I'm done with my family Leeching of me

[lone]

I gave my dad all my student loan money last year. He owes me over £3,400. I’m too scared to bring it up

You have to say No. it is simple. Many times I was coerced with ayuto. You don’t fu** with tuition.

 

[mrlog]

You said you don’t get food in the house so what’s the difference living alone and staying home?


It’s your mums fault for even washing your clothes in the first place. Kulaha I’m too lazy to wash my clothes.


Break your back? You’re not an old man. Why do all these young men have back problems?

Walaalo too much Siigo is know to affect da back and knees.
Aniga i weydii.
That's y I quit

 

[Shamis]

I give £500 a month to my mum to send back home. When I visited last year my aunt told me sometimes she only eats one meal a day to save up for things she needs and that's why I send it back no questions asked.

 

[mrlog]

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Waad u qarisay
Rageedi

 

[VixR]

I think the point is they're too afraid to even ask what they need it for.

That's just weird. Anytime we needed to pitch in for some big picture family thing, it was discussed and planned. If it was an extended family effort, that was put on the table too.

Either this guy's a free-ride retard who somehow thinks his money is solely his living at home, and is trying to excuse himself from any and all reasonable expense, or his family has no tact. Context is everything.

 

[Starscream]

That's just weird. Anytime we needed to pitch in for some big picture family thing, it was discussed and planned. If it was an extended family effort, that was put on the table too.

Either this guy's a free-ride retard who somehow thinks his money is solely his living at home, and is trying to excuse himself from any and all reasonable expense, or his family has no tact. Context is everything.

I think your the retard here I literally gave every small little details you just fabricated your conclusion

 

[Waxwaalan]

i don't wanna grow up

 

[VixR]

I think your the retard here I literally gave every small little details you just fabricated your conclusion

Let me give you some advice. Nothing is free.

If 500-800 is the cost of your living at home, especially if you're not contributing to bills and home expenses, it's still far less than the cost of living alone, and around the same cost as living with a roommate.

If you are contributing rent and home expenses and the 500-800 is added expense on top of that, especially if it's continuous without solid reasoning, you're throwing money into a money pit and you'll never get out of your dilemma until you address it. Reason with your family and spread the expense, or mitigate its usefulness.

You mightMOST LIKELY need to get a second job and you NEED to go back to school OR enter a trade. Whatever it takes to get out of the rut, or years will pass and you'll still be complaining about the same situation.

 

[Shamis]

@Starscream is still young. He should become an electrician and then he wouldn't mind giving his mother $500-$800 a month.

 

[yasmin lan]

No amount of money will be payable for the sleepless night and pain you’re mother went through for you and your family be humble and never question her

 

[Starscream]

Let me give you some advice. Nothing is free.

If 500-800 is the cost of your living at home, especially if you're not contributing to bills and home expenses, it's still far less than the cost of living alone, and around the same cost as living with a roommate.

If you are contributing rent and home expenses and the 500-800 is added expense on top of that, especially if it's continuous without solid reasoning, you're throwing money into a money pit and you'll never get out of your dilemma until you address it. Reason with your family and spread the expense, or mitigate its usefulness.

You mightMOST LIKELY need to get a second job and you NEED to go back to school OR enter a trade. Whatever it takes to get out of the rut, or years will pass and you'll still be complaining about the same situation.

i don't wanna grow up

It could be worse one poster here was crying about being starved by his baby mama

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Didn't you know? Vixr knows everything about life. Whenever i need advice i go to her. Shes basically a life scholar woww

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[Gibiin-Udug]

I'm currently paying for med-school for one of my cousins in Malaysia.

Didn't you know? Vixr knows everything about life. Whenever i need advice i go to her. Shes basically a life scholar woww

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Stop hating.....

Her name is literally VixR.. She fixes shit, your shit life. Kkkkkkk


P.s


I know that's not how you spell fixer... Leave me alone...

 

[Bernie Madoff]

I'm currently paying for med-school for one of my cousins in Malaysia.

Stop hating.....

Her name is literally VixR.. She fixes shit, your shit life. Kkkkkkk


P.s


I know that's not how you spell fixer... Leave me alone...

Mashallah good for you sis

Cousin of the year.. @Starscream take notes sxb

 

[Starscream]

I'm currently paying for med-school for one of my cousins in Malaysia.

Stop hating.....

Her name is literally VixR.. She fixes shit, your shit life. Kkkkkkk


P.s


I know that's not how you spell fixer... Leave me alone...

Lol i thought her name was vixen

Mashallah good for you sis

Cousin of the year.. @Starscream take notes sxb

@Reiko is pathological liar

 

[VixR]

It could be worse one poster here was crying about being starved by his baby mama

Seriously, different circumstances, but I work two jobs. I was such a princess I never would've thought it possible, even though I still whine a lot. Seriously, if I can do it, anyone can.

You do what you have to do to get where you want to go.

 

[Gambar]

I'm currently paying for med-school for one of my cousins in Malaysia.

Stop hating.....

Her name is literally VixR.. She fixes shit, your shit life. Kkkkkkk


P.s


I know that's not how you spell fixer... Leave me alone...

Mashallah good for you sis

Cousin of the year.. @Starscream take notes sxb

Hadaad tahay qof gacan furan sidaa @Reiko waa wax fiicaan, lakiin hadaad adiga tadaa khaati uu jooga waa wax kale.

@Starscream I thought you were crazy, ileen waxaad uu roon tahay qoyskaga mashallah lakiin tell your bum sister and her bum husband to get it together. What's wrong with them?

I help my siblings all the time because I am the oldest and most stable, lakiin if they're not making any effort to make a better life for themselves and I've lectured them about it, I am not helping them. Qofka caynkaas ah lama caawiyo.

 

[Starscream]

Seriously, different circumstances, but I work two jobs. I was such a princess I never would've thought it possible, even though I still whine a lot. Seriously, if I can do it, anyone can.

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[VixR]

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Try it. Push yourself. You might be surprised.

It's only worth it if you save practically every red cent towards a reasonable goal that'll eventually get you out of having to do it anymore, and make sure you're getting 6-8 hours of sleep. That means having no life/fun (maybe once every 1-2 weeks to keep you sane).

 

[Starscream]

Hadaad tahay qof gacan furan sidaa @Reiko waa wax fiicaan, lakiin hadaad adiga tadaa khaati uu jooga waa wax kale.

@Starscream I thought you were crazy, ileen waxaad uu roon tahay qoyskaga mashallah lakiin tell your bum sister and her bum husband to get it together. What's wrong with them?

I help my siblings all the time because I am the oldest and most stable, lakiin if they're not making any effort to make a better life for themselves and I've lectured them about it, I am not helping them. Qofka caynkaas ah lama caawiyo.

My older sister is alot older than me her oldest son is older than me

Try it. Push yourself. You might be surprised.

It's only worth it if you save practically every red cent towards a reasonable goal that'll eventually get you out of having to do it anymore, and make sure you're getting 6-8 hours of sleep. That means having no life/fun (maybe once every 1-2 weeks to keep you sane).

The only reason why I didn't accept the offer was because 1. was in another County and 2. I know if I get another job the handouts expected of me will double
Meaning I'm running myself into the ground for nothing fukk that