No walal I genuinely like oursomali girls and I am generally very protective of them . I know my girl and had tremendous high regard for her and hence my profound disappointment in her. She doesn't forget even strangers leave alone my friends
But you made assumptions about her, instead of asking her. If you really like her, call her, apologise for poor communication and LISTEN.
Because what you did, can become a pattern and you'll end up losing countless good people.