Is there truth to this? (Somali girls Vs their brothers)

[mohamedismail]

Is there truth to this?

I've personally seen this in real life. A Somali girl I went to school with ended up going to a top uni in the UK while her older brother (1 year age difference) ended up going to prison for drug dealing.

I've always wondered how this was the case. How did two siblings (male and female) both grow up in the same house with same mother and father, one ends up in prison or the streets and other ends up graduating from university pursuing a high paying career. How does this happen?

 

[mohamedismail]

Brother ends up in Xabsi while sister ends up in Oxford university to become a lawyer

Not hating on the somali sisters want them to continue doing well. But a study needs to be done on why there is a disparity between the two genders.

 

[Ozymandias]

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Is there truth to this?

I've personally seen this in real life. A Somali girl I went to school with ended up going to a top uni in the UK while her older brother (1 year age difference) ended up going to prison for drug dealing.

I've always wondered how this was the case. How did two siblings (male and female) both grow up in the same house with same mother and father, one ends up in prison or the streets and other ends up graduating from university pursuing a high paying career. How does this happen?

Different shaming levels between the two genders, men have a free and unfettered parenting style. Whilst the women have more strict and constrained parenting style implemented to them.

 

[Lahaine]

In the U.S unfortunately yes. I know some families whose son's are in jail while their daughter pays her university fees with no assistance. For example at the college I go to 80% of somalis are women wallahi I'm not joking it's a sad situation

 

[SizzleSomali]

Some of it yes, but sometimes these memes are just anti somali exaggerations

 

[mohamedismail]

Different shaming levels between the two genders, men have a free and unfettered parenting style. Whilst the women have more strict and constrained parenting style implemented to them.

I personally put it to mothers doing a great job pushing their daughters. For example the famous phrase "Naag nool Iska dhig". They constantly push their daughters to be independent and achieve academically.

Whereas the Somali father's in general slack in this regard. They are too busy drinking coffee at the café they don't really push their sons and teach them manhood. And a mother can't teach her son how to be a man.

 

[Sophisticate]

If your relative is behind bars, you have a problem.
Most people aren't dope boys. I don't have any relatives behind bars or involved in deviant lifestyles. Haaye.

 

[Adeersyber]

False

 

[Keep it a boqol]

why would they post this on tik tok smh

 

[Adeersyber]

Brother ends up in Xabsi while sister ends up in Oxford university to become a lawyer

Not hating on the somali sisters want them to continue doing well. But a study needs to be done on why there is a disparity between the two genders.

Boys are in the streets more compared to the girls

 

[cooli3o]

If your relative is behind bars, you have a problem.
Most people aren't dope boys. I don't have any relatives behind bars or involved in deviant lifestyles. Haaye.

If needed be would you involve yourself in a life of crime? you seem intelligent enough for it, but do you have the dog in you?

 

[Mozart]

Highly doubt a household that produces a daughter that goes to Oxford also produces a gang-banging son.

 

[Khaem]

As the eldest I am the test subject. Fortunately my younger siblings have been able to do better and learn from my mistakes.

But no male in my family has been put in prison. Most male relatives are doing well, uni educated or entrepreneur. I remember going to djibouti and my male relatives were all doing buisnesses. Idk this stereotype about being in prison is about.

Sure looking at those somalis who live in shitty council homes them ofc the men will get involved in drug ect. Cause its all around them. Women won't get put on prison since they aren't involved in such things. They're affected in other ways. The men who are raised in that environment will have a good chance of landing himself in prison.

But if you look at most families the men and women do alright. More women enter higher education isn't a somali only issue. Women in general are flooding Unis whilst men all round aren't getting involved in higher education as much as their female counterparts. But men also have the option of Blue collar work which is also really good depending on the field you get into such as electrician ect. Where women don't get into blue collar work.

 

[cooli3o]

Highly doubt a household that produces a daughter that goes to Oxford also produces a gang-banging son.

i actually know some ppl whos daughters go to good universities doing stem and the boys are in the streets

 

[mohamedismail]

Highly doubt a household that produces a daughter that goes to Oxford also produces a gang-banging son.

It happens. I've seen it with my own eyes. Only difference is the girl went to LSE which is a top uni equivalent to Oxford if not close.

 

[cooli3o]

It happens. I've seen it with my own eyes. Only difference is the girl went to LSE which is a top uni equivalent to Oxford if not close.

ive seen the same with boys, the oldest was on road and the youngest parents were 10x more strict got into a better uni but became messed up because they were coddled so much they are as mature as a 12 year old

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

@mohamedismail what are the comments like in the TikTok I know it’s a war under their

 

[Nass010]

Different shaming levels between the two genders, men have a free and unfettered parenting style. Whilst the women have more strict and constrained parenting style implemented to them.

Not entirely true. Unsuccesful boys get shamed too, the real reason is that boys are less interested in school on average (with all ethnicities not just us) and boys who grow up in crime ridden areas are prone for gangrelated influences. Boys are not scared to experience with other options too while girls are scared to do so, and are more organised by nature which increases their academic abilities even more. Please stop with lazy narrative of a so called girls shame culture it's definitely a factor but NOT the sole reason.

 

[Nass010]

As the eldest I am the test subject. Fortunately my younger siblings have been able to do better and learn from my mistakes.

But no male in my family has been put in prison. Most male relatives are doing well, uni educated or entrepreneur. I remember going to djibouti and my male relatives were all doing buisnesses. Idk this stereotype about being in prison is about.

Sure looking at those somalis who live in shitty council homes them ofc the men will get involved in drug ect. Cause its all around them. Women won't get put on prison since they aren't involved in such things. They're affected in other ways. The men who are raised in that environment will have a good chance of landing himself in prison.

But if you look at most families the men and women do alright. More women enter higher education isn't a somali only issue. Women in general are flooding Unis whilst men all round aren't getting involved in higher education as much as their female counterparts. But men also have the option of Blue collar work which is also really good depending on the field you get into such as electrician ect. Where women don't get into blue collar work.

Nailed it. Its not only the somali community its every community, they also need to understand the difference in nature, and environmental influence between boys and girls

 

[Sophisticate]

If needed be would you involve yourself in a life of crime? you seem intelligent enough for it, but do you have the dog in you?

A life of crime is a problem. One day, you'll have to answer. The selling of illicit drugs is undoubtedly an issue, but it cannot compare to the damage done by those with greater power and influence since the scale of the damage they do is greater, along with the number of lives they ruin.

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