yep true females literally can marry a rich guy and leech off of him. and yet the still complain about how is hard to be female
It’s easier to be a man in islam than a woman
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Definitely, I see where you are coming from. Islamically, men and women are not in competition. Its not who has it better and who hasn't really.
Young women start to form these opinions mainly due to lack of Islamic knowledge of female rights and accepting sexist cultural ideals.
Alx Islam took women from being buried alive to having Jannah under their feet.
رَضِيتُ بِاللَّهِ رَبًّا وَبِالْإِسْلَامِ دِينًا وَبِمُحَمَّدٍ نَبِيًّا
I am pleased with Allah as my Lord, with Islam as my religion, and with Muhammad as my prophet
stfu man seriously. Women have so many rights in islam. This just shows how little you know about the religion
Villainess
smooth talk on a rainy summer evening
Villainess
smooth talk on a rainy summer evening
don't feed them. they come out and post anytime islam is mentioned. yaab
You ever lived like a housewife? It's some soul-crushing stuff once the kids are in school. My mother couldn't take it for more than a year after I started school and decided to open a shop. You're sitting or sleeping around all day because you clean the house fast enough once you've got it down to a science, you distract yourself with material nonsense like shopping & constant TV watching and fads and by the time your husband is home you have plenty of energy and want to talk, make love and so forth but he reasonably doesn't due to being tired and it causes all kinds of tension and you feel incredibly useless and inadequate. It is usually a miserable existence and most modern housewives aren't all there in my experience.
KingSomali999
UNKOWN.
YEAH GIRLL have it way harder, tell that to the men that die protecting their families or ones that died in war
Islam protects muslim women's honour don't fall for the lies secular kuffar invent to turn people away from the haqq
And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 331; Muslim, 1468.
ibn Maajah (3669) narrated that ‘Uqbah ibn ‘Aamir (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Whoever has three daughters and is patient towards them, and feeds them, gives them to drink and clothes them from his riches, they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.
"During the time of Henry VIII, the English Parliament issued a decree forbidding women to read the New Testament because they were regarded as impure. "
Until 1805, English law allowed a man to sell his wife, and set a wife’s price at six pennies. "
Source: Islamqa
Wife selling only stoped last century a practice by the immoral kuffar which they try to hide.. barbaric not only are they terrorists but they have a history of abusing their womenfolk .
And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 331; Muslim, 1468.
ibn Maajah (3669) narrated that ‘Uqbah ibn ‘Aamir (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Whoever has three daughters and is patient towards them, and feeds them, gives them to drink and clothes them from his riches, they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.
"During the time of Henry VIII, the English Parliament issued a decree forbidding women to read the New Testament because they were regarded as impure. "
Until 1805, English law allowed a man to sell his wife, and set a wife’s price at six pennies. "
Source: Islamqa
Wife selling only stoped last century a practice by the immoral kuffar which they try to hide.. barbaric not only are they terrorists but they have a history of abusing their womenfolk .
You didn't understand my post.
Xaruun
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You basically have to immerse yourself into hobbies or work part time. However, if she’s living in a big house with no maids then she doesn’t have to worry about free time
So you meant ‘under the guise of Islam’? Are you complaining about Somali culture?
You basically have to immerse yourself into hobbies or work part time. However, if she’s living in a big house with no maids then she doesn’t have to worry about free time
So you meant ‘under the guise of Islam’? Are you complaining about Somali culture?
Human beings like to challenge themselves. Constantly cooking and cleaning, day in and out is depressing, especially if you're alone at home. Its tedious and boring. No wonder a lot of housewives are taking anti-depressants. At least back home women are getting vitamin D and the community spirit is alive.
My dream would be to have a maid, so that I can focus on my hobbies and my children's education and development.
Women face other issues which are biologically unique to us. Such as the monthly menstrual cycle, pregnancies, childbirth, post birth recovery and menopause. Motherhood is more difficult than fatherhood as women always take on more responsibilities.
This is why the deen values mothers more than fathers and placesJannah under our mothers feet. With greater responsibility comes greater rewards.
This is why the deen values mothers more than fathers and placesJannah under our mothers feet. With greater responsibility comes greater rewards.
You basically have to immerse yourself into hobbies or work part time. However, if she’s living in a big house with no maids then she doesn’t have to worry about free time
Sure but just wanted highlight the difference between that and a woman in her traditional setting where such inadequacy would not really be present. Take nomadic Somali women. They were every bit as important to the family's survival as the man and had daily tasks and responsibilities. Making the tent by gathering all the materials and fashioning them together like the poles, ropes and mats. Tending the sheep and goats who were the most numerous livestock historically and the main source of meat, preparing all the crucial dairy products like ghee and sour-milks, preparing all the meals, protecting and doing much of the emotional parenting for the kids alongside many other duties. These women would have never felt useless. The man likewise was responsible for defending the entire family from raids, for conducting raids of his own if needed, for tending to the larger animals like the camels and horses, for teaching the sons their future responsibilities, for being the family's representative in matters of trade and legality and so forth. There was a harmony, no one was truly more important than the other or could truly talk down to the other like what they did wasn't of absolutely crucial value.
This is the natural state of women in hunter-gatherer, pastoralist and farmer settings, as a man's partner in daily survival. This is what they mentally evolved in. Taking that being and expecting them to be happy as some well-off housewife is bound to cause mental distress in my opinion.
GlitzyCue_
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alhamdulillah for Islam but I think what many people forget or get defensive about is many countries don’t follow Islam completely due to cultural traditions that they refuse to let go, you’re talking about wife’s being sold but right now in poor Muslim countries parents are selling their daughters for money. Culture has refused to give girls their rights Islam promised them. It’s actually so sad nowhere in the religion does it say girls should not be educated and should just sit there and obey their “guardians”. A lot of people confuse culture with religion smh
That’s why a lot of housewives immerse themselves with their children school
Volunteer at events
Work part time
Put their kids through sports or curriculum activity Etc.
This not unique to only muslim countrys but all över the world. The ways of power connect us all. I dont know if you have noticed how most people are reactive and are in capable of seeing patterns. I dont think you need islam in these kind of problem but you need to understand that its a game of power and controll. STOP being reactive and act in your own best intrest as if your life depends on it. Power is where people belive it resides.
Im going to be brutalt honest to you right now. Alot of people think that their parents wants whats best for them but fail to realize they tend to be a big trap especially if you are a muslim girl. Learn how the system works in your country and become independent. The faster you understand this the easier it will be för you.
Dont ever tell people what you are planing even your best friends. Dont fall for easy traps of power women are just as smart and strong as men
Im going to be brutalt honest to you right now. Alot of people think that their parents wants whats best for them but fail to realize they tend to be a big trap especially if you are a muslim girl. Learn how the system works in your country and become independent. The faster you understand this the easier it will be för you.
Dont ever tell people what you are planing even your best friends. Dont fall for easy traps of power women are just as smart and strong as men
@Halimo Supremist both are the same person. Why the qashin?
