Abdisamad
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Wallahi you are right our world could just change with a snap of a finger, lately there's a military show down between NATO and Russia.
Thank you for the kind words my sister
I might be getting an arranged marriage
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Wallahi you are right our world could just change with a snap of a finger, lately there's a military show down between NATO and Russia.
Spoken like a typical dad.
Abdisamad
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But sometimes girls bypass their dads/family advice and settle down with the guy.. They even run away together to get married.
Nah just trying to get you to drop that mindset so you don't end up chasing a unicorn that doesnt exist. Even a miskeen back home would be wise to them shenanigans.
A lot of those sons tend to have bachelors and masters degrees from good local or even abroad western Unis on top of being fluent in English and Arabic. Unless they're dameero or unwell they don't really need anyone for anything. Western passports would be a boon, yes, but these aren't fobs desperately searching for salvation but more like a dude who admits he'd probably be more comfortable and, more importantly, secure if he was Canadian or British. 8-10K a month as a starting to midrange salary for a bachelor in the UAE is very livable, abaayo. And frankly very marriage worthy if the woman also has a similar income and works which most reer Khaleej girls do. You can rent out a comfy studio or 1 bedroom in relatively nice neighborhoods and lease out a decent enough car while having money to spare on utilities, food, leisure and savings, no problem. And in a few years you can definitely be sitting on 15K or more like many of my bachelors degree batchmates:
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You'd be surprised at the kinds of nice places you can find especially if you're willing to live out in the boonies a bit and drive 30-40 mins to work. You can legit get a 3 bedroom villa for less than 60K a year:
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Quick question... Are you available for marriage and if so I am very handy around the kitchen. Just saying think about it and get back to me.A lot of those sons tend to have bachelors and masters degrees from good local or even abroad western Unis on top of being fluent in English and Arabic. Unless they're dameero or unwell they don't really need anyone for anything. Western passports would be a boon, yes, but these aren't fobs desperately searching for salvation but more like a dude who admits he'd probably be more comfortable and, more importantly, secure if he was Canadian or British. 8-10K a month as a starting to midrange salary for a bachelor in the UAE is very livable, abaayo. And frankly very marriage worthy if the woman also has a similar income and works which most reer Khaleej girls do. You can rent out a comfy studio or 1 bedroom in relatively nice neighborhoods and lease out a decent enough car while having money to spare on utilities, food, leisure and savings, no problem. And in a few years you can definitely be sitting on 15K or more like many of my bachelors degree batchmates:
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You'd be surprised at the kinds of nice places you can find especially if you're willing to live out in the boonies a bit and drive 30-40 mins to work. You can legit get a 3 bedroom villa for less than 60K a year:
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@Qeelbax Sis, get to know him then make you decision. Money is important. You owe it to the children you bring into this world that they are raised in a stable healthy environment.
Personality and compatibility should be your dealbreaker tho. Drop him if his character ain't it. His money will not wake up at 2AM to change diapers for your newborn.
There are lots of men out there with their own bag that will match your carefree sweet personality. Believe in the abundance of the universe
Personality and compatibility should be your dealbreaker tho. Drop him if his character ain't it. His money will not wake up at 2AM to change diapers for your newborn.
There are lots of men out there with their own bag that will match your carefree sweet personality. Believe in the abundance of the universe
It was a joke... Unless...
