Yeah I never understood inceldom I've seen really ugly men with decent looking gf or wifes I think it's more about their social skillsI was so comically intrigued by incels (due to something that happened close to home), I once gathered enough knowledge on them to write an internet thesis. I even read their manifestos out of curiosity, visited their websites and threads/sub sections.
The only problem being, I had trouble identifying them in the wild even though their numbers are substantial. I really wanted to talk to one in the flesh, so to speak. As far as I could tell, men whom I wouldn’t touch with a 10ft pole were getting laid, so I couldn’t understand how they manage not to get laid in this landscape, bc even if normal women refused, you can 100% pay a stripper or escort to screw your brains out seeing as prostitution is illegal only on paper.
Their problem is bigger than sex. If you’re ugly, don’t have any social traits to the point where even faking it isn’t an option, but you’re somehow massively entitled and yet still can’t muster the intelligence or resources to get you past the threshold of getting laid, which you’ve made out to be the massive deal it isn’t, then that’s the definition of a computational error. They aren’t meant to make sense.