Is there a Marriage Crises in the Somali-Canadian community? There's so many single young Xalimos!

[Madara x]

Canadian Somalis lack in terms of quality compared to their diaspora counterparts.

Ottawa seems like the only city with a "decent" somali community.

The rest like Toronto, Edmonton, and Vancouver are absolute Qasaaro and a waste of space.

You cannot condemn the community, without acknowledging the institutions that caused their current condemnation.

Somali culture, of course, is one of those institutions as well.

 

[Bohol]

From my understanding Canadians are very assimilated and liberal so the institution of marriage is very weak. Why marry when
you can have fun with the likes of Rose Carter for life? live-in boyfriend/girlfriend is more ideal for many liberal Canadians.

 

[Madara x]

You are implying that it is not the Somali men's fault for becoming criminals and getting a criminal record, and that "the establishment" is out to get them, which isn't the case.
These men are qasaaros and the only person to blame for their "enslavement" is them, not the white man.

It is partly our fault. For not catching on to the plans of "those who shall not be named".

But it is mostly the "establishment's" fault, for carrying out the racial-social-economic exclusion of our brothers.

A multifaceted plan to exclude us has been devised and executed. But many of us are not broken.

Long Live the Fucking Dervish Dream.

 

[merka]

Out of all the Somali guys I know in my age group only a handful don't have or are not pursuing a post-secondary education. You all are talking like we're all unemployed criminals here.

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[John Michael]

If you are looking at it from an individualistic perspective,
then obviously marrying a broke [economically and psychologically] nigga is a bad deal.
It's a no-go.

But from a wider social-communal perspective, marrying non-somalis
or avoiding Somali men because they are currently downtrodden,
and thereby reinforcing the aforementioned stereotypes,
is exactly what 'they who shall not be named' wanted to happen.
So in the long-term, this is a graver loss to community as a whole.

Read my last two sentences, unreformed criminals are horrible fathers and that's bad on a society level.

 

[John Michael]

Canadian Somalis lack in terms of quality compared to their diaspora counterparts.

Ottawa seems like the only city with a "decent" somali community.

The rest like Toronto, Edmonton, and Vancouver are absolute Qasaaro and a waste of space.

It's more like a self fulfilling prophecy though. If you want to focus on the ain't shit ones you only see those ones.

I sincerely believe most are normal.

 

[Codeine]

From my understanding Canadians are very assimilated and liberal so the institution of marriage is very weak. Why marry when
you can have fun with the likes of Rose Carter for life? live-in boyfriend/girlfriend is more ideal for many liberal Canadians.

"Nigga love the way that I step out,
ask your man he know I'm the best out
yo talking shit till I spazz out"




Why do I like this degenerate shit?

 

[Bohol]

"Nigga love the way that I step out,
ask your man he know I'm the best out
yo talking shit till I spazz out"




Why do I like this degenerate shit?

She looks like she can give a mean head.

 

[Arman]

She looks like she can give a mean head.

Probably does...

 

[Codeine]

She looks like she can give a mean head.

I'll pass, Canadian Xalimos are mandem, they lack a feminine touch

 

[Inactive]

There's somalis in vancouver?

Oh yes. I met maybe 5-6 of them in Alberta who were originally from Vancouver.

They're like aliens. They are so white washed and the ones I met have Asian girlfriends and Asian boyfriends. I even met a goth Somali kid.

They told me the Somalis live in Burnaby.

Even Siad Barre's son lived there but he was chased out of town by the Somalis. He lives in subsidized housing in Vaughan today.

 

[Arman]

I even met a goth Somali kid.

That was not a human being. That was a mythical creature.

 

[Inactive]

That was not a human being. That was a mythical creature.

He even had Asian hair. He either did a good perm or it was a wig. I couldn't tell and didn't want to ask

 

[Coulombs law]

Oh yes. I met maybe 5-6 of them in Alberta who were originally from Vancouver.

They're like aliens. They are so white washed and the ones I met have Asian girlfriends and Asian boyfriends. I even met a goth Somali kid.

They told me the Somalis live in Burnaby.

Even Siad Barre's son lived there but he was chased out of town by the Somalis. He lives in subsidized housing in Vaughan today.

You even know the city Burnaby? Damn

I think I'm the only normal Somali out of Vancouver, everyone else is completely wack....

The goth Somali kid seems made up tho....

 

[Inactive]

You even know the city Burnaby? Damn

I think I'm the only normal Somali out of Vancouver, everyone else is completely wack....

The goth Somali kid seems made up tho....

100% true

 

[Jubba_Man]

I know so many beautiful, educated, young, single Somali women. Many of my female cousins are still single. I don't understand why though. They're beautiful, light skin, educated, have sweet personalities, etc. Most of my sisters' friends are single too. Are there not many good quality Somali men out there? There's this one girl that I can't believe she's still single. She's 26, has a nice car, lives with her hoyoo, has a good paying job, and is drop dead gorgeous. Like model level...and yet my Sister told me she's not dating anyone, she's been single a long time.

It sounds like you are either talking about yourself, in which case you must be vastly overestimating yourself, or on the off-chance you aren't you can't gauge your friend's beauty. Women are very terrible at that.

If you were to look at the marriage rates, Somalis probably have one of the highest in comparison to most other groups and especially the plummeting national average.

 

[dhegdheer]

Maybe they don't want to get married yet. Canadian Somalis in general seem more liberal

 

[oday1kenobi]

I don't blame them being single since most Canadian somali guys are qashin just like the somalis in the UK and besides isn't there a high homicide rate amongst somali males because all I hear on the somali media is somali teenager shot dead in York 100 somalis died since 2005 in canada etc.. it's very sad what's going on over there and to think since we live in a western society we will behave well and use all the resources they provided us and succeed but no were instead killing each other like were warlords backhome disgraceful and shameful