I proposed to a girl from my college to see each other
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What a load of horse $hit!
That was a very good piece of advise to young men all over; you'll understand when you get older.
What a boring person u are.
tell me did the girl that reject you remember you?
What a load of horse $hit!
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I don't know, I don't look back -- I move forward; I haven't been rejected in a really long time because I can read signals a lot better now.
It's humbling to see these younger guys think the exact same say as you did their age. It reminds me how immature I was.
They are correct to be mad and average looking men have it bad. But the solution is simple. Meet new people naturally at events rather than through social media.
You’re kinda right.
Women look for different things at different stages of their life. A 21 year old woman at her peak sexual Desirability wants excitement and to explore her options and is busy chasing a degree, while the same woman at 28 or 30 wants long term security. It doesn’t mean all of a sudden she ‘comes to her senses’ she just can’t get the same attention she did during her peak. she just can’t compete with her younger self and the men she finds desirable don’t want her coz their attention are directed towards women younger than her.
A lot of the time you’ll hear older women disqualify younger chicks by saying “she’s just dumb and young, why is he with her, they have nothing in common, what are they gonna even talk about?” Or Even calling the guy gay.
Hence why she “settles”.
I didn't say that lol. I said the average men that are available to these women are not decent because the decent average men who weren't scared of rejection eventually get picked. Average decent men at that age usually leave the dating pool but a few exist in the dating pool because they forced themselves back into it.
You have no right to be mad at a chick for not wanting you. You have to do what it takes to be desirable to women if u want to solve your reproductive problem. In the past, just a little bit of confidence and a blue collar job could do the trick even an arranged marriage. But now, being average is just kinda like a death sentence sexually for the modern man,
average women don’t want average men.
A lot of dudes don’t realize but they got time, what you’re talking about is a numbers game, Of course if you meet women everyday, one or two will bite, what then cling to her like a tick? No.
improve your quality of life for your own well-being not because of a chick. By the time you’re in your late 20’s early 30’s and you have a decent understanding of male and female nature, you’ll have your pick of women.
Not mad at a specific girl, mad at the situation and expectations in the general sense. Being upset about the dating world is reasonable.
But why guys generalise women? You guys feel sorry for men being rejected but never think of a woman’s perspectives of relationships and love. Women get hurt too and rejected too. I am not speaking of experience because I have never been in a relationship since I live in a segregated environment. But the way men speak about women as this just sucks. Can you just keep this stuff in the men’s cave or something? All this site is about analyzing woman’s psyche. Pretty annoying.
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Average looking women don't get rejected nearly as often as average looking men do. Not even close.
Average looking women get hurt by men out of their league, not necessarily by average looking men.
Rejections may happen when the average man realizes there is an extreme case of no compatibility days or weeks later. They give average women a chance and want it to work out.
Average men will not get a single like for weeks on Muslim dating apps from what I have heard from friends and online discussions but average women will get thousands, almost all from other average looking men. But they don't want these men in their young age.
Of course have standards. Some women want a religious man, others may want someone who is very close to their family. If you're average looking, go find an average looking man who is decent, even those with certain criteria you're looking for like religiosity. These men are plentiful before the age of 28 or so. After then, they get picked or do not bother to put themselves out there anymore.
Four generations of men have been conditioned to emote and b!tch like women, how can u be mad? Not saying u obviously. It’s ok be mad if u want it’s part of the process. But a man is built to be a problem solver. The way you’re thinking about it is feminine way of thinking. Females aren’t inherently problem solver but men are. Women get off on talking and conversation talking about their problems but having no intention of trying to solve them, men on the other hand want solutions to problems.
that’s why PUA in the 2000’s and the red pill is popular. Due to the change of the dating Dynamic with the sexual revolution and hormonal birth control majority of men were having less sex. The internet came to be and now dudes could talk about stuff over the web. Game came into play. Men came on the internet to discuss how to get girls and female nature. The average dude could now have a solution to his reproductive problem. Game as we know it now was popularized by a bunch of average frustrated guys who mimicked certain behaviors in order to get girls, The red pill later came about to explain why Game worked in theory.
MY point being men are inherently problem solvers. Dudes should take their time and figure out what works for them not complain like girls.
Been there bro, it gets better trust me. Most men are too afraid to touch grass fam.
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