It’s easier to be a man in islam than a woman

[Halimo-2018]

It may seem like that I know but its not just look at the quran when ever Allah mentions good men he always mentions good women too. Its our patriarchy society that makes it unbearable to be a Muslim women not Islam. Religion only reveals who you are. People all over the world use religion for their own gains. Btw it is hard ti be a women world wide no matter how advance some countries. Claim to be. Stay safe

 

[dr.leorio]

This thread is a perfect example why diaspora Xalimos are FUBAR.

 

[Angelina]

This thread is a perfect example why diaspora Xalimos are FUBAR.

I don't think it is fair making it a diaspora thing when her views are something that has been influenced by misogynistic aspects of culture. I wouldn't be suprised if women back home had that mentality, but they probably just keep it to themselves. The idea that men are superior is definitely ingrained amongst the ignorant. I reckon this poster has been influenced by comments of the older generation.

 

[Emily]

You should just be happy for being a woman . You can beat a grown ass man and won’t get degraded or insulted . You can stay home and look pretty while your husband busts his ass . When it comes to courtship or relationship you are the gate keeper . Women make better leaders . The world can’t function without women.

 

[Unicorn]

muslim men can just blend in with society tbh no one knows they’re Muslim unless they say it also because of double standards people aren’t mean to them when they go against Islam again it’s just sexism in society that makes u think it’s harder for a girl. Also Somali girls back home are sad they always say we’re 50 and the man is a 100 lool how sad

 

[Fay]

Men have so many responsibilities than women its easy to be a woman minus the hijab part is so difficult for me i struggle wear it god guide me one day

 

[Fay]

muslim men can just blend in with society tbh no one knows they’re Muslim unless they say it also because of double standards people aren’t mean to them when they go against Islam again it’s just sexism in society that makes u think it’s harder for a girl. Also Somali girls back home are sad they always say we’re 50 and the man is a 100 lool how sad

Facts the first part... im used to not wearing hijab so wearing it will be a challenge for me

 

[Unicorn]

Facts the first part... im used to not wearing hijab so wearing it will be a challenge for me

That’s one of the biggest things people look at for a Muslim girl is hijab if u don’t wear it people will ruin ur reputation an

To top it off men get a bunch of virgins in heaven while we have to settle with sharing the same old fart we married on this earth. That’s why I don’t bother being religious not like my hard work would pay off compared to niman anyway

men are sexual freaks lol not only 4 wives on earth but women who aren’t even human in heaven maybe they wouldn’t have become Muslim if that part wasn’t said idk but honestly no one said women would be with their husbands pshhh I would want to be with prophet Yusuf see his good looks

 

[Username]

It depends if you're going full Shariah with the whole women can't go outside, drive and other stuff like that, then I think women have it harder.

Otherwise I don't think Western women have it harder than men, it's closer.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

It depends if you're going full Shariah with the whole women can't go outside, drive and other stuff like that, then I think women have it harder.

Otherwise I don't think Western women have it harder than men, it's closer.

You're bringing up Saudi laws not islamic ones. Don't you have any shame ? You claim to have left the religion but lie about it none stop. Move on with your life you're coming across as a leech.

 

[Username]

You're bringing up Saudi laws not islamic ones. Don't you have any shame ? You claim to have left the religion but lie about it none stop. Move on with your life you're coming across as a leech.

Seems like it was about a certain distance:

Abu Hurayrah reports that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and last day to travel a distance [traveled] in a day and night without a forbidden to [marriage]. (Hadith narrated by al-Bukhari & Muslim).

The point is, there are more restrictions for women in Shariah law but not in the West.

You're delusional if you disagree with that.

You are in every thread about non/ex Muslims so take your own advice

 

[Villainess]

Seems like it was about a certain distance:

Abu Hurayrah reports that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and last day to travel a distance [traveled] in a day and night without a forbidden to [marriage]. (Hadith narrated by al-Bukhari & Muslim).

The point is, there are more restrictions for women in Shariah law but not in the West.

You're delusional if you disagree with that.

You are in every thread about non/ex Muslims so take your own advice

That has no correlation with not being able to drive a car nor being stuck at home.

You forget that Aisha r.a rode a camel in war. You forgot that Khadija r.a was a businesswoman.

That hadith is for women's saftey. I can't travel far way in fear that I would be raped, killed, kidnapped. A mahram besides you can protect you.


Not to the damn grocery store.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Seems like it was about a certain distance:

Abu Hurayrah reports that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and last day to travel a distance [traveled] in a day and night without a forbidden to [marriage]. (Hadith narrated by al-Bukhari & Muslim).

The point is, there are more restrictions for women in Shariah law but not in the West.

You're delusional if you disagree with that.

You are in every thread about non/ex Muslims so take your own advice

This thread is about women in islam. You are not a woman or a muslim so why are you inserting your lies into this thread ? As for me giving my perspective on you murtads in other threads its in perspective to the topic at hand and to combat your lies and propaganda. What's the reason for your obsession? Even when you are not mentioned you have to insert yourself ?

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Islam is the only religion that advocates for women’s rights. Islam encourages women to keep her own money and spend her husband’s. A mother is 3 times rights over a father. So no Islam is not harder on women. What’s so hard about covering yourself, praying, fasting and trying to b a good person?

 

[Username]

This thread is about women in islam. You are not a woman or a muslim so why are you inserting your lies into this thread ? As for me giving my perspective on you murtads in other threads its in perspective to the topic at hand and to combat your lies and propaganda. What's the reason for your obsession? Even when you are not mentioned you have to insert yourself ?

In other words "I can say what I want but if you do the same I will cry".

I can post in any thread, I am not breaking any rules so I don't really care.

Not to mention this thread is about men as much as it is about women since it's a comparison

 

[Geelraac]

I feel like anyone who denies this is just being defensive or delusional. I think most of it imo has to do with ingrained cultural misogyny under the name of islam.

F*ck you

 

[Leeban]

Sure but just wanted highlight the difference between that and a woman in her traditional setting where such inadequacy would not really be present. Take nomadic Somali women. They were every bit as important to the family's survival as the man and had daily tasks and responsibilities. Making the tent by gathering all the materials and fashioning them together like the poles, ropes and mats. Tending the sheep and goats who were the most numerous livestock historically and the main source of meat, preparing all the crucial dairy products like ghee and sour-milks, preparing all the meals, protecting and doing much of the emotional parenting for the kids alongside many other duties. These women would have never felt useless. The man likewise was responsible for defending the entire family from raids, for conducting raids of his own if needed, for tending to the larger animals like the camels and horses, for teaching the sons their future responsibilities, for being the family's representative in matters of trade and legality and so forth. There was a harmony, no one was truly more important than the other or could truly talk down to the other like what they did wasn't of absolutely crucial value.

This is the natural state of women in hunter-gatherer, pastoralist and farmer settings, as a man's partner in daily survival. This is what they mentally evolved in. Taking that being and expecting them to be happy as some well-off housewife is bound to cause mental distress in my opinion.

bro this makes so much sense, we need start working as a unit again

 

[Leeban]

OP bro just give your family a good Muslim environment with good pious praying people around


treat your wife well, shes your entrustment

no need to bully her

she's in your responsibly

she's your lover and partner in life

treat her with kindness

shes apart of you, how you treat her is a reflection of you

how you treat her she will treat your children

treat her with kindness gentle care and wisdom

 

[solo_man]

females dont have to go to war in islam they can stand behind but if men do its bad

 

[Tambien]

I'm happy I ain't a woman ngl