Errrmm-... uggggghhh yeah, I've got some bad news for you walalHe is Muslim his family isnt though
Irish boyfriend wants to meet my parents
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Baarisiyomoos
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Errrmm-... uggggghhh yeah, I've got some bad news for you walal
I know it sounds bad
Xaruun
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"trusting redhead reverts" he gonna join al shabaab
Baarisiyomoos
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Hue_Man
(Alkebulan mother of mankind)
most converts just wanna smash chocolate women after getting bored of Becky at the club.
Think of the psyche of the white man? Why would you wanna go down and lower yourself to the the level of sub Saharan Africans who are at the bottom of the global wealth pyramid unless you wanna play and fondle with there women like the slave masters did in America !
It was white Swedish old man. He hated gingers, Jews and gays. Tbh I think he hated blacks as well. He hated everythingI think his hair is very nicealso I’ve heard of the ginger joke but i didn’t know it was that serious how is your teacher saying that
cons
- boyfriends are xaraam it will eventually lead to zina
- say you get married you will feel like an ajnabi in the marriage even though he’s Irish he’s very much more accepted and comfortable in this culture than you are
- if you have kids they will have an identity crisis and the likelihood of you taking them back home and being accepted is very slim
- he may return to his gaalnimo he’s young it happens
- he may become very practicing and you may not be comfortable with all the ‘restrictions’ that may come with.
pros
Can’t think of any sorry to be a Debbie downer
- boyfriends are xaraam it will eventually lead to zina
- say you get married you will feel like an ajnabi in the marriage even though he’s Irish he’s very much more accepted and comfortable in this culture than you are
- if you have kids they will have an identity crisis and the likelihood of you taking them back home and being accepted is very slim
- he may return to his gaalnimo he’s young it happens
- he may become very practicing and you may not be comfortable with all the ‘restrictions’ that may come with.
pros
Can’t think of any sorry to be a Debbie downer
Baarisiyomoos
buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
Rude ass niggamost converts just wanna smash chocolate women after getting bored of Becky at the club.
Think of the psyche of the white man? Why would you wanna go down and lower yourself to the the level of sub Saharan Africans who are at the bottom of the global wealth pyramid unless you wanna play and fondle with there women like the slave masters did in America !
this is not what it’s like we’ve known each other for a long time and he would never demean me like that.
Baarisiyomoos
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Oh my
Baarisiyomoos
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Well thank you for your insight. But I have never done zina and I will never do zina I have self control and I can wait till I get married like a regular person.
I said it will eventually lead to zina lol
and even the best mannered and most righteous of people are able to fall into zina don’t be so sure of yourself.
The Ayat states stay away from zina - that includes everything that leads to it, having a boyfriend you’re halfway there.
Hue_Man
(Alkebulan mother of mankind)
Rude ass nigga
are my comments rude? , don’t you think there’s some truth to it? Lmao
lmaoo I can’t stop laughing
Baarisiyomoos
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I understand that and I’m no saint but I know I can control my urges
Happy_
Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
Caku wadamada gaalada 
we are doomed, what ever happened to sticking to the deen. At your age you shouldn‘t have a bf tied to you, all your future plans will be influenced by him somehow. Bad idea. You‘re young, you shouldn‘t be worried about a ginger ni99a, you should be free. What‘s wrong with ppl?
Tying themselves down even before marriage. When I was your age my biggest worry was graduating high school and having fun. I couldn‘t wait to finally be more independent
we are doomed, what ever happened to sticking to the deen. At your age you shouldn‘t have a bf tied to you, all your future plans will be influenced by him somehow. Bad idea. You‘re young, you shouldn‘t be worried about a ginger ni99a, you should be free. What‘s wrong with ppl? Tying themselves down even before marriage. When I was your age my biggest worry was graduating high school and having fun. I couldn‘t wait to finally be more independent
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Baarisiyomoos
buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
I did graduate last week Alhamdullilah and going to university soonCaku wadamada gaalada
Also we have known each other for so long and I love him. He’s Muslim and I’m not stressing or anything take it easy.
Baarisiyomoos
buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
are my comments rude? , don’t you think there’s some truth to it? Lmao
lmaoo I can’t stop laughing
you literally said he probably wants to be with me to live out his slave master fantasies
Happy_
Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
I did graduate last week Alhamdullilah and going to university soon
Masha’allah, that’s great! Focus on yourself, do not make plans were you picture yourself with him. You gotta be selfish for now, in 5 years if he‘s still around and Muslim yall can marry. Laakin for now you should think about your education, your dreams and future. Do not compromise your dreams for him. You‘ll regret it. May Allah make it easy for you.
I must be an unfeeling robot. I didn't care for anyone in my youth and most of my formative years and thought dating was not worth my time so I largely didn't. I am a qumayo and an ice queen to this day. Anyone who crosses me gets frostbite.
Baarisiyomoos
buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
Thank you
Ameen
