Inability to love Somali women

my somali mom broke my somali dad's heart when she hit him with divorce for wanting a second wife. abo had the right to marry a second wife imo. hooyo wasn't given him any intimacy since she reached menopause and abo still wanted to have more kids to keep the lineage alive. despite he not living with us we have a great bond, even stronger than the one i have with hooyo. whenever me and hooyo beef i call abo to resolve it between us. my bitter bond with hooyo has led me to feel similar manners about somali women in general. i currently do not have or have ever had somali female friends though i have many non-somali female friends and i feel far more comfortable and confident interacting with ajnabi women than somali. also i can't trust somali women, growing up with one taught me all they care about is themselves, what other women think of them, and money.
go live with your dad.
 

dr.leorio

death\emitter
1. Don't talk about your mother like that.

2. Female friends? Are you serious? Every real man knows men and women cannot be "just friends".

3. Somali women are just like every other women in the world behavior wise. You attributing your negative experiences with your ethnicity is weird. The exact same thing could have happened with an ajinabi too. You need to heal man. Go see a therapist or go soul searching to get a better perspective.
 
my somali mom broke my somali dad's heart when she hit him with divorce for wanting a second wife. abo had the right to marry a second wife imo. hooyo wasn't given him any intimacy since she reached menopause and abo still wanted to have more kids to keep the lineage alive. despite he not living with us we have a great bond, even stronger than the one i have with hooyo. whenever me and hooyo beef i call abo to resolve it between us. my bitter bond with hooyo has led me to feel similar manners about somali women in general. i currently do not have or have ever had somali female friends though i have many non-somali female friends and i feel far more comfortable and confident interacting with ajnabi women than somali. also i can't trust somali women, growing up with one taught me all they care about is themselves, what other women think of them, and money.



This is a sad story. Too many Ls to go around. Regardless, marry whoever you want but don't speak ill of Somali women because those in your vicinity act a certain way. That's your reality. Not the reality of many or, dare I say, most Somalis. :manny:
 
my somali mom broke my somali dad's heart when she hit him with divorce for wanting a second wife. abo had the right to marry a second wife imo. hooyo wasn't given him any intimacy since she reached menopause and abo still wanted to have more kids to keep the lineage alive. despite he not living with us we have a great bond, even stronger than the one i have with hooyo. whenever me and hooyo beef i call abo to resolve it between us. my bitter bond with hooyo has led me to feel similar manners about somali women in general. i currently do not have or have ever had somali female friends though i have many non-somali female friends and i feel far more comfortable and confident interacting with ajnabi women than somali. also i can't trust somali women, growing up with one taught me all they care about is themselves, what other women think of them, and money.
You seem to think your parents dysfunctional marriage is normal loool? If she doesn’t want to be intimate with him that’s their issue. Your mum pushed you out of her, have some respect for her. Keep the lineage alive loool stupid if she’s old, he is old too. You have a dysfunctional family my god wtf, how can you hate your mom. Every Somali guy is a mommas boy. Btw not everybody is the same, everyone is different smh
 

x z

±somali supremacist, anti-inceI&queen in the north
What? I’m trying to say not everyone is like his mom and Somali girls are all different. Also are they not mommas boys tho:gaasdrink: This the first time I’ve seen this shit

you cant ask to not generalise then generalise all of them as mommas boys lol. not every somali guy even has a good relationship with their mother, let alone a mommas boy dynamic
 

Lostbox

「Immortal Sage」| Qabil-fluid
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Live the simple life bro. Marry whoever you want
somali women are not losing sleep over you walaalo, go marry your caucasion queens or arabic queens, the only issue is if you talk down on all somali women like you've met them all

by the way, the pool for somali women to marry is bigger than the pool for somali men, so not wise shrinking your pool further. many somali women in the west practice hypergamy, and if you're not meeting their standards, iska iloow.
Why do they struggle to get married? I see alot of more Muslim spinster and seem to be a growing problem. Especially, professionally successful Muslim women or black Muslim women in general. Doesn't follow known common sense, guys with an degree and entry level job are take of the market in quick succession. There was a these Muslims marriage events in my local area. It alway packed with single ladies but rarely any men
 
you cant ask to not generalise then generalise all of them as mommas boys lol. not every somali guy even has a good relationship with their mother, let alone a mommas boy dynamic
Have you seen it tho cause all the Mali brothers I’ve seen LOVE their mom. Haven’t seen one who don’t love their mum or speaks bad about her. This some crazy shit.
 
You're insane. Most people only care about themselves, what other people think of them and money. Don't label Somali women as bad for doing what every human does.
 
There are a lot of misconceptions that this thread seems to have disintegrated into:

1. I never said I hated my hooyo. All I said was that I had issue with the way Somali women handled their familia affairs. The culture of single motherhood was never imposed on the Somali woman living the diaspora, most Somali marriages ended because Somali women became radical feminists and did not perceive the importance of the Somali man at all of any value.

2. The idea that the pool for Somali women is larger than that of Somali men is complete bs. Somali men have been marrying and dating women all over the world for decades and even centuries. From Europeans to Russians, to Indians, to Asians. And they have a seemingly unlimited supply of Somali women who are virtually begging for a Somali husband. Somali women need their Somali men to be have their Somali families. While Somali men irrespective of who they choose to marry will have Somali kids. This idea that the daughters of toxic feminists mothers who destroyed the Somali family institution by kicking their husbands out on behalf of the white's mans' conspiracy wanting to blame the Somali man for their problems is hilarious.

3. The idea that I should be infinitely grateful to just one of my parents. You all act as though you know my mom better than me.
 

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