Irish boyfriend wants to meet my parents

[Amirah]

Rah but he keeps pushing, he really wants to meet them. If my parents find out I’m finished but also I don’t want to hurt his feelings and have him think he doesn’t mean much to me.

I don’t understand, do you not want a future with him? It’s almost like you’re treating it like it’s temporary relationship. If you want a future with him and he wants one with you, why not take your relationship to the next level. Let your family know/meet him ASAP and get it over with it. If they’re don’t want anything to do with him then you can either decide to marry him anyway or breakup before your invest anymore time into this.

how long you guys been together? Is he Muslim? How old are you guys anyway?

 

[Jaydaan]

I don’t understand, do you not want a future with him? It’s almost like you’re treating it like it’s temporary relationship. If you want a future with him and he wants one with you, why not take your relationship to the next level. Let your family know/meet him ASAP and get it over with it. If they’re don’t want anything to do with him then you can either decide to marry him anyway or breakup before your invest anymore time into this.

how long you guys been together? Is he Muslim? How old are you guys anyway?

its a fun thing...I doubt girl want to marry or care much for McGinger tbh.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

The Irish?

Did I stutter

 

[Abdisamad]

My Irish girlfriend approves, she advices you to let him meet your parents

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I don’t understand, do you not want a future with him? It’s almost like you’re treating it like it’s temporary relationship. If you want a future with him and he wants one with you, why not take your relationship to the next level. Let your family know/meet him ASAP and get it over with it. If they’re don’t want anything to do with him then you can either decide to marry him anyway or breakup before your invest anymore time into this.

how long you guys been together? Is he Muslim? How old are you guys anyway?

I do want a future with him but I’m trying to figure how to break it to my parents. I don’t want them to disapprove of him. Also we were thinking of waiting for a while cause we’re 17 and they won’t take us as seriously even though we are serious. Yes he is Muslim. We’ve been friends since we were 10 and been together for 2 years

 

[jabsveg276]

Did I stutter

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

its a fun thing...I doubt girl want to marry or care much for McGinger tbh.

Don’t say that I do care about him and I love him I do want to marry him but it seems impossible

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

My Irish girlfriend approves, she advices you to let him meet your parents

 

[Abdisamad]

Paint his face black and dress him in macawis and cimamad.. Present him as Abdi farax, your parents won't notice anything.. Tell them he can't speak Somali because he's ciyaal hooyo mataalo

 

[Jaydaan]

Don’t say that I do care about him and I love him I do want to marry him but it seems impossible

how old are you? No offence but Im just going by your writing and you sound young and just bit of fun. Im guessing you are too young to marry and if you bring him to family that will speed everything up and you dont want that

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Paint his face black and dress him in macawis and cimamad.. Present him as Abdi farax, your parents won't notice anything.. Tell them he can't speak Somali because he's ciyaal hooyo mataalo

you’re sick

 

[Abdisamad]

Don’t say that I do care about him and I love him I do want to marry him but it seems impossible

Enjoy your life..17 is very young even though you feel grown up..

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

how old are you? No offence but Im just going by your writing and you sound young and just bit of fun. Im guessing you are too young to marry and if you bring him to family that will speed everything up and you dont want that

I’m 17. Yes I don’t want my parents to think we’re not serious even though we are so we were thinking of waiting for a while. Not sure when I’ll tell them but they won’t take us seriously now.

 

[Abdisamad]

you’re sick

Relax I'm joking

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Enjoy your life..17 is very young even though you feel grown up..

I am enjoying my life don’t worry

 

[Abdisamad]

My only advice.. Don't get knocked up.. Use protection.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

My only advice.. Don't get knocked up.. Use protection.

Uff I will never do zina

 

[Jaydaan]

I’m 17. Yes I don’t want my parents to think we’re not serious even though we are so we were thinking of waiting for a while. Not sure when I’ll tell them but they won’t take us seriously now.

yeah my advise dont tell your parents. You are way too young at 17 and we all been 17 and in love and thought it was the one. It rarely is at that age. Explain to him your family is muslims and dont approve of it so chill out. Does he not know anything about somalis

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

yeah my advise dont tell your parents. You are way too young at 17 and we all been 17 and in love and thought it was the one. It rarely is at that age. Explain to him your family is muslims and dont approve of it so chill out. Does he not know anything about somalis

Thank you for the advice. I did explain it to him but he just thinks I’m worried and he thinks that it can’t be that deep but it is. I don’t think he really understands how serious it is for somalis and I never told him how we feel about ajnabis. I don’t want to hurt him.

 

[Sheikh Google]

17 is too young to get married. If you introduce him to your somali parents it has to be as a marriage thing. In what world are conservative Somalis going to be ok with a girl dating. Even typing that is hilarious to me. Tell your boyfriend that listen let us continue dating and if we still together post 20s then come through on a serious marriage proposal. What does he think will happen? stroll into your household and be like hey aabo I'm Muslim but I'm also dating your daughter, it's cool though we only do hand stuff and keep it halal under the waist. Your pops will go to prison and Abu O'Shaughnessy will be dead.