If you weren't interested in sex, you had no desire for it, would you still want to get married.

Would you want to get married?

  • Yes for other reasons

    Votes: 37 62.7%

  • No

    Votes: 20 33.9%

  • Undecided

    Votes: 2 3.4%
  • Total voters
    59
Wervelwind

Wervelwind

Angelina said:
I find Taij’s thinking ludicrous, but he is still a kid and trying to find himself per say. I wouldn’t take him too seriously. Hopefully, he’ll grow out of extreme introvert behavior because it isn’t healthy.
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I completely agree with the brother which probably makes me ludicrous as well. Marriage sounds miserable to me; I don't need to spend my time glued to someone else giving me the worst madax xanuun and be legally tied to them
 
GuanYu

GuanYu

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Wervelwind said:
I completely agree with the brother which probably makes me ludicrous as well. Marriage sounds miserable to me; I don't need to spend my time glued to someone else giving me the worst madax xanuun and be legally tied to them
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are you sure you are not related to him 🤔
 
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Peache

Taij4an said:
Interested to see peoples motivation for marriage
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There’s such thing as asexual people who don’t desire psychical sex and find joy and passion through companionship. Not everyone is into sex and some couples make it work. Its only a problem if you don’t desire sex and get married to someone who does and is a rabbit. That’s where the issues start.
I truly wonder how many marriages are out there where the one person doesn’t desire it, but they got married just because religion and society told them to. And they either make their wife or husband suffer because of it.
 
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Peache

Taij4an said:
Yh but I prefer to be alone.
Like if I meet up with my spouse every friday for a couple hours then go back home I wouldn't see that as abnormal
but every day 24/7 is not companionship that is just too much like wth
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I somewhat beileve the same thing. There are truly people out there that prefer to be alone and don’t need to be in someone’s face 24/7 and always having to talk and socialize with them.
It sounds awful but I don’t see a issue with couples living apart and having healthy amount of space and seeing each other a few times a week.

I’m ready for folks to come at me like internet braveheart warriors.
 
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Peache

Rakoon said:
Is better to get married even if you don't desire sex because marriage is a blessing and an investment
Plus if you are married to a xalimo you not gonna have too much sex anyways coz most of them are super tired all the time and have iron deficiencies
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How is it an investment ? When men can lose everything finically along with not being able to see their chidlren cause the courts rule in the favour of us women lol ?
An investment to create chidlren and a loving bond with someone I can understand but overall… men lose more unless it’s just a religious marriage and not tied by the government.

And they tired cause they busy taking care of them chidlren that you men desire so much and had to pop them out year after year lol.
And some husbands ( not all ) don’t help their wives with the cooking and cleaning and leave it all on the wife, while she’s still expected to work nowadays and split the income.

All the married Somali ladies I knew back when I lived in this apartment would tell me this when we all got together. And how their husbands complained about lack of sex lmaoo and wonder why they so tired.
 
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NinWero

Amina99 said:
Some people are asexual and don’t require the jiggy jiggy at all. They don’t have those same functions as others.
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Asexual? That's a lie, everyone at some point has desires even those who try to hide them.

Secondly, marriage is not just about sex, but championship, love, and kids. You will only know that as you grow up.
 
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Peache

NinWero said:
Asexual? That's a lie, everyone at some point has desires even those who try to hide them.

Secondly, marriage is not just about sex, but championship, love, and kids. You will only know that as you grow up.
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How can you say an actual sexual orientation is a lie ??????? There’s so many people affected and genuinely have this.

And I didn’t say asexual people don’t marry.
They can still desire companionship, family, and children… just without sex. And guess what ? They still desire love.
Just not physical desires and sex lol.

There’so many couples like this. You gonna call them all liars lol ?
Not everyone is wired biologically the same way sir.
Just cause most major religions including ours says you must marry … there are people out there that don’t desire sex and still wanna marry.
 
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NinWero

Amina99 said:
How can you say an actual sexual orientation is a lie ??????? There’s so many people affected and genuinely have this.

And I didn’t say asexual people don’t marry.
They can still desire companionship, family, and children… just without sex. And guess what ? They still desire love.
Just not physical desires and sex lol.

There’so many couples like this. You gonna call them all liars lol ?
Not everyone is wired biologically the same way sir.
Just cause most major religions including ours says you must marry … there are people out there that don’t desire sex and still wanna marry.
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:dead1: are you like that?

Seriously, how can you reproduce if theirs no physical contact? Answer this for me :mjlol:
 
truenature

truenature

Amina99 said:
How can you say an actual sexual orientation is a lie ??????? There’s so many people affected and genuinely have this.

And I didn’t say asexual people don’t marry.
They can still desire companionship, family, and children… just without sex. And guess what ? They still desire love.
Just not physical desires and sex lol.

There’so many couples like this. You gonna call them all liars lol ?
Not everyone is wired biologically the same way sir.
Just cause most major religions including ours says you must marry … there are people out there that don’t desire sex and still wanna marry.
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You know asexuals are apart of the LGBTQIA+ community right? That means something is wrong with them. Probably a hormone imbalance or a traumatic experience.
 
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NinWero said:
:dead1: are you like that?

Seriously, how can you reproduce if theirs no physical contact? Answer this for me :mjlol:
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I am not but nice try.

I just am close to people that who are like that and they thought something was wrong with them Miskeen.
And guess what ? The one asexual one doesn’t want kids and is fine being alone, but the other girl I know who’s asexual wants chidlren but understands most men are rarely asexual. Some are but most aren’t.

And if they wanted children but are asexual… they can still do the actual act of it just for the sake of children and reproducing.
 
Zahra

Zahra

If you want to stop having sex, get married. Lol! Messed up but true. One of the spouse's won't be interested as much anymore OR both just won't really desire it they will look at it more as a chore.
 
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