I agree to a certain extent what the youtuber was trying to get at. There are some people who can maintain really surface level type of friendships where all they talk about is painting their nails, going shopping, men they are dating...etc. But if you aren't like that you will be bored in their company and prefer to be alone. But if you have a friend who is actually interested in trying to understand how the world works and can engage in though provoking conversation you'll enjoy their company. Unfortunately it's very rare to find somali girls in my area that want to talk about anything other then their dating life and future potential spouses. Rare doesn't mean they don't exist, there are some that exist who I enjoy talking with. I have a problem with the whole "intelligence" "IQ" testing phenomenon. How does one measure intelligence? Someone can be interested in philosophy and be bored by a biology enthusiast. Someone can be in to history but gets lost when conversations drift into astrophysics. Someone can be really interested in design and fashion and marketing but can't stand reading english literature. I don't think there is only one form of intelligence.