I proposed to a girl from my college to see each other

[peacemaker]

Comprehension is key here. I told him to go on the friend date not date her. Men and women can also be friends incase you didn’t know.

she already said dude i will never ever be interested please move on, i dont see you that way, , a subtle no or a loud no is the same

why would he waste his time on a girl who does not want romantic involvement

and no, a man and a woman can never ever be friends, if your a healthy red blooded male who thinks you can be friends with females, something is wrong with him,

 

[peacemaker]

Miskeen. I can’t handle rejection, I think I’d kill myself if I was a guy

This is why girls i used to rejected at college or Uni who were interest in me became the nastiest most evil human beings after i rejected them, giving me evil dirty looks

girls just cannot handle rejection, it takes so much guts for them to build up the confident to ask us out, but they are super fragile, if she is rejected, she will fall apart

but us man are created to be rejected, also i dont know why but i always found it very strange when a girl asked me out, i used to think that is my job, why is she hunting g me, it should be the other way around , i am the hunter, girls never ask a guy out, even if he is Super Model Ogaden Greek statue dipped in golden honey please do not ask him out, that is his job,

 

[peacemaker]

Ni99a easy with the miseducation it ain’t no numbers game, unless your simpin pimpen. Women honor men they choose and use those that chase them. So much for being a Handsome O.G, your looks failed you my G.

that is a gold digger, you advocate her to use guys she does not like,

and there is no miseducation, she rejected him, he took it like a man and moved on, but no man and female can ever be friends, cut the crap

 

[Unbothered]

I hope this is not another copy and paste thread lol

 

[lilmoon]

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Why is the way ur asking so unnatural its giving privileged white boy vibes

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Dear queen of the East with all due respect, you contradicted yourself.

in red you are promoting cold approach and in blue it’s all about reading the body language, a.k.a choosing signals. What gives?

Walaale, What I mean is that the brother should speak to a woman in person first, a few times if possible, build rapport and see if she has some positive or flirtatious body language towards him. If her vibe is strictly friendly, he should keep it platonic.

I don't agree with texting strange women, but I don't think he texted a stranger.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Just like with a job interview rejection, you should respond to rejection with confidence and humour. This will leave you lingering in the woman's mind as she may reconsider altogether.
This is because you are competing with guys who become rude and bitter when rejected. So, just by staying friendly and humorous, you stick out. Also, women talk, so your reputation will grow the classier you are.

Trust me.

 

[Yankee]

Well done to you for shooting your shot.

Men are supposed to shoot their shot and shrug off rejection, especially when someone is polite and honest. Don't let it deter you from approaching other women, but it helps to read body language and energy before asking people out.

Thats depressing isn’t it? It’s true though but you could’ve said it somehow a little nicer

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Thats depressing isn’t it? It’s true though but you could’ve said it somehow a little nicer

Rejection is hard, but it's good to think of it in this way: rejection is god's protection.

 

[Bundasliga]

I assume it's another fake screenshot that you stole from the internet.

If not all kudos to you for taking my advice

 

[Bundasliga]

Why is the way ur asking so unnatural its giving privileged white boy vibes

@Aegon is a Somali incel on the weekends & a white boy during the week

 

[KaiMarvin]

"I'm going to be upfront and let u know, I'm not into you that way"

 

[Hodan from HR]

Hi @Aegon

Rejections are part of life. Don't listen to advice about ignoring her and acting like a jerk unless you want to ruin your chances with her (maybe she has a reason she don't want a relationship at the moment, you never know). But even if you don't want her anymore, still, be kind and treat her with respect whenever you meet in school/outside. It is basic human decency and will take you far in life. I won't advice you to be friends since that will be hard for you right now.

Best

 

[Man with a garuun]

Why is the way ur asking so unnatural its giving privileged white boy vibes

I am convinced @Aegon is not a Somali.

 

[Man with a garuun]

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Why did you hide the date on that chat? I'm pretty sure it is another copy-paste operation from another site. Fake.

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Should’ve responded date?!? I’m trying to kick it and find out about saxiibta Jessica over there

 

[Abba Sadacha]

Of course, if you're Muslim, you know dating is haraam, but wow, she had you in the friend zone before you even knew it. That sucks, but it is what it is. Best thing to do is move on, work on self improvement, then look for a wife, then take your wife on dates- to eat, maybe to the park, halal things that are still fun.

 

[Juke]

Which forum did you steal from this time around

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Who even goes on coffee dates anymore?

this ain’t the 2000’s

 

[FOBish]

Who even goes on coffee dates anymore?

this ain’t the 2000’s

Where people go on dates these days ? Strip clubs !!