Is sexual compatibility a real thing?

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

It also normalises sexual violence against women and dangerous sexual practices that they don’t reflect reality.

It's very scary for a man to cut off a woman's air supply because he saw it on a p0rn. Where else would he get it from?
I can understand a Muslim couple healthily exploring and learning what they like, but I will never believe that all these deviant BDSM kinks come natural to virginal couples. So I would warn Muslim men and women to look out for people who randomly try to introduce abuse into the marital bed.

 

[Mount23]

In islam, once a woman is married, she is her husbands metaphorical field to plow as he see’s fit. Your needs are second to his needs. This is the reason men pay mehr. Do as he tells you and be an obedient wife and things will be fine for you.

This guy I swear

 

[Saredo]

I actually don’t believe you’re a Muslim. No Muslim speaks like you do, even the most saqajaan Muslim practices self-restraint. You are a low level troll.

Very low IQ. And what’s even worse is that he uses the deen to troll.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

@IstarZ @Saredo


These beings feed off female outrage, use the ignore + report functions for a pleasant stay on SomaliSpot.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

I actually don’t believe you’re a Muslim. No Muslim speaks like you do, even the most saqajaan Muslim practices self-restraint. You are a low level troll.

Believe whatever you want. Everything I’ve said is from the Quran or Hadith. If you don’t like it, that’s your problem.

 

[TekNiKo]

In islam, once a woman is married, she is her husbands metaphorical field to plow as he see’s fit. Your needs are second to his needs. This is the reason men pay mehr. Do as he tells you and be an obedient wife and things will be fine for you.

You must be trolling dude you have an uppity attitude towards women which is
not good, Islam teaches to give naseehah in a good manner not in an uppity one. Men also must be good to their wives.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

You must be trolling dude you have an uppity attitude towards women which is
not good, Islam teaches to give naseehah in a good manner not in an uppity one. Men also must be good to their wives.

I don’t sugar coat things. If people don’t like it, they are welcome to ignore it. Islam provides a way of life on everything related to human relations. There is a tendency for some westernized individuals to ignore the things they don’t like.

 

[TekNiKo]

I don’t sugar coat things. If people don’t like it, they are welcome to ignore it. Islam provides a way of life on everything related to human relations. There is a tendency for some westernized individuals to ignore the things they don’t like.

Its called edeb or akhlaaq, Islam teaches us to say things in a nice and wise way not arrogance. Dont speak in such a harsh tone and come across in a more equitable way.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Its called edeb or akhlaaq, Islam teaches us to say things in a nice and wise way not arrogance. Dont speak in such a harsh tone and come across in a more equitable way.

How is the guy who was rejoicing in death of innocent people in Somalia giving me advice on Islam? Go Simp somewhere else nigga

 

[IstarZ]

I don’t sugar coat things. If people don’t like it, they are welcome to ignore it. Islam provides a way of life on everything related to human relations. There is a tendency for some westernized individuals to ignore the things they don’t like.

Islam doesn’t shy away from discussing sexual relations like other religions. There are volumes of books written about foreplay. There’s nothing in Islam that states that the wife’s needs are secondary. In fact, it encourages men to practice foreplay and to satisfy their wife’s needs. There’s no sugar coating, but you are deliberately spreading false information.

 

[anonimo]

My advice is to prioritise someone you are mentally and intellectually compatible with, this stands the test of time better.

I don't know about every single man, but it is a safe assumption is that most of us are guaranteed to climax. Female sexuality is more complex hence it is important that they communicate what appeals to them if a partner is not considerate or aware. Even the Prophet SAWS roughly stated do mount your wife like an animal in a hadith. Not surprising considering how many women do not climax solely from penetrative sex. Look for empathetic qualities in a potential suitor!

The non-celibate men who are bored with conventional sex are the ones who are always looking for the next high. It is dangerous to say the least. Nothing is meant to last forever, marriage is more than sex and it will sure as hell become stale from a male perspective like any other pleasure of the Dunya. What do some people expect? This place is a Test, not an abode of everlasting joy and highs. Many Gaalo men think this is It hence why they get the seven year itch or say their marriage has lost its spark etc. and seek out nubile mistresses. Their emotionally and sexually neglected knives also end up feeling a void by having an affair or seeking divorce but choices gradually become less for women as they gradually become invisible to the male gaze. Even some of our men do the same in fairness though.

has definitely contributed to the globalisation of 'perverse' practices to places where the population were more pristine in their carnal activities. Kissing, not saying it's bad, was historically alien to Somalis as Richard Burton noted. Today, in the smaller towns, the youth have been exposed to oral sex etc. because of the internet and .

 

[karkaar]

There shouldn't be an appeal for chocking, its a foreign concept and induced.A lot of the sexual ills of society are induced, it has the power to make straight niggas gay.The idea of sexual compatibility comes from being able to compare partners, there may be cases where no matter how hard you guys try there is no answer for the failings in the bedroom, islam recognises that issue and allows for a divorce affirming that it is a valid reason to seek it.

 

[empressjamila]

In what world is choking normal? Acuudubillah

Our society is very sick nowadays to the point that something that could kill you (choking) is now “normalized” during sex

Ask grandparents hell even parents if they were choking each other back in the day and I could guarantee you that most would say “hell no”

It’s a new thing

 

[Bundasliga]

Very low IQ. And what’s even worse is that he uses the deen to troll.

He isn't trolling....

 

[Bundasliga]

How is the guy who was rejoicing in death of innocent people in Somalia giving me advice on Islam? Go Simp somewhere else nigga

Take your own advice dulli

Everything I’ve said is from the Quran or Hadith. If you don’t like it, that’s your problem.

 

[Hybrid()]

In islam, once a woman is married, she is her husbands metaphorical field to plow as he see’s fit. Your needs are second to his needs. This is the reason men pay mehr. Do as he tells you and be an obedient wife and things will be fine for you.

Bruh there's no need to use Islam as an excuse. You're probably a virgin. Women love to be submissive in bed. As long your not inflicting pain on her, she'll most likely love to be dominated from my experience.
I never tried play chocking but I tried biting their ear and pinning some xalimo against the bed and holding their hands together behind their back. They all seem to like it walahi

 

[trucel]

In islam, once a woman is married, she is her husbands metaphorical field to plow as he see’s fit. Your needs are second to his needs. This is the reason men pay mehr. Do as he tells you and be an obedient wife and things will be fine for you.

Dude they way u talk about women is hella gross ngl , dont u have sisters

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Dude they way u talk about women is hella gross ngl , dont u have sisters

So many sensitive simps. I was quoting an ayah from the quran. Anyways, It’s a public forum. Ignore my posts if you don’t like it.

 

[anonimo]

So many sensitive simps. I was quoting an ayah from the quran. Anyways, It’s a public forum. Ignore my posts if you don’t like it.

I get you wanna trigger feminist Xalimos but you are using the Ayat in reference out of context. It doesn't talk about the question posed in this thread.

It also does not support your argument that women's needs are secondary and so forth.

You gotta refine your trolling skills man. Anyway, doesn't it get boring after a while?

 

[Deekhow]

@empressjamila
Two people who abstained and got married have a higher chance of long-lasting marriage than others who practiced before marriage. That should tell you all you need from this topic.