Is sexual compatibility a real thing?

AbrahamFreedom

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you’re either a troll or extremely deranged.

choking is during sex is not fucking normal.

you have to be a sick f*ck to get off chocking your partner.

It's "normal" as in its practice is widespread. Why have you not quoted the others who agreed? Why did you single me out?

Keep your emotions under control. It's been clear for a while I trigger the hell out of you which makes you dislike me (which I enjoy but take a number and wait in line like the rest of yous). It's hilarious you're coming at me foaming from the mouth. You need to work on your anger problems and get to the root cause of it. Don't give yourself heart issues and increased blood pressure. Take deep breaths and is diiji.
 

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It's "normal" as in its practice is widespread. Why have you not quoted the others who agreed? Why did you single me out?

Keep your emotions under control. It's been clear for a while I trigger the hell out of you which makes you dislike me (which I enjoy but take a number and wait in line like the rest of yous) but it's hilarious you're coming at me foaming from the mouth. You need to work on your anger problems.
Women like light BDSM from my experience. light choking by applying no pressure as if you were just pretending is find and some women will like it.
"We found that 21 percent of women had been choked during sex as had 11 percent of men," said Herbenick. "We also found that 20 percent of men and 12 percent of women had choked a partner. But choking during sex was much more common among 18-to-29-year-olds — almost 40 percent of whom had choked or been choked — leading us to believe that choking has really changed in the U.S., over probably the last ten to twenty years."
 

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Not surprised by those numbers at all. I wonder what the numbers are for rough sex in general.
And that statistics is based on real chocking. Light choking is probably more common. I never tried it but some of the best bdsm tricks I use are pulling the hair and biting her ear while I'm pounding her from the back. Every xalimo I've been with love it
 
Women like light BDSM from my experience. light choking by applying no pressure as if you were just pretending is find and some women will like it.
The age categories in the above article tells its own story and can be linked to the diffusion of in Western society. Much like how anal heterosexual sex has become more mainstream. It was used historically by some in diverse societies as a form of contraception, however, contemporary young Western women are being pressurised by some males to engage in sodomy when it is not necessarily sexually stimulating to all of them.

Just because BDSM etc. is becoming common among Cadaans, does not mean it has become normalised among a lot of diaspora Somalis hence why most of the posters, myself included, will disagree with its degrading nature.

Even the sex posture you referenced in your previous post has degrading connotations and has become popularised by videos. A woman whose hands are incapacitated and is being pinned down with force whilst being penetrated gives off rape vibes to some. It might be a turn on for some men who want to have absolute animalistic control over a passive female during sex but I cannot see how it isn't degrading for a self-respecting female in my opinion. It can't be called Haram though so to each his own.
 

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Gaalo ppl are always talking about “sexual compatibility”, if you ever tell them you want to wait until marriage they think you’re crazy they’re all like “what if you guys aren’t compatible??”

but I kinda feel like the whole concept is BS bc if you really like each other, even if the sex is trash at the beginning can’t you work on it? Unless the dude has like a microdick or something I feel like anything can be improved

What are your thoughts? Mostly looking for answers from married people that waited, I feel like it’s getting more and more rare for people to wait until marriage even in the Muslim community sadly


"microdik" loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
 
It's "normal" as in its practice is widespread. Why have you not quoted the others who agreed? Why did you single me out?

Keep your emotions under control. It's been clear for a while I trigger the hell out of you which makes you dislike me (which I enjoy but take a number and wait in line like the rest of yous). It's hilarious you're coming at me foaming from the mouth. You need to work on your anger problems and get to the root cause of it. Don't give yourself heart issues and increased blood pressure. Take deep breaths and is diiji.

I reviewed every single comment and no one other than you claimed it’s “normal”. Go post the comment that agreed with you.

there’s a difference between “normal” and something that is not unheard of (say bdsm). Bdsm is definitely a thing but not “normal” in any sense of the world.

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As for my emotions, they are very under control thank you. I’m a bit of a keyboard warrior but I can assure I am not foaming at the mouth in real life. And I do not “dislike” you at all, I am just amused by the hate you get as you are.

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you’re either a troll or extremely deranged.

choking is during sex is not fucking normal.

you have to be a sick f*ck to get off chocking your partner.

This is a very mild comment don’t know how I came across as triggered 🤷‍♂️
 
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AbrahamFreedom

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I reviewed every single comment and no one other than you claimed it’s “normal”. Go post the comment that agreed with you.

there’s a difference between “normal” and something that is not unheard of (say bdsm). Bdsm is definitely a thing but not “normal” in any sense of the world.

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.

As for my emotions, they are very under control thank you. I’m a bit of a keyboard warrior but I can assure I am not foaming at the mouth in real life. And I do not “dislike” you at all, I am just amused by the hate you get as you are.

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This is a very mild comment don’t know how I came across as triggered 🤷‍♂️

Choking is not extreme pretty normal
 
I get you wanna trigger feminist Xalimos but you are using the Ayat in reference out of context. It doesn't talk about the question posed in this thread.

It also does not support your argument that women's needs are secondary and so forth.

You gotta refine your trolling skills man. Anyway, doesn't it get boring after a while?

Feminist Xalimos?

This man is so disrespectful to women in general. I don't understand why some men can be vile and then think if you react, you must be a 'feminist'.

Soon, you'll have men here advocating for abuse of women and if you speak out, you must be a 'radical feminist'.
 

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@AbdiGaalDoon is right it's very accepted these days. I even choke girls I kiss in the nightclub, very hot.
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You choke people in the club?
 
Gaalo ppl are always talking about “sexual compatibility”, if you ever tell them you want to wait until marriage they think you’re crazy they’re all like “what if you guys aren’t compatible??”

but I kinda feel like the whole concept is BS bc if you really like each other, even if the sex is trash at the beginning can’t you work on it? Unless the dude has like a microdick or something I feel like anything can be improved

What are your thoughts? Mostly looking for answers from married people that waited, I feel like it’s getting more and more rare for people to wait until marriage even in the Muslim community sadly
If that was real then there would be low divorce rate in the west.

Wasmo has nothing to do with compatibilty its all about lust maalin walba waxaad rabta a new punani to smash.
That is why cadaan millionaires like epstien did alot of shit.
 
Feminist Xalimos?

This man is so disrespectful to women in general. I don't understand why some men can be vile and then think if you react, you must be a 'feminist'.

Soon, you'll have men here advocating for abuse of women and if you speak out, you must be a 'radical feminist'.
He is a trolling, you don't need to be Einstein to figure that out.

The aim is to shock and by reacting you only feed the beast. Those who fall for the bait are suckers for triggering.

It is arguably mental weakness to be riled up by what a random individual posts on social media.
 

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