I need advice

[Baarisiyomoos]

Your mom is some what already aware of your dad maybe, women are built different; they sense shit.

I would tell him to cut that shit out without telling him if you know what I mean. Ask him if your future husband did this to you, how would he take it? Do this without mentioning what you saw.

Please don't tell your mom. That's my advice.

Okay thank you for the advice. I don’t want to hurt my mom but I feel I’m betraying her by not telling her

 

[abayoqurux]

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[Yaraye]

She should make sure to use Somali though. Google Translate is your friend Hehe

yep. Make it look like that the potential 2nd wife is a taken woman or a woman that's already dealing with a man

 

[abayoqurux]

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[Yaraye]

Okay thank you for the advice. I don’t want to hurt my mom but I feel I’m betraying her by not telling her

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[seldiboy]

I probably wouldn’t advise blowing up your family by telling your mother immediately. I would confront your father (with evidence) and threaten to expose him unless he stops. If he doesn’t heed the warning then you have all right to air him out

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

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You are right abaayo but I also do not want to harm my mother emotionally. I’m sick that my father has done this to her especially after how hard she works for us and our family.

 

[senor chang]

Zina is haram doesn’t he know that ? Is he Muslim

 

[Sophisticate]

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[Baarisiyomoos]

Zina is haram doesn’t he know that ? Is he Muslim

Yes he is very devout which is why this is so shocking to me. He’s the one who always reminds me and my siblings to pray on time. I am disgusted

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

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[Sophisticate]

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[Man with a garuun]

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All you've seen are words. You haven't seen your father who is 'ku aasin" that woman. Therefore, since you didn't see daddy doing the actual act, there is no cheating here.

 

[Barni]

I remember finding pictures on my dad phone but I didn’t tell since my mom mentioned that she doesn’t care if it were to happen.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

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[Baarisiyomoos]

All you've seen are words. You haven't seen your father who is 'ku aasin" that woman. Therefore, since you didn't see daddy doing the actual act, there is no cheating here.

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[Baarisiyomoos]

I remember finding pictures on my dad phone but I didn’t tell since my mom mentioned that she doesn’t care if it were to happen.

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[Barni]

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