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  1. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    Okay, making me feel shitty was one way and the best way to get me riled up
    By tommorow afternoon, bish bash bosh and a heartfelt apology shall occur inshallah

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    Inshallah!
     
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  2. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    I think it is lack of prioritys, love of money over libido
     
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  3. KobeBryant

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    What is with these troll posts.
     
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  4. Saredo

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    Yeah I don't believe you, but have a safe trip !
     
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  5. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    No trolling here Sir!
     
  6. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    Of cause not, Even I don't believe myself. Reading the posts make me feel shitty, but I assume once I am there, I will not do what I say
     
  7. Western4Life

    Western4Life Staff Member Moderator

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    You know your marriage is not valid. I am not sure in Islam but a judge will annul your marriage if you did not consummate within a year I believe.
     
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  8. NotMyL

    NotMyL "You are your best thing" VIP

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    Hoorta are you guys still married if you haven’t consummated the marriage? Islamically I thought there was a timeframe:cosbyhmm:
     
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  9. riyaale

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    before u go to her, eat spicy foods and thank me later.
     
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  10. Shmurda

    Shmurda King of NSFW

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    How many times a day do you do you know what
     
  11. Furioso

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    It’s incredible that she’s still married to you. I don’t know how she withstanded that kind of treatment. Be grateful for your wife and be emotionally available to her. She deserves to be treated better.
     
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  12. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    I spoke to a Somali Shiekh once about it. He ,*"after telling me of the culture"*, said that it depends if both parties agree, you can delay it as much as you want. It is your duty to fufill it. Anything Romantically near it is classified as you fufiling your halal duty. Now, i don not know if it a fact by the scholors, but thats is what he said!
     
  13. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    Indeed.
     
  14. NotMyL

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    @Calaf is playing with us, I don’t believe this story. How do you sleep next to your wife and not want to do anything :noneck:
     
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  15. Saredo

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    Somali men have 99 problems but consuming mariage is not one of them. I suggest you go to therapy and find out what is blocking you. You won't find anything here. (if this story is true :) ).
     
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    Your wife has rights over you as you have rights over her. Satisfying your wife is part of your Islamic duty as a husband

    Ibn Taymiyah RA said: “It is obligatory for the husband to have intercourse with his wife as much as is needed to satisfy her, so long as this does not exhaust him physically or keep him away from earning a living… If they dispute over this matter, the judge should prescribe more in the way of intercourse just as he may prescribe more in the way of spending.”

    Your wife is human sxb - either do your duty, or divorce her so she can remarry and another man can give her what you won't
     
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  17. riyaale

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    maybe he suffers from trypophobia:damn:
     
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  18. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    Try doing something at a ungodly hour, so tired that you fall onto the bed and just dooze off. Also, it is rare. MOST of the time, I travel on my ones, if and in the RARE chance that I do, I sleep at ungodly hours.

    I don't have the time to make up stuff or play with anyone. I came to be riduclued and to be made an asshole off. Then little advice from the community, espcially when in a jiffy!
     
  19. Calaf

    Calaf Former Account of Ex-Member Calaf

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    Another No No. Therpy where. Somalia, Somaliland, Africa, Asia. I would be mocked (As I am already am) then given same advice, be gay or go spread the seed!
     
  20. Western4Life

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    Why did you not have sex yet? Do you have a small ****? As long as you eat out your wife, it's fine.
     
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