I never let people get too close to me, is this normal?

[World]

I wanted to go Mongolia myself aswell along with Tibet and the Himalayas

I watched this documentary about a guy called Tim Cope who basically followed the trail of Genghis Khan and his Mongol army. This guy travelled on horse from Mongolia all the way to Hungary I believe.


For all of my friends, they think a holiday is going to Spain and enjoying the beach or other BS like that. But I just find that so boring and a waste of money.

 

[bluebird]

well were you told what you should do think, how you should react etc, a lot as a kid ?

 

[Mimir]

Idk if I’m happy about it tbh.

I would love to belong to a tribe, a people bonded by the blood of their ancestors for centuries, friends who would fight and die for each other, friends who would have went to war and fought their enemies with each other, who were in the trenches for months fighting off an enemy’s siege.

Is that too much to ask for?

You won't find people like that anymore(you're extremely lucky if you do).Think about it like this, tigers are near extinction due to poaching and cockroaches are flourishing like never before.Now use this info and look at the state of humans in today's world.You find many cockroaches in disguise of humans and the few people who have the spirit of tigers are slowly dying out.Allowing spineless scum to fill the earth.

 

[Gambar]

Too much isolation is not a good thing, there should be a balance between the two. Isolation can cause mental issues. Do you at least interact with people on a social level or do you completely avoid it?

 

[World]

Too much isolation is not a good thing, there should be a balance between the two. Isolation can cause mental issues. Do you at least interact with people on a social level or do you completely avoid it?

I’ll always go out with people if there is something to do. It was a female friend’s birthday today so 8 of us went to have dinner. But I don’t socialise with people if there is nothing to do and we’re just bored. I prefer to go home then and enjoy my own company.

 

[HalimaJ]

I’ll always go out with people if there is something to do. It was a female friend’s birthday today so 8 of us went to have dinner. But I don’t socialise with people if there is nothing to do and we’re just bored. I prefer to go home then and enjoy my own company.

I'm suprised you have female friends tbh. This isn't a diss btw.

 

[Gambar]

I’ll always go out with people if there is something to do. It was a female friend’s birthday today so 8 of us went to have dinner. But I don’t socialise with people if there is nothing to do and we’re just bored. I prefer to go home then and enjoy my own company.

Then there’s nothing wrong with that.

 

[Halimo-2018]

All my relationships are casual and not deep.

Family: I am close with and friendly but I don’t let them get too close with me

Women: I am casual with and never let get too close to me

Friends: idk if they’re even friends or acquaintances. I don’t like hanging around with them if we’re doing nothing, only if we’re out and about. I have many different “friendship” groups but not a clique or best friend.

I have never let someone get close to me since I was child. I don’t like letting people get too close. Nobody knows my real personality except me. And I have a boundary that stops people from knowing it.

its kind like a form of protection people do this because they were hurt by someone after getting close.
Its fine if it helps you not everyone can handle close relationships anyway.

edit: i didn't see the looking down on others part till now then I think you do have a huge problem.

 

[WADA La Aan]

Weirdo.

 

[Saredo]

I watched this documentary about a guy called Tim Cope who basically followed the trail of Genghis Khan and his Mongol army. This guy travelled on horse from Mongolia all the way to Hungary I believe.


For all of my friends, they think a holiday is going to Spain and enjoying the beach or other BS like that. But I just find that so boring and a waste of money.

I've always been fascinated with mongolia. Look at this clip. I saw it in a documentary.
@World @Samaalic Era

 

[World]

its kind like a form of protection people do this because they were hurt by someone after getting close.
Its fine if it helps you not everyone can handle close relationships anyway.

In case I want to cut them off and move on, it would be easier if they weren’t my close friend as well.

 

[Samaalic Era]

I've always been fascinated with mongolia. Look at this clip. I saw it in a documentary.
@World @Samaalic Era

That is true freedom and living in such a free clean environment in nature. I can feel it just by watching it. I have been in baadiyo and you feel so alive when you are there. The Modern life truly robs one of the feeling of being alive

 

[Shmurda]

Good shit keep ur circle small

 

[Saredo]

That is true freedom and living in such a free clean environment in nature. I can feel it just by watching it. I have been in baadiyo and you feel so alive when you are there. The Modern life truly robs one of the feeling of being alive

you said it. True freedom walaal.

 

[Halimo-2018]

In case I want to cut them off and move on, it would be easier if they weren’t my close friend as well.

That is fine until you start using people. Also you said you look down on people. I think you have some serious issues you need to work on. No muslim should be thinking like that.
Good luck

 

[Happy_]

All my relationships are casual and not deep.

Family: I am close with and friendly but I don’t let them get too close with me

Women: I am casual with and never let get too close to me

Friends: idk if they’re even friends or acquaintances. I don’t like hanging around with them if we’re doing nothing, only if we’re out and about. I have many different “friendship” groups but not a clique or best friend.

I have never let someone get close to me since I was child. I don’t like letting people get too close. Nobody knows my real personality except me. And I have a boundary that stops people from knowing it.

Can you pls elaborate a bit on why you are so reserved? Any childhood drama?

 

[Basra]

@Basra diagnose him

Ok i will get to work

 

[Basra]

All my relationships are casual and not deep.

Family: I am close with and friendly but I don’t let them get too close with me

Women: I am casual with and never let get too close to me

Friends: idk if they’re even friends or acquaintances. I don’t like hanging around with them if we’re doing nothing, only if we’re out and about. I have many different “friendship” groups but not a clique or best friend.

I have never let someone get close to me since I was child. I don’t like letting people get too close. Nobody knows my real personality except me. And I have a boundary that stops people from knowing it.

The simple reason is you have a secret to hide. it is very precious secret to guard, u have built Mexico walls, which is understandably because people are nasty by nature. Just trust in God first & your mother huuno

 

[pablo]

How it should be for a man in my opinion

 

[Saredo]

All my relationships are casual and not deep.

Family: I am close with and friendly but I don’t let them get too close with me

Women: I am casual with and never let get too close to me

Friends: idk if they’re even friends or acquaintances. I don’t like hanging around with them if we’re doing nothing, only if we’re out and about. I have many different “friendship” groups but not a clique or best friend.

I have never let someone get close to me since I was child. I don’t like letting people get too close. Nobody knows my real personality except me. And I have a boundary that stops people from knowing it.

Men in my family are like that. While we women hold a press conference on our feelings and what’s going on with our lives, they on the contrary just keep things to themselves.