A lot of those sons tend to have bachelors and masters degrees from good local or even abroad western Unis on top of being fluent in English and Arabic. Unless they're dameero or unwell they don't really need anyone for anything. Western passports would be a boon, yes, but these aren't fobs desperately searching for salvation but more like a dude who admits he'd probably be more comfortable and, more importantly, secure if he was Canadian or British. 8-10K a month as a starting to midrange salary for a bachelor in the UAE is very livable, abaayo. And frankly very marriage worthy if the woman also has a similar income and works which most reer Khaleej girls do. You can rent out a comfy studio or 1 bedroom in relatively nice neighborhoods and lease out a decent enough car while having money to spare on utilities, food, leisure and savings, no problem. And in a few years you can definitely be sitting on 15K or more like many of my bachelors degree batchmates:
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You'd be surprised at the kinds of nice places you can find especially if you're willing to live out in the boonies a bit and drive 30-40 mins to work. You can legit get a 3 bedroom villa for less than 60K a year:
3 bedrooms Villas for rent in Dubai - 3 BHK Houses for rent | Property Finder UAE
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What would you say is a low salary and what would you say is a very comfortable salary in the UAE?A lot of those sons tend to have bachelors and masters degrees from good local or even abroad western Unis on top of being fluent in English and Arabic. Unless they're dameero or unwell they don't really need anyone for anything. Western passports would be a boon, yes, but these aren't fobs desperately searching for salvation but more like a dude who admits he'd probably be more comfortable and, more importantly, secure if he was Canadian or British. 8-10K a month as a starting to midrange salary for a bachelor in the UAE is very livable, abaayo. And frankly very marriage worthy if the woman also has a similar income and works which most reer Khaleej girls do. You can rent out a comfy studio or 1 bedroom in relatively nice neighborhoods and lease out a decent enough car while having money to spare on utilities, food, leisure and savings, no problem. And in a few years you can definitely be sitting on 15K or more like many of my bachelors degree batchmates:
Studio Apartments for rent in Dubai - 10634 Studio Flats for rent | Property Finder UAE
Search Studio Apartments for rent in Dubai with maps & photos on www.propertyfinder.ae✓ Choose from our 10634 Studio Flats✓ Short Term & Long Term Rentals✓
You'd be surprised at the kinds of nice places you can find especially if you're willing to live out in the boonies a bit and drive 30-40 mins to work. You can legit get a 3 bedroom villa for less than 60K a year:
3 bedrooms Villas for rent in Dubai - 3 BHK Houses for rent | Property Finder UAE
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Abdisamad
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Some guys use this tricks.. I'm a good cook I'll clean and cook and even iron your baati and massage your feets, it's all tricks they use to secure the Xalimo and let her guard down and accept marriage.. Truly smooth faraxs.. After the marriage the poor xalimos will find out it was all sweet talk
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ok go marry wiil oo haysanin income? ma waxas baa ku qanciyo?
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Some guys use this tricks.. I'm a good cook I'll clean and cook and even iron your baati and massage your feets, it's all tricks they use to secure the Xalimo and let her guard down and accept marriage.. Truly smooth faraxs.. After the marriage the poor xalimos will find out it was all sweet talk
Loool, respect and honesty is key to a long lasting marriage. Once the hormonal driven "love feeling" plateaus, she'll leave.
It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not
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SERIOUS, NO TROLLING!
My mom recently found this Arab-Somali man for me. He’s only seen a picture of me but he fancies me. Apparently it was my grandpa who caused this as he apparently knows his father.
I of course said no but turns out he’s from a wealthy family. In Saudi Arabia. Not like extremely wealthy but his fathers income is 7 figures.
I absolutely have zero interest in this man. But I have interest in his pockets.
Wallahi I thought my mom was exaggerating because why would somali saudi person go for a somali person when I live in the west?
This sounds sketchy to me… Like there’s a catch. Is he an adulterer or something? Does he need a proud Darod gyal like me to retain somali traditions? My mom said something about them spending a considerable amount of time back home when they were younger. Maybe he’s retained his somalinino and wants a somali wife. But I’m very western, so that can’t be it.
I seriously question your moral compass. You live in America and can earn a decent money if you want to work hard, but wants to contemplate on marrying someone solely because of their money not because you genuinely want to share a life with him. Life in this dunyaa is very short, lady. Think about hereafter. You ain't in a situation where you're desperate to marry him, so don't plan to take advantage of someone who has done no harm to you.
Besides, your parents want the best for you. They're doing what a responsible parent aught to do. Don't disappoint them by agreeing to a marriage that you honestly don't want to get into. Be upfront with them and with the potential husband that you aren't comfortable getting into.
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LoolLoool, respect and honesty is key to a long lasting marriage. Once the hormonal driven "love feeling" plateaus, she'll leave.
It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not
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Make sure his deen is good and stuff like that.SERIOUS, NO TROLLING!
My mom recently found this Arab-Somali man for me. He’s only seen a picture of me but he fancies me. Apparently it was my grandpa who caused this as he apparently knows his father.
I of course said no but turns out he’s from a wealthy family. In Saudi Arabia. Not like extremely wealthy but his fathers income is 7 figures.
I absolutely have zero interest in this man. But I have interest in his pockets.
Wallahi I thought my mom was exaggerating because why would somali saudi person go for a somali person when I live in the west?
This sounds sketchy to me… Like there’s a catch. Is he an adulterer or something? Does he need a proud Darod gyal like me to retain somali traditions? My mom said something about them spending a considerable amount of time back home when they were younger. Maybe he’s retained his somalinino and wants a somali wife. But I’m very western, so that can’t be it.
I and no other men on this site have no right saying don't marry rich, but make sure you like the other things too incase something happens.
If he lost his money could you love him? Make sure this is the case so that it doesn't go bad if a big test comes.
Other than that go for it, a big paycheck to women is like a big chest size to guys, a rarity that nearly overrides every other factor in marriage.
