In case of divorce, who should hold custody of the children? Mother or Father?

[Angelina]

Nope they dont

It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to a woman who sought custody of her child from her husband: “You are more entitled to him so long as you do not get married.” Narrated by Abu Dawood in his Sunan (2276); classed as hasan by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (368).

Women have more right to custody of children than men; in principle custody belongs to them, because they are more compassionate and more kind, and they know better how to raise small children, and they are more patient in dealing with the difficulties involved. The mother has more right to custody of her child, whether it is a boy or a girl, so long as she does not re-marry and so long as she meets the conditions of custody. This is according to scholarly consensus.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to a woman who sought custody of her child from her husband: “You are more entitled to him so long as you do not get married.” Narrated by Abu Dawood in his Sunan (2276); classed as hasan by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (368).

Women have more right to custody of children than men; in principle custody belongs to them, because they are more compassionate and more kind, and they know better how to raise small children, and they are more patient in dealing with the difficulties involved. The mother has more right to custody of her child, whether it is a boy or a girl, so long as she does not re-marry and so long as she meets the conditions of custody. This is according to scholarly consensus.

Well tht isnt obligaged plus man have more custody cuz the man provide home for he child food and cloths which womans cant and no one isnt sure if tht hadith is sahih or not plus all the scholars would have talk about
Here is mufti menk a scholar taking about it

 

[jabsveg276]

It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to a woman who sought custody of her child from her husband: “You are more entitled to him so long as you do not get married.” Narrated by Abu Dawood in his Sunan (2276); classed as hasan by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (368).

Women have more right to custody of children than men; in principle custody belongs to them, because they are more compassionate and more kind, and they know better how to raise small children, and they are more patient in dealing with the difficulties involved. The mother has more right to custody of her child, whether it is a boy or a girl, so long as she does not re-marry and so long as she meets the conditions of custody. This is according to scholarly consensus.

Again, stop making this difficult. The wife can have custody of the children until they’re 9, then the husband can have them.

 

[Angelina]

Again, stop making this difficult. The wife can have custody of the children until they’re 9, then the husband can have them.

There are differences of opinions depending on the madhab. So no, it isn't black and white. Some believe that at 9,the child can choose. Some believe if it is a girl, she should stay with the mum until marriage ect.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to a woman who sought custody of her child from her husband: “You are more entitled to him so long as you do not get married.” Narrated by Abu Dawood in his Sunan (2276); classed as hasan by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (368).

Women have more right to custody of children than men; in principle custody belongs to them, because they are more compassionate and more kind, and they know better how to raise small children, and they are more patient in dealing with the difficulties involved. The mother has more right to custody of her child, whether it is a boy or a girl, so long as she does not re-marry and so long as she meets the conditions of custody. This is according to scholarly consensus.

The man provide give house food cloths money and is responsible for his kids
Also the man knows compassionate kind and more patient dealing difficult how to raise the his kid or kids a man more responsibility then a woman when it comes to kid or kids

 

[Angelina]

Well tht isnt obligaged plus man have more custody cuz the man provide home for he child food and cloths which womans cant and no one isnt sure if tht hadith is sahih or not plus all the scholars would have talk about
Here is mufti menk a scholar taking about it

Where does he say fathers get custody?

Also in Islam, while the kids are under the custody of the children, the dad needs to pay child support.

Islam isn't based on YOUR opinions mate.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

There are differences of opinions depending on the madhab. So no, it isn't black and white. Some believe that at 9,the child can choose. Some believe if it is a girl, she should stay with the mum until marriage ect.

Especial when it is girls they should stay with the father cuz they cant be around another man tht is not their mahram
Plus madhab have their oppinion which i think isnt from quran

 

[Angelina]

The man provide give house food cloths money and is responsible for his kids
Also the man knows compassionate kind and more patient dealing difficult how to raise the his kid or kids a man more responsibility then a woman when it comes to kid or kids

Stop changing the fatwa. Are you mad?

Men and women are not the same.

 

[Lostbox]

Have you guys ever tired given milk to the newborn for them to never stop crying till you have clothes right next to them that has the scent of the mother?

Or are we talking about something completely different?

 

[Angelina]

Especial when it is girls they should stay with the father cuz they cant be around another man tht is not their mahram
Plus madhab have their oppinion which i think isnt from quran

We Muslims follow Quran and Sunnah. Not your opinion. No one cares what you think. The hadith I posted is authentic.

Stop @ing me.

 

[jabsveg276]

There are differences of opinions depending on the madhab. So no, it isn't black and white. Some believe that at 9,the child can choose. Some believe if it is a girl, she should stay with the mum until marriage ect.

Okay then. What’s wrong with giving the children to the father at age 9?

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

Where does he say fathers get custody?

Also in Islam, while the kids are under the custody of the children, the dad needs to pay child support.

Islam isn't based on YOUR opinions mate.

Nope the father doesnt have to pay child support cuz the kids are his custody plus even when the Kid or Kids stay with the mother the father only have to pay their food cloths and schools but the father doesnt have to pay the mother food or cloths or the house rent where she live
And the mother shouldnt spend the Kid or Kids money to her self which most womans do tht

 

[jabsveg276]

Have you guys ever tired given milk to the newborn for them to never stop crying till you have clothes right next to them that has the scent of the mother?

Or are we talking about something completely different?

That’s normal brother.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

We Muslims follow Quran and Sunnah. Not your opinion. No one cares what you think. The hadith I posted is authentic.

Stop @ing me.

Well no one cares u oppinion like i said the have more responsibility then the mother which Come from quran

 

[jabsveg276]

Where does he say fathers get custody?

Also in Islam, while the kids are under the custody of the children, the dad needs to pay child support.

Islam isn't based on YOUR opinions mate.

If you’re not married, why does the father owe child support? Can you back up that statement please.

 

[Angelina]

Nope the father doesnt have to pay child support cuz the kids are his custody plus even when the Kid or Kids stay with the mother the father only have to pay their food cloths and schools but the father doesnt have to pay the mother food or cloths or the house rent where she live
And the mother shouldnt spend the Kid or Kids money to her self which most womans do tht

Show me a fatwa or be quite.

 

[Xaruun]

This discussion is 68 IQ. Shared custody exists for a reason

 

[Angelina]

Well no one cares u oppinion like i said the have more responsibility then the mother which Come from quran

I didn't give my opinion. I showed you a fatwa.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

Where does he say fathers get custody?

Also in Islam, while the kids are under the custody of the children, the dad needs to pay child support.

Islam isn't based on YOUR opinions mate.

Watch the Mark 2:45

 

[jabsveg276]

This discussion is 68 IQ. Shared custody exists for a reason

Most courts give the mother full custody, even if the father is more suitable for having custody of the children.