My advice is to prioritise someone you are mentally and intellectually compatible with, this stands the test of time better.
I don't know about every single man, but it is a safe assumption is that most of us are guaranteed to climax. Female sexuality is more complex hence it is important that they communicate what appeals to them if a partner is not considerate or aware. Even the Prophet SAWS roughly stated do mount your wife like an animal in a hadith. Not surprising considering how many women do not climax solely from penetrative sex. Look for empathetic qualities in a potential suitor!
The non-celibate men who are bored with conventional sex are the ones who are always looking for the next high. It is dangerous to say the least. Nothing is meant to last forever, marriage is more than sex and it will sure as hell become stale from a male perspective like any other pleasure of the Dunya. What do some people expect? This place is a Test, not an abode of everlasting joy and highs. Many Gaalo men think this is It hence why they get the seven year itch or say their marriage has lost its spark etc. and seek out nubile mistresses. Their emotionally and sexually neglected knives also end up feeling a void by having an affair or seeking divorce but choices gradually become less for women as they gradually become invisible to the male gaze. Even some of our men do the same in fairness though.
has definitely contributed to the globalisation of 'perverse' practices to places where the population were more pristine in their carnal activities. Kissing, not saying it's bad, was historically alien to Somalis as Richard Burton noted. Today, in the smaller towns, the youth have been exposed to oral sex etc. because of the internet and .
