If you weren't interested in sex, you had no desire for it, would you still want to get married.

[Taij4an]

Nope

well then sex would be one of the most important parts of ur relationship then

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Interested to see peoples motivation for marriage

To have kids obviously.

 

[GuanYu]

well then sex would be one of the most important parts of ur relationship then

200%, It is THE most important part, however NOT the only part. there must be something that draws you and activates that part, if not then It's Exit time. IF that part is passed then to the other part. ALSO need i mention this, It has to be MUTUAL if she ain't feelin you and you feelin her, end it.

 

[Bundasliga]

Can i ride on your motorcycle?

Eedo I don't have a motorcycle you confusing me with abti @Arma

Or you referring to something else ...

 

[Bundasliga]

There are women like him. Hopefully he finds an anti-social one.

Yeah but living with eachother is the bare minimum. Both can have separate rooms & its the better solution imo.

What other options are better?
If you can live with your parents your whole life being anti-social then you can at least live with your spouse ,if he/she is similar to you the even better to,because the feeling is mutual.

What do you think?

 

[Qahwe]

Yeah but living with eachother is the bare minimum. Both can have separate rooms & its the better solution imo.

What other options are better?
If you can live with your parents your whole life being anti-social then you can at least live with your spouse ,if he/she is similar to you the even better to,because the feeling is mutual.

What do you think?

Anti-social people grew up with their parents and siblings, so it is very simple to live with them and they can be patient with their anti-social child/sibling, compared to a person they just met some time ago. Even if the feeling is mutual it will never be the same like with their immediate family.

 

[Sheikh Google]

Sex with an emotional connection>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Anything else.

 

[Bundasliga]

Anti-social people grew up with their parents and siblings, so it is very simple to live with them and they can be patient with their anti-social child/sibling, compared to a person they just met some time ago. Even if the feeling is mutual it will never be the same like with their immediate family.

What's the better alternative?

 

[senor chang]

This is a really retarded question no offence

 

[Oday-yar]

Imo once you get married you have to devote your life to her and your kids and continue that until they can go out to the world and do there own shit. And continue to live with her.

also bro you might be looking to early into the future, im talking about when your in your mid or late 30s or even early 40s. When your in your 20s live your life Sxb go explore the world and shit.

this is my opinion though

I got married in my mid 20s and I am glad I did. I think this whole "enjoy" your 20s sermon is overhyped. wtf do niggas do to "enjoy" their lives anyway? faaraxs are notorious time wasters. There's nothing freeing about fkd, khaat, hookaah and haram relationships.

get married early.

 

[Velœcity]

I got married in my mid 20s and I am glad I did. I think this whole "enjoy" your 20s sermon is overhyped. wtf do niggas do to "enjoy" their lives anyway? faaraxs are notorious time wasters. There's nothing freeing about fkd, khaat, hookaah and haram relationships.

get married early.

Eh, I guess when you put it like that it’s true. What I meant to say is don’t have kids until your 30, which is always my opinion. Currently I’m not in a state of desire to marry but I know I will later on in life. But your right Faraaxs are time wasters wlhi.

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[Oday-yar]

Eh, I guess when you put it like that it’s true. What I meant to say is don’t have kids until your 30, which is always my opinion. Currently I’m not in a state of desire to marry but I know I will later on in life. But your right Faraaxs are time wasters wlhi.

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You shouldn't get married if you dont feel ready, young or not. I think delaying marriage to focus on school or any other worthy goal is completely reasonable. However, majority of the dudes I have seen are avoiding marriage just to evade responsibility. I see these niggas frequenting fkd spots, playing soccer or basketball every weekend, going on dates every other day and just chilling. Why would anyone waste their 20s doing that?

marriage forces you to grow up and become a responsible man.

 

[Taij4an]

This is a really retarded question no offence

why?

 

[Taij4an]

I got married in my mid 20s and I am glad I did. I think this whole "enjoy" your 20s sermon is overhyped. wtf do niggas do to "enjoy" their lives anyway? faaraxs are notorious time wasters. There's nothing freeing about fkd, khaat, hookaah and haram relationships.

get married early.

I am not enjoying my life I am studying and working and seeking knowledge I don't have alot of time anyway

 

[Qahwe]

I

What's the better alternative?

I really don’t know, actually “anti-social” people are criminals and stuff like that. I think Angelina means very introverted people

 

[Basra]

Anti-social people grew up with their parents and siblings, so it is very simple to live with them and they can be patient with their anti-social child/sibling, compared to a person they just met some time ago. Even if the feeling is mutual it will never be the same like with their immediate family.

This is a very astute observation Mashalaah

 

[Angelina]

Yeah but living with eachother is the bare minimum. Both can have separate rooms & its the better solution imo.

What other options are better?
If you can live with your parents your whole life being anti-social then you can at least live with your spouse ,if he/she is similar to you the even better to,because the feeling is mutual.

What do you think?

I find Taij’s thinking ludicrous, but he is still a kid and trying to find himself per say. I wouldn’t take him too seriously. Hopefully, he’ll grow out of extreme introvert behavior because it isn’t healthy.

One thing Bunglasia, spouses don’t have the same type patience for each other the way your parents do. Your family are used to your weird ways and just accept it for what it is and if worst comes to worse, they’re not the ones that have to deal with you all the time in the future. They just secretly feel sorry for your future spouse.

 

[Basra]

I find Taij’s thinking ludicrous, but he is still a kid and trying to find himself per say. I wouldn’t take him too seriously. Hopefully, he’ll grow out of extreme introvert behavior because it isn’t healthy.

One thing Bunglasia, spouses don’t have same the patience for each other the way your parents do. Your family are used to your weird ways and just accept you for what it is and if worst comes to worse, they’re not the ones that have to deal with you all the time in the future. They just secretly feel sorry for your future spouse.

Angie can you say hi to Tai for me?

 

[Angelina]

Angie can you say hi to Tai for me?

Basra, you scare me. I think you realized that I rarely reply back to you, and that is why.

 

[Basra]

Basra, you scare me. I think you realized that I rarely reply back to you, and that is why.

I am glad i scare u hon