just found out my friend does shisha

[Qeelbax]

im shocked you lot let these dhegocas get to you because shisha is foreign to us. We are not big on smoking like they are. Alhamdulilah that degeneracy is not common in the people I grew up around. That shit is corruptive.

 

[Yaraye]

currently not talking to them, im so disappointed. i feel bad for her parents, she comes from a stable loving family.

I hate anything substance related with a huge passion. Being mentally vulnerable terrifies me

I would distance myself but I wouldn't totally stop talking to them. That's a bit sad sis

 

[Yaraye]

What happened going just for coffee☕️ with friends and socializing being 100% sober.

I really don't see the need to have something in your system in order to feel relaxed. People need to learn how to be themselves without taking anything, whether it is cigarettes, shisha, weed or khad. Don't let anyone tell you it's harmless.

Balwad is waist for your money it ruins your health and it can be dangerous when you're driving, operating machinery, or even if you get into altercation with total stranger. As it clouds your judgment, reasoning and your reflex.

Say no to Balwad.

Exactly! I don't understand the issue with having fun while sober. Scary sh!t happens to women in this world all the time - being mentally impaired in such a dangerous world is a horrifying thought

 

[Khal Mah Oma]

Smoking hookah with your habibi is the equivalent of drinking beer with your homies. lol. But seriously: tell your friends that hookah is bad for your health. If them smoking triggers you that much then I suggest you find a new clean friend that drinks herbal tea. Instead. Hookah is bad for health but at least they’re not doing other intoxicating hard core drugs.

 

[Khal Mah Oma]

@Stimpy is there a problem?

 

[Stimpy]

Yeah there is, both of them are equally bad.

 

[Khal Mah Oma]

Yeah there is, both of them are equally bad.

I already said is bad for health. But hookah is a cultural norm in most Muslim countries (is the equivalent of beer culture in Christian countries). Is bad but it does not intoxicate you neurologically like other drugs or alcohol which is obviously prohibited in Islam.

 

[Stimpy]

I already said is bad for health. But hookah is a cultural norm in most Muslim countries (is the equivalent of beer culture in Christian countries). Is bad but it does not intoxicate you neurologically like other drugs or alcohol which is obviously prohibited in Islam.

It’s exclusively in Arab countries and the vast majority don’t do it purely based on religious and health issues

 

[Khal Mah Oma]

It’s exclusively in Arab countries and the vast majority don’t do it purely based on religious and health issues

Of course they don’t do it for religion. They do it for indulgence only. But hookah is common in most Muslim countries.

 

[sh-89]

There is nothing wrong with you separating yourself and remember your family wants the best for you. These things lead to health problems.

Remember these things are social: drugs, shisha, alcohol etc. You cannot be completely sober and be around these things all the time.

You do not have to be responsible for her and wish her well but take care of yourself. You are cheating with death when you take part in these things. I remember driving home with friend on the highway ands she was drunk swerving. Another friend of our died (suicide) and was always depressed/questioning the existence of God. Many young people end up dead because of who they are around especially young men who endanger their lives with for their friends. I think friends ruin people more than romantic relationships nowadays.

It can be so hard to make friends on the right path. I suggest you take part in groups at colleges or online communities, it can literally save your life. All the best sister.