If you weren't interested in sex, you had no desire for it, would you still want to get married.

[Shimbiris]

Yes. I have a responsibility to my house to spread my oats, so to speak. Beget sons who will beget other sons. You understand, I'm sure.

 

[Kane]

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[Taij4an]

Kids

Why do you want kids?

 

[Taij4an]

Yes. I have a responsibility to my house to spread my oats, so to speak. Beget sons who will beget other sons. You understand, I'm sure.

Why? Islamically?
Or bc of other reasons

 

[Taij4an]

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Sex is overrated.
Getting married and expecting sex to make it any better is stupid.

 

[bidenkulaha]

Why do you want kids?

Why not? I do not want to let down my family, need to be as laandheere as possible

 

[Taij4an]

Why not? I do not want to let down my family, need to be as laandheere as possible

So ur having kids for ur family?

 

[bidenkulaha]

So ur having kids for ur family?

kinda but ofc myself I liked raising my siblings

 

[Taij4an]

kinda but ofc myself I liked raising my siblings

So u like kids?
U do realise ur life is basically over when u have kids, everything is gonna have to revolve around ur children, ur marriage will suffer, sleepless nights, always worrying about them, etc etc

 

[GuanYu]

Sex is overrated.
Getting married and expecting sex to make it any better is stupid.

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So u like kids?
U do realise ur life is basically over when u have kids, everything is gonna have to revolve around ur children, ur marriage will suffer, sleepless nights, always worrying about them, etc etc

The sacrifices you make, in order for them to carry your name and abtiris and they go take on the world. Knowing you will make them reach that level with Allah's help are enough reason to go through it and have kids.
the marriage suffers because there's feeling of dissatisfaction that is not communicated and let it reach a boiling point.

Life is over, Only as you breathe your last breath as Allah wills it.

 

[Shimbiris]

Why? Islamically?
Or bc of other reasons

For FKD.

 

[Taij4an]

Sex is not overrated. You get married because you want to sex the significant other

Nope wrong, not only is that wrong, but according to the ppl who voted, most of them would still get married even if they didn't have sex, marriage isn't about sex, thats a very small part of it


And Lastly Sex is not overrated. It is just overtalked.

Sex is very much overrated

 

[Mount23]

Nope wrong, not only is that wrong, but according to the ppl who voted, most of them would still get married even if they didn't have sex, marriage isn't about sex, thats a very small part of it


And Lastly Sex is not overrated. It is just overtalked.

Sex is very much overrated

Have you had sex or kids?? If not wtf you talking about, bro dont talk about something you have no experience or knowledge about

Ciyaal these days lol, think they experts of everything

 

[Taij4an]

The sacrifices you make, in order for them to carry your name and abtiris and they go take on the world. Knowing you will make them reach that level with Allah's help are enough reason to go through it and have kids.
the marriage suffers because there's feeling of dissatisfaction that is not communicated and let it reach a boiling point.

Life is over, Only as you breathe your last breath as Allah wills it.

What happens if you don't care about trivial stuff like "your name and abtiris"

 

[Taij4an]

Have you had sex or kids?? If not wtf you talking about, bro dont talk about something you have no experience or knowledge about

Ciyaal these days lol, think they experts of everything

I have observed enough of life to understand it

 

[lilmoon]

Interested to see peoples motivation for marriage

My reason for marriage is the feeling of loving someone outside of your own family and friends, the change of dynamics and feelings that you have with that person. Just experiencing romance is something that would want me to get married, and to be honest that would be one if my main reasons, aside from "keeping it halal" and having kids.

 

[Taij4an]

My reason for marriage is the feeling of loving someone outside of your own family and friends, the change of dynamics and feelings that you have with that person. Just experiencing romance is something that would want me to get married, and to be honest that would be one if my main reasons, aside from "keeping it halal" and having kids.

That is probably the main answer I would expect from a women

 

[lilmoon]

I don't understand what companionship is, like why do u care about being with someone.

I am deeply sorry for your lack of friendships in life.

 

[Taij4an]

I am deeply sorry for your lack of friendships in life.

Who said I don't have friends?

 

[lilmoon]

That is probably the main answer I would expect from a women

What, so you don't want to be in live with someone? If you got married then wouldn't you be romantically involved with your wife, not just having kids with her?