my somali mom broke my somali dad's heart when she hit him with divorce for wanting a second wife. abo had the right to marry a second wife imo. hooyo wasn't given him any intimacy since she reached menopause and abo still wanted to have more kids to keep the lineage alive. despite he not living with us we have a great bond, even stronger than the one i have with hooyo. whenever me and hooyo beef i call abo to resolve it between us. my bitter bond with hooyo has led me to feel similar manners about somali women in general. i currently do not have or have ever had somali female friends though i have many non-somali female friends and i feel far more comfortable and confident interacting with ajnabi women than somali. also i can't trust somali women, growing up with one taught me all they care about is themselves, what other women think of them, and money.
Inability to love Somali women
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You ain't there yet sxb I got zero female friends gotta keep it 100% halal
ew. get a life bro. female friends are cooler than male onesYou ain't there yet sxb I got zero female friends gotta keep it 100% halal
He made a post about how hideous he was, I am assuming if he had the ability to make female friends he would have made them a long time ago. His hate for somali women (or women in general) stems from his inability to make female friends
I'm 100% straight sxb only guys with low testosterone have female friends
Gender?He made a post about how hideous he was, I am assuming if he had the ability to make female friends who would have made them a long time ago. His hate for somali women (or women in general) stems from his inability to make female friends
Male.
you live in the west where somalis are minority of the potential women so this thread is pointless lol
but this
but this
who says that about their own parents
Exactly. That weirded me out, as if he sees his hooyo as just another woman who's only useful for making babies. How he even knows about his parent's bedroom life is beyond me.you live in the west where somalis are minority of the potential women so this thread is pointless lol
but this
who says that about their own parents
Don’t get involved in your parents marriage. There’s three sides to every story and you might find out ugly things about both your parents.
The most important thing is if they treat you right and that you care for them both.Don’t choose sides.
The most important thing is if they treat you right and that you care for them both.Don’t choose sides.
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Most kids of divorce love the absent parent more. It’s kind of ironic.
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Exactly. That weirded me out, as if he sees his hooyo as just another woman who's only useful for making babies. How he even knows about his parent's bedroom life is beyond me.
His dad probably talks to him like a friend andnot a parent hence why he dislikes his mother (authorit figure) and likes his dad (cool dad).
Ceeb ka dirshada bu kadacayyyou live in the west where somalis are minority of the potential women so this thread is pointless lol
but this
who says that about their own parents
Mozart
You need people like me
It’s caadi akhi you’re surrounded by the gold standard anyway
In all seriousness, don’t be too harsh on your mother. Single mother , fled a war torn country, not much money with kids to provide for - she probably took on the mans role your father was supposed to.
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In all seriousness, don’t be too harsh on your mother. Single mother , fled a war torn country, not much money with kids to provide for - she probably took on the mans role your father was supposed to.
It’s totally fine to not want to love a Somali woman, everyone has their own preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that. However, you saying that “all Somali women care about is themselves and money” is where it starts to get problematic. Due to your parents dysfunctional relationship your views on Somali women has been tainted. I don’t blame you as it’s your parents fault. They should’ve kept their relationship problems to themselves. The actual problem is the way you speak about your mom. It’s disgusting. I suggest therapy to be honest because there’s no way that’s healthy.
You’re telling me his father was like: “Hooyada mala was ii karo, sobabta siilkada waa lamadagaan”
I don’t understandOromo please translate dis
