instead of being a part of and shaping their children’s lives is beyond me.

Bro than just marry a non somali than.wallahi it bothers me how there are a shit load of dudes on here who wouldn’t want to marry a women that was 27+ especially if they were the same age as her. I would be cool as hell marrying a career women.

@zeinap83 @Blade1 @Knowles if y’all reach 27+ and Somali dudes curve y’all cause of your age and your job, f*ck them niggas. Get a non somali.

All these dudes slandering career women but when they wife gets sick they want her to see a female doctor. The irony right.

It’s gonan be all fun and games until you go to the hospital and the male doctor s for your wife to strip down and u decide to bust a vein.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Would you chuck your kids at a day care centre? Somehow the thought just doesn’t sit right with me.

I get that man. But I've seen that happen to some brothers growing up and they ended up alright. What works for some, might not work for others. You gotta know yourself. You sound like you want a housewife. Nothing wrong with that. Get what you want in life homie.