Is sexual compatibility a real thing?

[empressjamila]

Gaalo ppl are always talking about “sexual compatibility”, if you ever tell them you want to wait until marriage they think you’re crazy they’re all like “what if you guys aren’t compatible??”

but I kinda feel like the whole concept is BS bc if you really like each other, even if the sex is trash at the beginning can’t you work on it? Unless the dude has like a microdick or something I feel like anything can be improved

What are your thoughts? Mostly looking for answers from married people that waited, I feel like it’s getting more and more rare for people to wait until marriage even in the Muslim community sadly

 

[Siddhartha]

It absolutely is a real thing. What if you don't have the same libido or you're into more vanilla stuff than your partner, sex is a massive part of relationships

 

[empressjamila]

It absolutely is a real thing. What if you don't have the same libido or you're into more vanilla stuff than your partner, sex is a massive part of relationships

Okay sure but does that really mean you need to “test the goods before buying”? Like can’t you just ask each other what you’re into

 

[senor chang]

What are your thoughts? Mostly looking for answers from married people that waited, I feel like it’s getting more and more rare for people to wait until marriage even in the Muslim community sadly

The urge is too strong

 

[Sophisticate]

Sexually active people make this claim because they have a sexual history/past and hence compare individuals. I think they are worse off for this. Maybe these saqajaans expect someone to choke them. God knows what evils they were taught. It seems spooky.

They are for the 304 aka the streets.

 

[HiraanBorn]

Gaalo ppl are always talking about “sexual compatibility”, if you ever tell them you want to wait until marriage they think you’re crazy they’re all like “what if you guys aren’t compatible??”

but I kinda feel like the whole concept is BS bc if you really like each other, even if the sex is trash at the beginning can’t you work on it? Unless the dude has like a microdick or something I feel like anything can be improved

What are your thoughts? Mostly looking for answers from married people that waited, I feel like it’s getting more and more rare for people to wait until marriage even in the Muslim community sadly

That's why divorce is allowed in Islam even though it's disliked (makruh), there was a woman in the time of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) who asked to divorce her husband because her husband couldn't get erect sadly.

 

[Saredo]

Sexually active people make this claim because they have a sexual history/past and hence compare individuals. I think they are worse off for this. Maybe these saqajaan expect someone to choke them. God knows what evils they were taught. It seems spooky.

They are for the 304 aka the streets.

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Okay sure but does that really mean you need to “test the goods before buying”? Like can’t you just ask each other what you’re into

They can learn together. This « testing the goods before buying » can’t be applied to Muslims.

 

[Siddhartha]

Sexually active people make this claim because they have a sexual history/past and hence compare individuals. I think they are worse off for this. Maybe these saqajaans expect someone to choke them. God knows what evils they were taught. It seems spooky.

They are for the 304 aka the streets.

Choking is not extreme pretty normal

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Sexually active people make this claim because they have a sexual history/past and hence compare individuals. I think they are worse off for this. Maybe these saqajaans expect someone to choke them. God knows what evils they were taught. It seems spooky.

They are for the 304 aka the streets.

Loooooool

You're very innocent. Choking is considered a totally normal thing to do among married couples and others in bf/gf relationships today and is on the same level as cuddling.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Loooooool

You're very innocent. Choking is considered a totally normal thing to do among married couples and others in bf/gf relationships today and is on the same level as cuddling.

Choking and other BDSM antics were introduced to the masses through P0rn.

 

[IstarZ]

In what world is choking normal? Acuudubillah

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

In what world is choking normal? Acuudubillah

This is what happens when people consume p0rn and normalise deviant behaviour to the point where they consider normal intercourse to be 'boring'.

 

[Mount23]

Yes its a real thing, sex drive between couples should be similar otherwise it can turn into a disaster

Drugs, Hormonal issues and P0rn are making it worse now

 

[Sophisticate]

Choking is not extreme pretty normal

Loooooool

You're very innocent. Choking is considered a totally normal thing to do among married couples and others in bf/gf relationships today and is on the same level as cuddling.

I'm more frightened hearing that a hug is the same as near death through autoerotic asphyxiation.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Choking and other BDSM antics were introduced to the masses through P0rn.

Absolutely.

It's very common in real life.

 

[Lostbox]

I bet I'll disappoint any lady in bedroom with lack of interest


#TeamLowLibido

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

In islam, once a woman is married, she is her husbands metaphorical field to plow as he see’s fit. Your needs are second to his needs. This is the reason men pay mehr. Do as he tells you and be an obedient wife and things will be fine for you.

 

[IstarZ]

This is what happens when people consume p0rn and normalise deviant behaviour to the point where they consider normal intercourse to be 'boring'.

It also normalises sexual violence against women and dangerous sexual practices that they don’t reflect reality.

 

[World]

I feel like libidos need to be similar but other than that you can learn what you both like together

 

[IstarZ]

In islam, once a woman is married, she is her husbands metaphorical field to plow as he see’s fit. Your needs are second to his needs. This is the reason men pay mehr. Do as he tells you and be an obedient wife and things will be fine for you.

I actually don’t believe you’re a Muslim. No Muslim speaks like you do, even the most saqajaan Muslim practices self-restraint. You are a low level troll.